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October 23, 2003
feminists
When I think of feminists, I think of shrill, bigoted women who don't want anyone to ever have happiness in life.
I think of women who want to be victims, so they can blame someone else for their misfortunes in life - namely men.
I think of women who must hate their own mothers - because being a mom is below them.
I think of women who seem to think that getting pregnant must be some great mystery - else why would so many women need abortions now?
Feminists, too often, make us all out to be total idiots who are incapable of being responsible for our own lives. They want the government to be sure we are treated right.
the heck with them. There is no reason any woman with an average IQ or above cannot make it in this world on her own - without welfare.
I have gone from a divorced mom with no income to a technical consultant making a pretty damned good salary within 10 years. I had no technical background - my degree was in psychology, for goodness sake! But, I took jobs that were not perfect so I could get closer and closer to that perfect job.
When I first got divorced from Andy's dad, I started cleaning houses to make ends meet. One of the women I cleaned for suggested I send a resume to the company she worked for - I did, I got an interview, I got a job.
The job sucked big time, I hated it, it was awful, but I stuck around long enough to get another position in the company, and so on, until my salary went from $17,000 a year to 49,000 a year 7 years later.
Since then, I left that company and my salary continues to increase - I'm up to about 70,000 now - which is pretty damned good for a woman who was cleaning house 10 years ago.
Feminists don't like women like me - we prove them wrong - we prove that we can do well without assistance from the government.
And they also don't like me because I truly love my husband (John of Arggghhhh!!!), and I love to bring him coffee in bed in the morning. I love to cook things he likes - I do wish he would pick up after himself better, but hey, he's pretty wonderful for me.
Oh, and we have great sex - that irks them the most - they think that all husbands rape their wives - that sex in itself is a violent act.
good thing I'm not a feminist.
Posted by Beth at October 23, 2003 9:11 PM
Comments
I never really paid any attention to feminists. How do you know they think these things? Have you been approached by a fem? Did they try to indoctrinate you?
Seriously, I must now look for a feminist site in which they declare their evil intentions.
Posted by: pam at October 24, 2003 6:31 AM
Actually, back when I was a social worker, many years ago, I was asked to attend a NOW meeting, and I thought why the heck not. I was appalled at the anger and vitriol expressed by the women there. I'm all for equal rights, equal pay, etc., but these women were speaking of men just as a lot of black people speak of white people - ie: they are the debil!
One in particular was really horrid because she claimed that abortion would be better for adoptees than adoption - I questioned her on that, and she had been adopted and blamed that for all her problems on earth, therefore, she would have been better off never being born. One wonders why she didn't just commit suicide!
I would be much more impressed with feminists if they pushed adoption and contraception one tenth as much as they push abortion.
I overslept yet again, so I can't go on right now, sorry!
Posted by: Beth Donovan at October 24, 2003 7:11 AM
Don't feminists do the same thing they scream about: they reduce a person to a symbol, cast aspersions on them, and relegate all evildoing and bad behaviour on them, while maintaining the opposision's full intent is to oppress and subordinate.... all based on gender?
I saw a neat bumper sticker, it said "Feminists are just so CUTE!" :)
Posted by: LeeAnn at October 24, 2003 7:31 AM
LeeAnn, you are so smart!
Posted by: Beth Donovan at October 24, 2003 8:00 AM
OHMYGOSH! Abortion would be better for adoptees than adoption??? That woman is evil. No, she's EEE-VILLE. I'm HAPPY my unmarried birth mother saw fit to give me up so I could have a better life - whether I had one or not, she wanted better for me.
Posted by: pam at October 24, 2003 8:51 AM
This discussion really shows why us women who are pro woman need a new label. The basic definitions of feminism have been so screwed over the word doesn't really mean anything, which is a shame.
Yes, there are lots of women out there who hate women in all kinds of ways. From those who, like I think you said you were, Beth, who have been hurt by other women and prefer the company of men, and yet they believe women are truly equal (but different than) to men. Several of my coworkers prefer men so much they're all thrilled they had sons and not daughters.
Then there are the radical feminist this post is about.
Me, I love women, always have. I had the best set of girl friends from elementary school thru high school and college. Boys were for dating (and sex) girls were for everything else - at least until I figured out girls could be for dating, too! But do I think it's evil and wrong for women to love and respect the men in their lives - nope.
I don't know my point, but it's a long and complicated issue that's for sure.
Posted by: Beth at October 24, 2003 9:26 AM
I would never say I hate women, I certainly did not mean to imply that, but the great majority of women I have known are catty, sneaky backstabbers. I have very few female friends, and they are not close, close friends. I have my horse friends - we have a great time together riding our horses, but we don't do anything else with each other. I have some web friends, who I can email to or comment to.
I do agree that too many feminists have given women's rights a bad name. I totally believe that women and men are equal - but we are not the same.
Posted by: Beth Donovan at October 24, 2003 1:20 PM
Hear, Hear!
I agree with everything you had to say here.
DC
Posted by: DC at October 24, 2003 4:15 PM
I always equate feminists with PETA. They've lost sight of their goals and those they're supposedly helping are left dangling in the wind.
Great post, Beth!
Posted by: Da Goddess at October 24, 2003 4:48 PM
