I love you daddy. I miss you and wish you were home.
Here I am once again
Like so many times before
Dreaming 'bout the last time I saw you
Now we're so far apart
Close my eyes, see your smile
And, I try not to cry
I promised I'd be strong
Now I'm barely hanging on
Once again
(Chorus)
Once again
Like so many times before
Once again
'Til you walk back through that door
I'll be here, through it all
While you're there standing tall
I'll send my love in this song
'Till you're back here in my arms
Once again
Get the kids off to school
Cup of coffee, think of you
How you'd wake before the sunrise
But, you'd always kiss me good-bye
Get to work, park the car
Thoughts of you aren't very far
Away from my mind
You're with me all the time
A thousand times a day
I long to see your face
Once again
(Chorus)
After dinner, we watch tv
Just the kids and me
Read the message you sent last night
Saying every thing's alright
Say their prayers, it's off to bed
And I kiss their sleepy heads
Just like you always do
Then I whisper daddy loves you
They ask, when is he coming home
I say, "Soon it will be like he's never been gone"
I lay down late at night
and I hold your pillow tight
Your scent still lingers there
I whisper a little prayer
It drifts away on a breeze
Across the seven seas
Through the desert by moonlight
Can you feel my love tonight
'Cause no matter where you are
You're resting safe in my arms
Once again
Once again
Like so many times before
Once again
'Til you walk back through that door
I'll be here, through it all
While you're there standing tall
I'll send my love in this song
'Till you're back here in my arms
Once again
Pointed here from Mudville ... you and Stormy captured the essence of the "sheepdog-family" relationship way better than I ever could.
Absolutely beautiful, Kat ... is it something about the water in Flyover Country, that makes so many of us want so much to stand behind these Men and Women ... while others look down their noses at them?
From a fellow musician who was raised on Sho-Me water ... and has never forgotten his roots.
Pointed here from Mudville ... you and Stormy captured the essence of the "sheepdog-family" relationship way better than I ever could.
Absolutely beautiful, Kat ... is it something about the water in Flyover Country, that makes so many of us want so much to stand behind these Men and Women ... while others look down their noses at them?
From a fellow musician who was raised on Sho-Me water ... and has never forgotten his roots.
Fair winds and a following sea, Sailor and Scouts.
AOC Eberhart passed away last Saturday. The note I got from the Goat Locker was:
"...a life well lived, but cut too short."
I don't know if Sailors go to Fiddler's Green, or somewhere else, but I'm sure they'll pull him up a stool at the bar.
There's a new tent at Fiddler's Green, as well. Last night's storms gave Prodigal Son and his SO a near-miss as a tornado went through Manhattan, Kansas, and then that line of storms smashed Chapman, Kansas, and went marching on through Nebraska and into Iowa, where it struck a Boy Scout camp, killing Josh Fennen, 13, Sam Thomsen, 13, and Ben Petrzilka, 14, and Aaron Eilerts, 13.
I was a Boy Scout, and a camp counselor, and we always played Taps at "Lights Out" in camp.
So, I'm assuming that Josh, Sam, Ben, and Aaron have all pitched a tent together in the woods around Fiddler's Green, and that Chief Eberhart was there to greet them.
So, now is the time at Castle Argghhh! when we dance: In Memoriam.
*sigh*
tears are right on the brink... and have been since I heard about the Scout camp last night. My youngest is at Scout day camp this week. The line of storms that killed those boys is supposed to hit us this afternoon. They don't have enclosed shelters- just the typical large picnic table shelters you find at parks. We were supposed to get bad weather on Tuesday, but it passed before camp started that day. I asked the counselors what they would do if the weather turned bad, and they said "unless there's a tornado, we won't call you to come get them". For me.. that wasn't much of a plan.
When I dropped him off today, the older Boy Scouts were signing the kids in; the leaders were all in a meeting, undoubtedly talking about last night's deaths in Iowa and the storm tracking here.
There is a special place in heave for all 5- the 4 Scouts, and our lost Sailor.
*heavy sigh*
by AFSister on June 12, 2008 12:03 PM
I just heard a news report from FNC. Apparently one of the Scouts told a reporter something along the lines of, "If it had to hit someone, it's good that it hit us, because we know what to do."
Future soldier right there.
"Then I heard the voice of the Lord saying, "Whom shall I send? And who will go for us?"
And I said, "Here am I. Send me!"" -Isaiah 6:8
I am so proud of those boys. Some broke into what was probably the only still-standing building in the campground- a storage shed- and used the ATV and tools to rescue people. Some went to the camp director's house (which is on the campgrounds) and found it completely collapsed on top of him and his family. They dug them out, possibly saving their lives.
This is why I want my boys in Scouting; not because of the unimaginable horror of the experience, but the fact that Scouting programs are raising MEN. Men who do not shirk from duty, who show incredible strength under stress, and men who know how to properly honor, and serve, their country & fellow citizens.
While yet another posthumous award of the Medal of Honor occured this week, a living Holder slipped into the night.
Jack Lucas, the youngest Marine - who lied about his age to enlist for WWII at the advanced age of... 14.
6 days after his 17th birthday, while fighting on Iwo Jima, he jumped on two grenades, saving the lives of his fellow Marines.
LUCAS, JACKLYN HAROLD
Rank and organization: Private First Class, U.S. Marine Corps Reserve, 1st Battalion, 26th Marines, 5th Marine Division. Place and date: Iwo Jima, Volcano Islands, 20 February 1945. Entered service at: Norfolk, Va. Born: 14 February 1928, Plymouth, N.C. Citation: For conspicuous gallantry and intrepidity at the risk of his life above and beyond the call of duty while serving with the 1st Battalion, 26th Marines, 5th Marine Division, during action against enemy Japanese forces on Iwo Jima, Volcano Islands, 20 February 1945. While creeping through a treacherous, twisting ravine which ran in close proximity to a fluid and uncertain frontline on D-plus-1 day, Pfc. Lucas and 3 other men were suddenly ambushed by a hostile patrol which savagely attacked with rifle fire and grenades. Quick to act when the lives of the small group were endangered by 2 grenades which landed directly in front of them, Pfc. Lucas unhesitatingly hurled himself over his comrades upon 1 grenade and pulled the other under him, absorbing the whole blasting forces of the explosions in his own body in order to shield his companions from the concussion and murderous flying fragments. By his inspiring action and valiant spirit of self-sacrifice, he not only protected his comrades from certain injury or possible death but also enabled them to rout the Japanese patrol and continue the advance. His exceptionally courageous initiative and loyalty reflect the highest credit upon Pfc. Lucas and the U.S. Naval Service
Now is the time at Castle Argghhh! when we dance: In Memoriam.
Oh, man. I was just reading part of his biography on line when I was researching Pvt Benson.
He was in for three years, from the age of 14. Imagine that sort of fortitude and drive.
Thank G_d such men lived.
by kat-missouri on June 6, 2008 10:29 AM
You know, I just realized, besides his medal of honor and the purple heart, Pvt Lucas only has two other medals: national defense and one I can't quite make out.
Imagine that.
by kat-missouri on June 6, 2008 12:07 PM
it would appear to be a campaign ribbon with one campaign star.
by RetRsvMike on June 6, 2008 12:34 PM
I imagine he got a Purple Heart which I believe is the single ribbon above the other two.
by JimC on June 6, 2008 3:42 PM
I have read that after he got out of the hospital he went home and finished high school. I hope that he got automatic grades of "A" in Civics and History, for demonstrating the former and making the latter.
I got an email from a buddy in-theater about, oh, three hours after this even occurred. All I can say is - about time, bureaucrats.
John,
Just wanted to give you a heads up that PFC Ross McGinnis, 1-26 IN, was KIA on 04 DEC 2006 here in Baghdad. His parents will receive his Silver Star (hopefully interim) at the funeral. He is being submitted for the Medal of Honor. AIF got a grenade into his M1151 through the top hatch.
He yelled "Grenade" and shielded his comrades by throwing his body on the grenade. Everyone in that vehicle walked away; some were pretty hurt, but nonetheless, were alive.
I hope this award doesn't drag out for two-plus years.
C
And well done, Private McGinnis.
REMARKS BY THE PRESIDENT
IN PRESENTATION OF THE MEDAL OF HONOR
POSTHUMOUSLY TO PRIVATE FIRST CLASS ROSS ANDREW MCGINNIS
THE PRESIDENT: Good morning. Welcome to the White House.
A week ago on Memorial Day, the flag of the United States flew in half-staff in tribute to those who fell in service to our country. Today we pay special homage to one of those heroes: Private First Class Ross Andrew McGinnis of the U.S. Army. Private McGinnis died in a combat zone in Iraq on December the 4th, 2006 –- and for his heroism that day, he now receives the Medal of Honor.
In a few moments, the military aide will read the citation, and the Medal will be accepted by Ross's mom and dad, Romayne and Tom. It's a privilege to have with us as well Becky and Katie, Ross's sisters.
I also want to thank the other distinguished guests who have joined us: Mr. Vice President; Secretary Jim Peake of Veterans Affairs; Secretary Pete Geren of the Army; Secretary Michael Wynne of the Air Force; General Jim "Hoss" Cartwright, the Vice Chairman of the Joint Chiefs. I appreciate other members of the administration for joining us.
I want to thank members of the United States Congress who have joined us today: Steve Buyer, John Peterson, Louie Gohmert. Thank you all for coming. I appreciate the Chaplain for the prayer. We welcome friends and family members of Ross, as well as members of the 1st Battalion, 26th Infantry, including Charlie Company, that's with us today.
We're also joined by Private McGinnis's vehicle crew
-– the very men who witnessed his incredible bravery. We welcome Sergeant First Class Cedric Thomas, Staff Sergeant Ian Newland, Sergeant Lyle Buehler, and Specialist Sean Lawson.
A special welcome to the prior recipients of the Medal of Honor, whose presence here is -- means a lot to the McGinnis family. Thank you for coming.
The Medal of Honor is the nation's highest military distinction. It's given for valor beyond anything that duty could require, or a superior could command. By long tradition, it's presented by the President. For any President, doing so is a high privilege.
Before he entered our country's history, Ross McGinnis came of age in the town of Knox, Pennsylvania. Back home they remember a slender boy with a big heart and a carefree spirit. He was a regular guy. He loved playing basketball. He loved working on cars. He wasn't too wild about schoolwork. (Laughter.) He had a lot of friends and a great sense of humor. In high school and in the Army, Ross became known for his ability to do impersonations. A buddy from boot camp said that Ross was the only man there who could make the drill sergeant laugh. (Laughter.)
Most of all, those who knew Ross McGinnis recall him as a dependable friend and a really good guy. If Ross was your buddy and you needed help or you got in trouble, he'd stick with you and be the one you could count on. One of his friends told a reporter that Ross was the type "who would do anything for anybody."
That element of his character was to make all the difference when Ross McGinnis became a soldier in the Army. One afternoon 18 months ago, Private McGinnis was part of a humvee patrol in a neighborhood of Baghdad. From his position in the gun turret, he noticed a grenade thrown directly at the vehicle. In an instant, the grenade dropped through the gunner's hatch. He shouted a warning to the four men inside. Confined in that tiny space, the soldiers had no chance of escaping the explosion. Private McGinnis could have easily jumped from the humvee and saved himself. Instead he dropped inside, put himself against the grenade, and absorbed the blast with his own body.
By that split-second decision, Private McGinnis lost his own life, and he saved his comrades. One of them was Platoon Sergeant Cedric Thomas, who said this: "He had time to jump out of the truck. He chose not to. He's a hero. He was just an awesome guy." For his actions, Private McGinnis received the Silver Star, a posthumous promotion in rank, and a swift nomination for the Medal of Honor. But it wasn't acclaim or credit that motivated him. Ross's dad has said, "I know medals never crossed his mind. He was always about friendships and relationships. He just took that to the ultimate this time."
When Ross McGinnis was in kindergarten, the teacher asked him to draw a picture of what he wanted to be when he grew up. He drew a soldier. Today our nation recognizing -- recognizes him as a soldier, and more than that –- because he did far more than his duty. In the words of one of our commanding generals, "Four men are alive because this soldier embodied our Army values and gave his life."
The day will come when the mission he served has been completed and the fighting is over, and freedom and security have prevailed. America will never forget those who came forward to bear the battle. America will always honor the name of this brave soldier who gave all for his country, and was taken to rest at age 19.
No one outside this man's family can know the true weight of their loss. But in words spoken long ago, we are told how to measure the kind of devotion that Ross McGinnis showed on his last day: "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends."
Gospel also gives this assurance: "Blessed are they that mourn, for they shall be comforted." May the deep respect of our whole nation be a comfort to the family of this fallen soldier. May God always watch over the country he served, and keep us ever grateful for the life of Ross Andrew McGinnis.
And now I'd like to invite Mr. and Mrs. McGinnis to please come forward for the presentation, and the military aide will read the citation for the Medal of Honor.
The citation is read: The President of the United States of America, authorized by act of Congress, March 3rd, 1863, has awarded in the name of Congress the Medal of Honor to Private First Class Ross A. McGinnis, United States Army, for conspicuous gallantry and intrepidity at the risk of his life above and beyond the call of duty. Private First Class Ross A. McGinnis distinguished himself by acts of gallantry and intrepidity above and beyond the call of duty while serving as an M2 .50-caliber Machine Gunner, 1st Platoon, C Company, 1st Battalion, 26th Infantry Regiment, in connection with combat operations against an armed enemy in Adhamiyah, Northeast Baghdad, Iraq, on 4 December 2006.
That afternoon his platoon was conducting combat control operations in an effort to reduce and control sectarian violence in the area. While Private McGinnis was manning the M2 .50-caliber Machine Gun, a fragmentation grenade thrown by an insurgent fell through the gunner's hatch into the vehicle. Reacting quickly, he yelled "grenade," allowing all four members of his crew to prepare for the grenade's blast. Then, rather than leaping from the gunner's hatch to safety, Private McGinnis made the courageous decision to protect his crew. In a selfless act of bravery, in which he was mortally wounded, Private McGinnis covered the live grenade, pinning it between his body and the vehicle and absorbing most of the explosion.
Private McGinnis' gallant action directly saved four men from certain serious injury or death. Private First Class McGinnis' extraordinary heroism and selflessness at the cost of his own life, above and beyond the call of duty, are in keeping with the highest traditions of the military service and reflect great credit upon himself, his unit, and the United States Army.
Now is the time at Castle Argghhh! when we dance: In Memoriam.
The grenade originally hit McGinnis in the chest and bounced off his vest into the vehicle -- it fell between the front seats. McGinnis was the only one who saw where it went -- he hollered, flipped forward out of his seat and landed on it about a second before it blew.
Hugh Hewitt rebroadcast an interview with McGinnis' parents that had aired on one of the networks. His mother said part of her wishes he had just jumped out and saved himself. But then his father said that McGinnis would hated himself had he done that--"He wouldn't have been himself." And his mother agreed.
Literally, in the case of my Rotary club. I'm at that point in my life where death overshadows life, in that I'm old enough that some of the people I hang out with, well, they wear out, and in my family, at least, the next generation has not yet entered their child-bearing-and-raising stage. Since none of them are yet married, though a couple are, um, "practicing," I'm not complaining. So funerals predominate. Such was the case this week, when fellow Rotarian (and the second of my two mentors-in-Rotary) slipped from "Senior Active" to "Career Completed."
The colors are at half-staff again, at Castle Argghhh!
Colonel Robert "the Baron" von Schlemmer, 83, of Leavenworth, passed away on Memorial Day, Monday, May 26, 2008. If you're a soldier, not a bad day to die, if the time has come to lay your tools aside.
The Baron (as he was called throughout his military career) was born in Long Beach, California in 1925. Baron attended Hollywood High School (how cool is that, eh?) and was drafted into World War II out of Los Angeles City College Art School. He served as a medic, earning a Combat Medical Badge fighting in the Pacific and CBI theaters.
He attended UCLA on the GI Bill and attained the rank of cadet colonel and was a Distinguished Military Graduate in the Army ROTC program there. After school and service in Korea, where he earned a Combat Infantryman's Badge to go with his CMB, he married Joanne Paul in 1951. The von Schlemmers had a pretty classic WWII-generation military career in the Infantry. They served overseas and around the nation a lot - Joanne gave birth to children in Okinawa, Japan; Fort Benning, Georgia; Frankfurt, Germany; and Fort Leavenworth, Kansas.
His career was split between schooling at Fort Benning and Fort Leavenworth, and infantry and intelligence jobs in the US, overseas, and he got stuck at the Pentagon, as most Colonels do. His career included commands in Korea and notably with the Old Guard in Washington, D.C., for President Kennedy. If you've seen the footage of President Kennedy's funeral - you've seen the Baron's work. After more than 30 years service to the nation, he retired from the Army to continue his service in a different vein - to his adopted home of Leavenworth and Fort Leavenworth.
He and Joanne spent years sponsoring officers from around the world who were attending the Command and General Staff College. Sponsorship means they picked up the officers and their families at the airport, helped them get settled and through the bureaucratic maze of getting an identity established in the US - housing, banks, cars, licenses, etc. They sponsored officers from all over the world, especially the Middle East and Northern Africa — a part of the world that Baron loved and whose cultures he greatly respected. Every summer, he taught "American" to the teenage sons and daughters of visiting officers.
Baron was a committed historian and a good teller of the story, serving as the preferred tour guide of the fort and the surrounding area for visiting dignitaries and performed in the “Living Museum” in downtown. He also served this community through work with the Kansas Governor's Board of Tourism and Leavenworth Convention and Visitors Bureau. He recently received the Tourism Ambassador award from the Leavenworth Convention and Visitor's Bureau. Robert was an active Mason with the Scottish Rite, Hancock Lodge. He was dedicated to the Rotary Club of Leavenworth, High 12 Club and the Acacia Fraternity, UCLA Chapter.
Not to worry, the Baron's legacy of service and care has been well-established. He is survived by his wife, Joanne; his daughter, Gretchen of Sonora, Calif.; and his sons, Paul of Ridgecrest, Calif., Kurt of Kansas City, Mo., and Mark of Lawrence, Kan., and their families. He had six grandchildren and recently one great-grandchild - and all those soldiers, US and foreign, who served with him or who were, in a sense, served by him - and he is well-remembered in the community, where he had a real, day-to-day impact, where he lived up to, no, exemplified, the motto of Rotary...
Service above Self.
Rotary meets Wednesdays for lunch at the Riverfront Community Center in Leavenworth. Baron's visitation is at the RCC today.
I'll see ya for lunch today at the Riverfront, one last time, Baron. To say goodbye.
Now is the time at Castle Argghhh! when we dance: In Memoriam for Colonel Robert von Schlemmer.
Update: I'm back from the service, which was actually great fun, to see pictures of the Baron before I knew him. It brought back a lot of memories of "Growing Up Army." Some of you may read this and think to yourself, "Okay, got it - important to you, nice guy, etc - but other than that, so what?"
Well, leaving aside all the other answers, I'll provide this, as a direct answer, especially to those of you who live in the area, or are soldiers.
This. This is a direct impact.
There was a representative from former General and Secretary of State Colin Powell at the service. Bob von Schlemmer is mentioned more than once in General Powell's book - because while others took the public face of the project... Bob von Schlemmer is one of the key people behind why there is a Buffalo Soldier Monument at Fort Leavenworth - and it would be a far different looking monument if not for his "devil's advocacy" regarding the design. That alone is a lasting legacy worth noting.
It was of little strategic value to fight this far from the American mainland and it can be argued that it was in fact counter to the US war effort to expend resources when they were fighting a war they were not winning.
Two things saved New Zealand froma real invasion. A handful of Australian territorials on the Kakoda Trail and the US Navy getting into a fight in the Coral Sea they had little real expectation of winning. Although it uasually assumed that the Japanese had intended to invade Australia next their actual target was New Zealand from which they planned to isolate Australia. The currency for the ocupation had already been printed.
In stead of Japanese, we got Marines. A lot of them never got home again.
From here they left and fought in the Pacific War eventually driving the Japanese Empire back to its own islands;
Old Marines have passed down the tales of favored stations, training areas, and liberty ports. Haiti, Shanghi, Paris (WW1), Australia, New Zealand, and others...
Of these host Nations, the peoples Down Under, the Aussies and the Kiwis remain strong allies, scrappy in a fight, remembered for their hospitality, and secure on that list of folks we Marines would Stand The Line with in a heartbeat. Don't even need to think about it.
Not that I expect you to click and read every link - but the "Surge" is represented in a sense. The list runs in order the posts were posted - and the time spread between them has lengthened, and more people who were not combat casualties, but rather the casualties of time and wear appear towards the end of the list. A trend that continues, hopefully, into the next year.
We go to the garden three times a year, sometimes more. In the garden, flowers bloom all year round. Over the hill, down into the valley, across the little wooden bridge that sits above a stone lined creek. Then, over the next hill, down by the tree. A little later, around the corner and up on the next hill, we walk to the places that we know well, the symmetrical paths guiding our feet.
It's hot now, the sun above us with a slight haze settled over the rolling hills. We hold a quiet conversation, pausing now and again before moving on. Sometimes we walk in silence, each contemplating their own thoughts or, maybe, as I am, holding a silent conversation with those we walk among.
I noticed the couple walking towards us along the path. White haired, the man holding a small arrangement of flowers in one hand and his hat in the other, she with a paper in her hand; they walked as I did, head down, counting:
58.......57.......56......
"Are you lost?" I asked as we met on the path.
The lady looked at the paper, bewildered, and then to me, "Do you work here?"
"No, Ma'am. But I have been here many times," I replied. The older gentleman, in his jeans and checked shirt, was looking down at his hat, then out over the garden. I glanced back to the lady, helpfully.
"Oh. We have, too," she said. "Come every year, but it seems like it keeps changing." I know what she meant. We come every year and it seems like it just keeps growing. There's always a new addition in the garden.
"Are you looking for someone?" I prompted again as I felt a drop of sweat trickle down past my sun glasses.
The man never spoke. "Our dear friend. The lady said section 58. I thought it was on the end of a row, but..." She gestured half heartedly.
"What month and year?" I smiled helpfully and then glanced across the field to get my bearings. The year that section of the garden was added is plainly visible on stark white markers.
"Um...2005...May, I think."
"Oh. I know where that is. I'll show you the way." We had already been to all the places in the garden we needed to go. I knew them well and all the places in between.
I turned back along the path and down back towards the bowl of the valley. Earlier, the thunder had rolled across the hills, echoing like cannon, disturbing the quiet, before a few large drops had fallen. I picked my way carefully along the path, avoiding the bare areas where grass had not yet grown in the new additions. Head down, counting again:
When I first came to the garden I didn't know how to read the stories written in the stone. Now I know. I read them quietly to myself as we went along.
Two young men came up the path in a cart, "Are you finding everything alright?" These polite caretakers are the reason that the garden looks so beautiful all year long.
"Yes. Thank you." I gestured to the older couple who approached more slowly. "They're looking for their friend."
"What's his name? We can look him up for you." They stopped and one young man stepped out, pulling out a book.
I turned to the lady as she approached, the man still silent, standing behind. "What's his name?"
"David...David Leonard Buckles." She looked back to the silent man who stayed where he was.
"Just a minute." The young man flipped the book open. One page. Two pages. "Almost there." He ran his finger down the page, near the bottom he stopped. "Ah...David L. Buckles. Section 58, Row 9, 16." He closed the book and looked up. "In this section, go west...ah...back up the hill. The numbers are on the back of the stones." The stones always face east in the garden. Towards the sunrise so the sun will always be on their faces.
The lady must have still looked confused, "Here, I'll show you." He placed the book back in the cart and took the lady's arm. The other young man followed behind in the cart.
"Thank you," I said as they passed.
"Yes. Thank you." The lady echoed somewhat relieved. She turned back a little to me as they walked, "Thank you."
"You're welcome." I watched them go, a few yards back up the hill towards the silent man. He put his red hat back on, the one with the yellow writing: USMC. Still silent, he raised his hand. I raised mine in acknowledgement. In that moment, I knew him. Then he turned and walked on.
I looked out over the valley, watching the others who moved quietly through the garden of stone with their flowers and small gifts, pausing here and there to read the stories, bending down to place their offerings or straighten a flag. A young woman sat near a stone while a boy stood fidgeting near by.
I watched my mom walk back towards me through the stones, along the grassy path, "I found Fred. Somebody's already been to visit."
"Oh." I heard the chimes from the chapel on the hill start to chime the Armed Forces Medley. We knew so many here in the garden.
Every time I come to the garden, I learn something new. Why the stones faced east. How the sections were organized. How to read their stories. I had always admired the long rows of stone. I knew that the position of each stone was measured out to form precise lines like a military formation on the parade ground.
This time, I got "it". The "it" we're supposed to get when we honor all those who have fought for our nation and are now gone. Not sadness or grief, nor pride or gratitude nor even peace. Not even simply satisfaction for doing what should be done.
They rested here in military precision, the stones a measured distance apart, the last formation, but they had already been relieved from their posts. Their job was done.
What were the words? They were floating around on the edge of my memory. Oh. Yes...
He breaks the bow and shatters the spears...
An odd feeling struck me. Odd because I was standing in the garden of stone, a place where those who had lived through battle now rested and those who remained often still grieved.
It was...happiness.
"What time is it?"
"Hmmm?" I cocked my head and listened to the chimes fade away on the last notes of the Navy song, Anchors Aweigh. "A little after two, I think. Are you ready to go?" We had a birthday party to get to.
I took her arm and we left the garden. But, we'd be back soon to visit again, learning the additions, admiring the flowers and reading the stories as we walked to the places that we knew well. Next time, I'll remember all the words.
Leavenworth National Cemetery
Psalm 46:9-10
9 He makes wars cease to the ends of the earth;
he breaks the bow and shatters the spear,
he burns the shields with fire.
...Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.
Psalms 30:5
Thank you and rest well.
by Cricket on May 26, 2008 8:44 AM
Kat,
The young men were being PC with their comment about facing east. The bodies are facing east to face the returning and Risen Christ.
by Azygos on May 26, 2008 1:40 PM
It's often difficult to know what to say. We in Australia feel for your soldiers for our alliance has been long and many are the struggles we have shared. Remembering them is important to us too, though our official remembrance is on another day. Still any day can be good for remembering, can it not?
Kat you are such a good writer here, you show the compassion and quiet honour in a living setting like few can.
A few years ago I bought a special t-shirt that I only wear once a year, on Memorial Day. It's black. The front has a picture of a flag and a few soldiers who appear to be ready for battle. The words on the back, however, are the reason I bought the shirt, and only wear it once a year:
"What else can you so to our Veterans on Memorial Day other than Thank You?"
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Today, a flag that flew in Iraq was run up the halyard and then descended back, half-way. The colors fly at half-mast this day at Castle Argghhh!
Carolyn Sue Johnston, wife to my office-mate Keith, died last week after a tough-fought struggle with cancer, and is being laid to rest today in Fort Leavenworth National Cemetery.
It's been a long, hard slog for the family, the echoes of which I heard every day in the phone calls, while Keith fought the docs to get her correctly diagnosed and treated, the fight with disease, and Keith's manful efforts throughout to keep his family on an even keel and Sue's spirits up - and his own spirit strong to be the rock that anchored it all.
One quick way to gauge a person's success in life is not how big the house, how fat the bank book - but rather, how many people show up for the funerary events. Last night I went to the wake at the funeral home. It was packed, with a continual flow for two hours. Sue's was a good life, well lived. Last night her father said to me "She was a stubborn girl, who knew what she wanted, and went for it. She taught me so much. And gave us so many chances to do things we would never have done otherwise. She was a good girl." Indeed.
You did well with all this, Keith. As best you could in trying times. I am so sorry for your loss. Dwell on the future, cherish the past. Your family enfolds you - and your friends have your back.
Carolyn Sue Johnston entered the loving arms of her Savior on 17 May 2008. Born in Albuquerque, New Mexico on September 25, 1961, she attended McCollum Elementary School, Manzano High School, and Hoffmantown Baptist Church. After a brief attendance at the University of New Mexico, she enlisted in the U.S. Army, attending basic training at Fort McClellan, Alabama and advanced individual training at Fort Gordon, Georgia.
She served as a communications specialist for the U.S. Armys 26th Signal Battalion, 93rd Signal Brigade in the Federal Republic of Germany from 1981 to 1983. Upon returning from Germany, she served as a trainer at the U.S. Army Signal Center at Fort Gordon, Georgia. In 1985, she returned to civilian life, devoting herself to her family needs and numerous community volunteer activities. Eventually, her love of military service could not be contained, and she returned to duty as a radioman in the U.S. Naval Reserves. She was assigned to the U.S. Navys Western Pacific Fleet where she saw duty on Guam, Saipan, and surrounding waters.
Continuing to support her husbands military career, she arrived at Fort Leavenworth, Kansas in 1993. Her children attended MacArthur and Bradley Elementary schools and Patton Junior High, where she tirelessly volunteered for many of her childrens school programs and activities. She worked as a library assistant and substitute teacher in the Leavenworth, Lansing, and Platte County school districts. Her teaching and mentoring continued, as she began coaching swimming for the Fort Leavenworth Lancers and several years later, as the assistant swim coach of the Platte County High School mens swim team, where she coached for six years.
She also had a love of photography, and she attended the University of Missouri in Kansas City to pursue that passion. She remained ever active in her faith, as a volunteer at Immaculate Conception Parish and as a Sunday school teacher at the Forts Main Post Chapel. Her zest for life, her sense of humor, and her desire to serve others, left their mark on many people.
She is survived by her husband Keith, son Christopher, daughter Angela, mother and father, Bob and Sharon Benton, and sisters Marsha, Jennifer, and Melodie who all miss her terribly but know she is with her Redeemer.
Memorial service will be held at 10:00 AM Friday, May 23, 2008 at the Main Post Chapel, Fort Leavenworth, Kansas. She will be interred with military honors at the Fort Leavenworth National Cemetery. Contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society on her behalf that others may live.
Now is the time at Castle Argghhh! when we dance: In Memoriam, of Carolyn Sue Johnston, soldier, sailor, wife, mother.
In Memoriam
With you a part of me hath passed away;
For in the peopled forest of my mind
A tree made leafless by this wintry wind
Shall never don again its green array.
Chapel and fireside, country road and bay,
Have something of their friendliness resigned;
Another, if I would, I could not find,
And I am grown much older in a day.
But yet I treasure in my memory
Your gift of charity, and young hearts ease,
And the dear honour of your amity;
For these once mine, my life is rich with these.
And I scarce know which part may greater be,--
What I keep of you, or you rob from me.
-George Santayana
Since Sue ended her military career a sailor - I'll end this post with the Navy Hymn.
If you've spare change you don't know what to do with - make a donation to the American Cancer Society, in Sue's name, that maybe the scourge will be beaten back to a bad memory. That would be a fitting legacy beyond the wonderful family she helped build.
Bosun, pipe the side, shipmate going ashore. Fair winds and following seas, Sue.
John, please let your friend Keith know that he and his family are in our prayers.
r/
Chris Horner
by Chris Horner on May 23, 2008 7:59 AM
May God take her and keep her in the hollow of His Mighty Hand.
So live, that when thy summons comes to join
The innumerable caravan which moves
To that mysterious realm, where each shall take
His chamber in the silent halls of death,
Thou go not, like the quarry-slave at night,
Scourged to his dungeon, but, sustained and soothed
By an unfaltering trust, approach thy grave
Like one who wraps the drapery of his couch
About him, and lies down to pleasant dreams.
I wanted to share with you this picture as well as a short synopsis of how it came about.
AO1 David Eberhart (pictured) is terminally ill with cancer. I was his Chief for his first tour on the USS INDEPENDENCE and even then his goal in the Navy was to be a Chief Petty Officer. His career, though very successful, has been interrupted with cancer treatment, periods of remission and finally with the news of being terminal.
He is currently assigned to MALS-24 at Kbay. A few months ago he requested to see the MCPON [Master Chief Petty Officer of the Navy - the Navy's senior enlisted sailor. -ed.]. MCPON Campa happened to be on the island visiting and went to the hospital to see AO1. It was explained to him [MCPON] how badly AO1 wanted to be a Chief and that he even took the Chief's exam from the hospital during a three day period -- he didn't have the strength for more than an hour at a time. On his good days he would put on his uniform and make his way to work though the time there took a severe toll on him physically.
He did not make board as he was six-points shy. It was requested by PACFLT Chiefs that AO1 be made an Honorary Chief Petty Officer. We talked about it in Newport and MCPON was in concurrence. The intent was for MCPON himself to make the presentation.
News came this week that AO1 Eberhart may not make it through the weekend as his health is rapidly declining. FLTCM Tom Howard along with a ton of Chiefs (including CMDCM Don Krampert from CPRW-2) from the area banded together to make this happen as quickly as possible. On Thursday, AO1 David Eberhart was designated an Honorary Chief Petty Officer.
I personally called and talked to Chief David Eberhart following his promotion Thursday and the excitement in his voice came with a strength and commitment that cannot be explained in words. He remembered well our time on the INDY but his short term memory is fading quickly.
Chief Eberhart's terminal prognosis remains listed in days. He is married with two children.
Thank you for all you do.
V/r Aaron
Aaron A. Shipley
Sailor and Command Master Chief
Commander, Patrol and Reconnaissance GROUP
As of this writing, Chief Eberhart is still with us. Which is why I wanted to get this up.
H/t to a Senior Chief for letting me know, and High Five to the Chief community Goat Locker for getting it done. If a bunch of senior NCOs think it's the right thing to do - it usually is wise to go along with them.
Sorry I didn't see an e-mail address for passing along congratulations directly. Please forward.
Welcome to the Goat Locker, Chief Eberhart. It is an honor and a pleasure to have you with us.
ETC J. A. Cook, USN Ret.
by Jim Cook on May 22, 2008 12:21 PM
The only email addresses I have regarding this are official military addresses, which DoD prefers not to be published openly on the web. Rest assured, any good wishes will be made known to Chief Eberhart.
GULP. Yeah, I've got a HUGE lump in my throat right now. Damn proud of you, Chief. DAMN proud.
by AFSister on May 22, 2008 1:10 PM
Chief Eberhart,
You are A FINE EXAMPLE OF REAL LEADERSHIP!
Respectfully,
"Grumpy"
by Grumpy on May 22, 2008 4:27 PM
Chief Eberhart,
Congratulation, Chief Job Well Done.
Frank Gentile
USAF, MSGT (Ret)
by Frankg on May 22, 2008 4:33 PM
Good on ya Chief!! Welcome to the Mess!
God bless you and protect you.
Once a Chief, always a Chief.
DS
Sep '90 - Korea!
by Desert Sailor on May 22, 2008 4:52 PM
John, that's a freakin' outstanding story!! Thanks for sharing that. As the son of a Command Master Chief, I know the honor that comes with being a Chief and what it meant to this man. Simply awesome.
Chief Eberhart - Your devotion, commitment and courage gives me pause to reflect on how fortunate we Americans are to have the best among us in the service of our nation.
You have my sincerest admiration and appreciation!
Chris Fleming
USCGR
by Chris Fleming on May 22, 2008 8:49 PM
Chief Eberhart,
Congrats, and welcome aboard.
CTICM(NAC)
by Fod on May 22, 2008 10:32 PM
I am so happy and proud for Chief Eberhart! God Bless you Chief and thank you for your service!
by Dr. Harden Stuhl on May 23, 2008 3:20 AM
OutSTANDING!
In a world where the military is often shown as gun toting Neanderthals, this story shows to the world our community recognizes excellence in Spirit, Hope and Pride.
Bravo Zulu to one and all.
To Chief Eberhart, worry not about your family, we've got your six.
by SeniorD on May 23, 2008 6:41 AM
Never served myself, but everytime I read a story about the various militaries around the world they say that what distinguishes the American military and gives it it's strength is it's NCO's, and the amount of trust and respect accorded them by the officers. Here's an example of why they deserve it.
by RonF on May 23, 2008 9:01 AM
Never served myself, but everytime I read a story about the various militaries around the world they say that what distinguishes the American military and gives it it's strength is it's NCO's, and the amount of trust and respect accorded them by the officers. Here's an example of why they deserve it.
by RonF on May 23, 2008 9:03 AM
Well done, Chief. The Hat fits, and is fitting.
Salute,
by spd rdr on May 23, 2008 9:48 AM
Nicely done, shipmate. Many thanks for the update.
A quick aside regarding the AO rating. (And I hope the humor isn't too out of place.)
I was stationed at NAS Pensacola, where the kids going through Aviation OCS were tagged as 'Aviation Officer Candidates' and had nametags with 'AOC Lastname.' They even wore little anchors on the collars of their khakis.
Shortly afterwards, I was at Miramar talking to this 30-ish AOC. I initially thought, "wow, this guy certainly has his act together for a candidate, and is a bit older..."
Fair winds!
HM2 USNR
by HM2 on May 23, 2008 10:17 AM
Outstanding...and humbling. Bless you Chief and congratulations. Well done!
by Cricket on May 23, 2008 11:07 AM
...and following seas, Chief. Good on ya. Aloha oi, until we meet again. --cp, MSgt, USAF(ret)
by cold pizza on May 23, 2008 11:49 AM
John,
I just today sent Cap'n Lex an email offering to pass on this very story, with pics, after he linked you. I couldn't see your post cause you're blocked in the daytime over here, dagnabit. Anyhoo, I see now that you have the full story posted, so I wanted to say thanks. Guys like Chief Eberhart, and the Chiefs that made this happen, exemplify today's CPO community and make us all stand a little taller.
Welcome to the Mess, Chief!
[I guess I have to be happy that apparently we're not blocked at night!]
by Ernie on May 23, 2008 12:37 PM
This show's that the spirt is still there and remains within the CPO community BUT I never thought I would see a CPO referred to as a "Senior N.C.O." in what appears to be a navy communication (the originator of this document) - Senior N.C.O. is true in paygrade only but NEVER should a C.P.O. be referred to as an N.C.O. I can remember in the 60's being stationed with both the Air Force and Army trying to explain to them that we WERE NOT N.C.O.'s but C.P.O.'s and damn proud of it..We explained that we had to show our proficiency in our rate by examinaton to be promoted, not just put in the time........... but I guess things change, as the years slide by.
by Jim Dupuis on May 23, 2008 4:32 PM
Congratulations AOC. Glad you made it.
Vance Bennett
MSTC USCGR
by Vance Bennett on May 23, 2008 10:13 PM
Mr. Dupuis - the retired Army guy who put the post up (that would be me) is one who made the characterization.
You'll note in the blockquoted piece, Master Chief Shipley didn't do it.
Your angst stems from the fact that I'm just a poster child for Goldwater-Nichols.
But times have changed in ways you apparently aren't aware of either - senior Army non-commissioned officers have to show their proficiency, and are board selected for promotion, long gone are the days of just showing up for work waiting for someone to die or retire.
But times have changed in ways you apparently aren't aware of either - senior Army non-commissioned officers have to show their proficiency, and are board selected for promotion, long gone are the days of just showing up for work waiting for someone to die or retire.
Sarah is the kind of wife a good warfighter dreams of having waiting for him back home--strong, loyal, responsible, flexible, loving and unspeakably proud of her husband and the profession he has chosen... A warrior wife.
Less than a year ago, far later than what they had planned for, she was finally pregnant. She lost the baby at about six weeks, though she didn't know until later.
Just over a week ago, her husband deployed to Iraq. Last weekend, she found out she was pregnant again. It wasn't part of their plan, but they rejoiced across the miles.
The other day, she got some verybadnews [three separate links].
Of course we'll hit up the pertenant PTB on this, Fuzzy.
But, and I don't feel comfortable saying this at her site but you might be able to in time work this in sotto voce, having had two sisters go thru this sometimes it is for the best. My oldest sister took all the drugs possible and six months of bedrest to keep a pregnancy that didn't want to. THe result: a kid who suffers tremendously from a, literal, hole in his heart and ears; mental retardation; is unable to speak intelligbly; has severe mood control problems; will always have to be supervised for the rest of his life while understanding and enjoying so little of it. I've watched that kid suffer from day one, and, you know, maybe it wasn't worth it. I love my nephew, but, damn, I can't say satisfying my sister's want for a child was worth what he has to live with for her to get it. It might be for the best. sad, but true.
On the other hand, the younger of my two older sisters did the same and has a perfectly normal daughter.
Best be: stay calm and don't surrender to the hormones, trust the docs because they've got the detached objectivity necessary to make smart decisions, and believe in The Plan. He knows better than we.
But, yeah, hitting up the Lord and His Host is getting done.
by ry on May 17, 2008 6:03 PM
Ry, thanks for the perspective. Of course a healthy baby is the definite goal, no matter how long it takes us to get there. And I know that pregnancies that end early end for a reason.
Oh Sarah..... I am so, so sorry. Been there, done that a couple of times myself. It never gets easier. Time goes by, but it never gets easier from one time to the next.
You and your dear, dear husband are in my thoughts and prayers. You've got an incredible circle of 'net friends to lean on, and being a military wife, you're made of some strong stuff, but this is going to be hard.
It's ok to withdraw, to mourn, to be angry and sad all at the same time. Things do happen for a reason, even though we may never know that reason. It could be, like Ry said, the baby just wasn't forming correctly. Maybe God has other plans, like waiting until your husband can be by your side to enjoy the entire pregnancy. We don't know, but we do know how wonderful you are, and how much you are liked and loved all over this world.
Hugs, prayers and thoughts inbound.
by AFSister on May 17, 2008 6:44 PM
Sarah, damn, I was trying to not have that pushed on you right now. I'm not a total callous slob after all. I was hoping Fuzz could drop it in at a more appropriate time in a more tactful manner. She's better at it than me. Sorry, I was really hoping to keep you from seeing that right now. Not what you need to hear. But what do I expect for a public square? Sometimes I'm a total idiot instead of just mostly. Sorry.
But, yeah. My oldest sister's husband(AFSis can tell you how useful he is, should've killed him when I had the chance) wasn't there either. Best bet is to stay calm, Sarah. Keep your head, homegirl. Staying calm is best for you and the baby at this point. Hard. Real hard. I've been there for both my sisters, and I have an idea of what it looks like from the male side. So just hang in there. don't get into the nightmare scenarios. It isn't healthy.
BUt, yeah, you got friends out this way asking for favors. Big Ones.
by ry on May 17, 2008 7:55 PM
Ry, no apology needed at all. We don't know each other, but others might vouch for the fact that I'm pretty matter-of-fact anyway. You don't need to sugarcoat it for me :) We're still hoping for the best, bracing for the worst. Either way, I always take comfort in knowing that people have lived through far worse hardships than we've ever known and come out on top. We will too.
Sarah, you're an Army wife. Which means yer tough, but can always use the help.
I'll ask for the help.
The only thing stronger than the soldiers are the ones who wait for them to return.
People just don't get that, sometimes.
But having been a waiter, and having caused someone to wait - I know you are up to this, and your soldier... well, he's going to be tough, too.
Whatever we can do, you have but to ask - and I say that only because I've discovered I can't mind read worth a damn. Especially after 3 Castle 'ritas.
You are in my and my wife's prayers. I can't tell you why these things happen, just that they do. I hope and pray your wishes are answered, and I thank God that there are people like you that love and support our soldiers with their whole being.
Best wishes, prayers, and our love.
Alan & Shirley Briley
(Former sniper, grunt, para... current ER nurse..., and long distance friend.)
by Alan Briley, RN on May 18, 2008 7:21 AM
Thank you for all your kind words. It means so much to me.
I'll make sure FbL keeps you posted.
After 17 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said, 'I love you, but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you.'
* * *
The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been alone for 20 years, but the demands of my work and my two boys had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.
* * *
That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.
* * *
'What's wrong, aren't you well,' she asked?
* * *
My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news.
* * *
'I thought it would be pleasant to spend some time with you,' I responded. 'Just the two of us.'
She thought about it for a moment, and then said, 'I would like that very much.'
* * *
That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her
house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last
birthday on November 19th.
* * *
She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angels. 'I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed,' she said, as she got into that new white van. 'They can't wait to hear about our date'.
* * *
We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips. 'It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small,' she said. 'Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favor,' I responded.
* * *
During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation- -nothing extraordinary but catching up
on recent events of each other's life. We talked so much that we missed the movie.
* * *
As we arrived at her house later, she said, 'I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite
you.' I agreed.
* * *
'How was your dinner date ?' asked my wife when I got home. 'Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined,' I answered.
* * *
A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn't have a chance to do anything for her.
* * *
Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place
mother and I had dined. An attached note said: 'I paid this bill in advance. I wasn't sure that I
could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your wife.
You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you, son.'
* * *
At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: 'I LOVE YOU' and to give our loved ones the time that t hey deserve. Nothing in life is more important than your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off till 'some other time.'
* * *
Somebody said it takes about six weeks to get back to normal after you've had a baby.... somebody doesn't know that once you're a mother, 'normal' is history.
* * *
Somebody said you learn how to be a mother by instinct... somebody never took a three-year-old shopping. [Heh. Remember that mysterious 'lolo' I wanted?]
* * *
Somebody said being a mother is boring.... somebody never rode in a car driven by a teenager with a driver's permit. [Mom's response, as I missed taking paint off her door by microns - "I assumed you'd already *been* driving!"]
* * *
Somebody said if you're a' good' mother, your child will 'turn out good'.... somebody thinks a child comes with directions and a guarantee. [Um, no comment.]
* * *
Somebody said you don't need an education to be a mother.... somebody never helped a fourth grader with his math.
* * *
Somebody said you can't love the second child as much as you love the first.... somebody doesn't have two children. [As if love is a finite, non-renewable resource.]
* * *
Somebody said the hardest part of being a mother is labor and delivery.... somebody never watched her 'baby' get on the bus for the first day of kindergarten ... or on a plane headed for military 'boot camp.' [Or her husband and son going off to dangerous places...]
* * *
Somebody said a mother can stop worrying after her child gets married....somebody doesn't know that marriage adds a new son or daughter-in-law to a mother's heartstrings.
* * *
Somebody said a mother's job is done when her last child leaves home....somebody never had
grandchildren .
* * *
Somebody said your mother knows you love her, so you don't need to tell her.... somebody isn't a mother.
* * *
Pass this along to all the 'mothers' in your life. And to everyone who ever had a mother. This isn't just about being a mother; it's about appreciating The people in your life while you have them....no matter who that person is.
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I'm sorry we never had that date, Mom. But we did have all those nights around the kitchen table.
And the grounds of the Castle are liberally sprinkled with daffodils - since the Castle is your equivalent of that pre-paid dinner.
Hamilton “Mac” McWhorter was 7 years old when a barnstorming pilot visited his hometown and he took his first ride in an airplane.
From that moment, he knew he never wanted to do anything else.
The future Navy commander was a naval aviation cadet undergoing training when Pearl Harbor was attacked. Within a couple of years he had become the first American pilot to achieve “Ace” status flying a new airplane, the Hellcat.
CDR McWhorter's memoir is entitled "The First Hellcat Ace"
His son Jon has put up a blog with the same name in his honor.
He flew missions off of the USS Essex.
CDR McWhorter passed away April 12 at his home in El Cajon. He was 81. A memorial service was held Sunday the 4th at First United Methodist Church of El Cajon. His ashes were interred yesterday, May 5 at Fort Rosecrans National Cemetery.
You can view a History Channel snippet with CDR McWhorter on YouTube.
Thank you for your service, sir.
Hotal Tango to the AO Shack on Yahoo Groups.....they let me peek........Maggie
Now is the time at Castle Argghhh! when we dance: In Memoriam.
Davis was worried about returning to Iraq and made sure to spend more time with her family, including her husband and three sons before her most recent deployment.
“I think she was concerned particularly for her children,” [her mother] said. “She knew the danger of going back a third time.”
Yet she went. She died in Tal Al-Dahab, a few miles from here, on 5 November, 2007, along with four other soldiers when an IED detonated near their Humvee. They were enroute to set up a combat aid station.
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AFSister has a post you should read -- about the Band of Sisters serving their country. Performing their duty, often at hazard, often unrecognized.
There is another Band of Sisters who performed their duties, faced the hazard and, in our sorrow, we search for ways to recognize their sacrifice and honor their memories.
SSG Carletta Davis will be remembered.
Our hospital, staffed and run by the 506th Expeditionary Medical Squadron, is undergoing renovations. Part of that was to be an upgrade to the combat clinic, the ER for casualties coming in by medevac.
Instead of upgrading the existing clinic, they built a new one.
The paint was still wet when I took that picture...
"There are only two important things in life: the people who you love and who love you, and your country."
Take a close look at that group of pictures above. They're all of the same person.
He grew up in an abusive household, one in which his drunk of a father shot his mother after they had divorced when he was eight... and before they remarried when he was ten. As an adult, he was a baseball player--Rookie of the Year, World Series MVP, a member of the great New York Yankees post-WWII teams. He's famous today for broadcasting baseball games on CBS and San Diego Padres radio. In fact, he's in the broadcasters' wing of the Baseball Hall of Fame. And...
He's a highly-decorated dive-bomber and fighter pilot, veteran of WWII and Korea. A Marine Corps colonel.
But according to his colleagues and friends, you wouldn't know any of that from entering his home. They report it contains no displays of baseball awards or artifacts from his famous teammates, no medals or "I love me" wall as some veterans have, no pictures or plaques from his ongoing broadcasting days. When he is spoken of by those who know him, instead of talking about his achievements, they use the word "gentleman" a lot. "Not a nicer guy around," is often heard, too--both from colleagues and fans. And in his life of 32 years as a San Diego celebrity, the worst thing anyone has ever said about him is that he has a habit of being married to younger women. But hey, when you're 83 years old, most of the women out there are younger!
Getting him to talk about himself is a challenge to those who have interviewed him. He jokes about being a terrible baseball player, and prefers instead to talk about how lucky he was to know the other people on his team. He doesn't talk about being a Marine, and he acts as if he's amazed to find himself in the Baseball Hall of Fame. But after years of "nagging" from his wife, he has finally put it all on paper for the rest of us.
Meet Jerry Coleman, beloved broadcaster of the San Diego Padres (from listening to him call games for 20 years, I assure you that interview is vintage Jerry--in his humility, gentlemanly behavior, and humor). His long-time broadcast partner Ted Leitner gets away with calling him "Colonel," but I suspect Ted has a special dispensation. To the rest of us he's just our favorite Padres broadcaster, our guide to the game, Mr. Malapropism, and another amazing example of that "Greatest Generation."
A tough childhood amid the Great Depression, baseball in the heyday of Maris and Mantle, service in WWII and Korea, and life in the paradise of Southern California... enough for at least three quintessentially American lives... and still going strong. As soon as I can scrape together the shekels, I'm buying this.
Since today is the anniversary of the landings on Okinawa, this is apt.
They paid for this: Red Beach 2, Tarawa, 20 november, 1943...
John,
Your blog name is how I feel today. Here’s why.
Carl William Martin was born in March 1926 in Cumberland, Maryland. When we entered World War II, his father was given a choice: join the service or relocate to Pittsburgh (alone) to continue his work in the steel mills as an essential war industry; he relocated to stay close to his family of small children.
Carl, the oldest child, waited until his 17th birthday and then took his father’s place. He joined the Navy but was sent to boot camp at Parris Island and assigned to the Marine Corps' Second Assault Amphibian Battalion. The "Second Amphibian Tractor Battalion" was an organic unit of the 2nd Marine Division, composed of a Headquarters and Service Company and three letter companies, all equipped with the Landing Vehicle Tracked-1 (LVT-1). In 1942, the Battalion set sail from San Diego, CA with the First Marine Division and participated in assaults on Guadalcanal, Tarawa, Saipan, Tinian and Okinawa. Carl was seriously wounded, but stayed with it until the Battalion was deactivated in November 1945 and he was discharged.
Carl came home, married his sweetheart, Margaret, and started a heating oil business. He was a bright guy and invented some controls for heating units that were patented and sold worldwide. He and his skills remained in high demand from businesses and residence owners for the rest of his life.
In 2001, Margaret contracted Alzheimer’s and quickly became totally uncommunicative. Carl moved her to a nursing home. For the next five years, until Margaret passed away, Carl went to the nursing home every single day, seven days a week and 52 weeks out of the year, to have lunch with Margaret and talk to her. He left her voice on the answering machine for his heating oil business, so whenever we called we heard her first. He would let her entire greeting play before he would pick up the phone.
Two years almost to the day after Margaret died, Carl passed away last Friday in Cumberland. He paid his dues to the nation and to his wife and family. Now he is back with Margaret in heaven – and probably wishing that he had gone to hell so that he could handle the heating controls down there. But in spite of his experience in the Pacific, he didn’t qualify for deployment to that hot spot.
Rest in Peace, Carl. I have lost a really great pal.
Jack
The sheepdogs walk among us all our lives, and we never notice them, until we need them. A whole generation of them are slipping by us now, even as you read this.
...so we could have this - Red Beach 2, Tarawa, today.
Fair winds and a following sea, sailor.
Now is the time at Castle Argghhh! when we dance: In Memoriam, for Carl Martin, US Navy, WWII, a friend of a friend of the Castle.
I was already reverent as I read this post, but when I saw that unexpected picture of the old sherman sitting at Tarawa, .... THAT really hit me. Today, I remember Okinawa and the bloody battles for the islands of the Pacific. Salute.
by RobM on April 1, 2008 1:51 PM
Carl Martin was, indeed, a member of the greatest generation. He may have intended to enlist in the Navy, but he WAS a Marine. He did his boot camp at Parris Island, and served with the 2d Amphibian Tractor Battalion (LCol Henry G. Lawrence, Jr. Commanding)
by Marine6 on April 1, 2008 1:56 PM
According to his buddy Jack, he was a sailor serving with the Marines, like a Corpsman.
Technically, he may have been in the Navy, but there ain't a Marine alive or dead who would deny him the right to be called a Marine:
For he who sheds his blood with me shall be my brother...
Not the first or last time we Jarheads have ignored convention and granted the title 'MARINE' to somebody who bled with us, regardless of which lash-up they started out in...
I realize that his friend thought Carl was in the Navy, but the specifics he provides indicate that Carl was a Marine. His battalion, 2d Amphibian Tracs, were the cutting edge of amphibious technology. They had 75 of the slightly older the LVT-1, and 50 of the brand new armored LVT-2 model. In fact, they were so new that they weren’t even delivered to the battalion until after the invasion practice had been conducted. Of 150 LVTs at Tarawa 90 were sunk, destroyed by gunfire or otherwise disabled during the battle.
There were many sailors involved in the battle. In fact, two doctors, 26 corpsmen, and about 100-150 other naval personnel (Naval Gunfire Observers, boat crews) were killed in action. And Third Battalion, 18th Marines, was a U.S. Navy Seabee Construction Battalion providing engineer support.
Every man who served there deserves all the respect that they earned.
by Marine6 on April 1, 2008 6:32 PM
I realize that his friend thought Carl was in the Navy, but the specifics he provides indicate that Carl was a Marine. His battalion, 2d Amphibian Tracs, were the cutting edge of amphibious technology. They had 75 of the slightly older the LVT-1, and 50 of the brand new armored LVT-2 model. In fact, they were so new that they weren’t even delivered to the battalion until after the invasion practice had been conducted. Of 125 LVTs at Tarawa 90 were sunk, destroyed by gunfire or otherwise disabled during the battle.
There were many sailors involved in the battle. In fact, two doctors, 26 corpsmen, and about 100-150 other naval personnel (Naval Gunfire Observers, boat crews) were killed in action. And Third Battalion, 18th Marines, was a U.S. Navy Seabee Construction Battalion providing engineer support.
Every man who served there deserves all the respect that they earned.
For founding Soldiers Angels and other exemplary work that she does to make the world a better place, Patti has just been notified that she is the recipient of the VFW 2008 James E. Van Zandt Citizenship Award.
From the VFW web site: James E. "Jimmy" Van Zandt was Commander-in-Chief of the VFW three times, and a veteran of three wars (World War I, World War II, and the Korean War). He served as an enlisted man in World War I and retired as an admiral following the Korean War. Descended from a pioneer family in Blair County, Pennsylvania, Jimmy worked his way from newsboy to United States Congressman. Recipients of the award named in Van Zandt's honor exemplify his dedication to public service, citizenship, and other admirable qualities.
[Denizens know, but newer visitors may not: besides sending hundred of thousands of care packages, ministering to the wounded, comforting families of the fallen, sewing blankets for hospitalized veterans, and caring for those on the front lines and their families on the homefront in myriad other ways, Soldiers' Angels is the organization that facilitates a program especially near and dear to the hearts of Castle Denizens--Project Valour-IT.]
I think she's done GREAT work. I do, however, believe she could make better use of the money by not mailing out all the crap thaht she does. Of late, I've just taken the free stamp and thrown the other stuff away. As a rule, I don't give money to charities thaht ask for it. I pretty much know who I want to support and why. I'll continue to support VALOUR-IT, because I see the immediate result AND trust the blog sponsors who're pushing it. Truly, my best wishes to Patti - but I'm tired of the mail. Just sayin'. ML
I hear you, Mike--I'm not crazy about it, either. It apparently brings in a lot of money, though. If you want to support one of the great things Soldiers' Angels is doing, my suggestion is that you choose a project that you can donate to directly, and do it through either a Paypal button specifically for the project (on the project/team page on the their website), or with a check (and a note saying it goes to a particular project) to one of the addresses on their donation page.
That way your money will go only to what you want it to.
I'd like to point out what Fuzzy was trying to say but didn't explicitly - if you give money to Project Valour-IT for example, or any other specific project, that money goes to the project and not into the funds that SA uses for overhead, mailings, etc.
100% SPOT ON, MIKE.
V-IT is as far as I will go with SA anymore. It's unique, and it works, but I'm sick and tired of being hounded for money that I just don't have. It makes me more likely to *NOT* donate. And I'm sick and tired of hearing about how Patti's the most wonderful mother in the world for starting SA- she's not. I know plenty of other mothers (and fathers) who are just as deserving of that title who will never receive even a fraction of the attention she gets.
My .02.
Let the Sis-Bashing begin.
by AFSister on March 31, 2008 12:29 PM
Sorry about that Mike (and John). I thought I had a sentence at the end of that comment that thank him for continuing to support Valour-IT.
AFSis, I remember our conversation on the subject, and I hope you remember my reaction. :) Regarding "wonderful mother, I agree that there are many unsung parental heroes out there (I'd put my own mother near the top of the list, and there are many I know who would join her there). I was contacted by someone outside Soldiers' Angels regarding the "America's Favorite Mom" contest, and was asked to go behind her back to ask her son to nominate her (which I successfully did) with the idea that it would boost the visibility of Soldiers' Angels. As far as I understand things, that's exactly what SA hopes to do with Patti's participation.
Fuzzy... that's EXACTLY the kind of thing I'm talking about. I've received countless requests to "go vote for Patti! The most wonderful mother in the world!!" And I've done so exactly ZERO times.
If you read the stories of the other mothers, you'll see that they were nominated for far less glamorous reasons than the national accolades Patti has received.
This whole "promote Patti to promote SA" is getting REALLY out of hand. The soldiers aren't the ones getting the attention; she is. And isn't the whole idea behind SA is to focus on the SOLDIERS???
(and yes, I do remember our conversation)
by AFSister on March 31, 2008 1:17 PM
I won't speak to the appropriateness of the current overall level of promotion of Patti, but since I did encourage this latest escapade, I feel the need to speak in my defense. Here's why I thought the attention was a good thing for the troops (and you know, I'm ALL about supporting our servicemembers in word and deed): attention to Patti means attention to SA, which means attention to the reasons for SA's existence--the troops and their families--and an opportunity to encourage people to join/donate/create, resulting in greater capacity to meet the needs of troops and their families.
Maybe I'm being too idealistic, but that's my take on things.
He's really gone. It's something I've always "known", but somehow, getting that confirmation tonight is just numbing.
I keep finding myself saying "He's really gone", and breaking out in tears again. His parents NEVER gave up believing that he would be found, alive, and brought home. They were partially right- he was found, and will be brought home.. but not alive.
The Thunder Run has linked to this post in the - Web Reconnaissance for 03/31/2008 A short recon of what’s out there that might draw your attention, updated throughout the day...so check back often.
Therefore, now is the time at Castle Argghhh! when we dance: In Memoriam of Sir Arthur C. Clarke, futurist, most excellent SciFi author, and Flight Lieutenant, Royal Air Force.
[Kat - this is a personal letter to our soldiers, veterans and, to some extent, their families on the anniversary of the beginning of the Battle for Iraq and nearly seven years after the invasion of Afghanistan]
Dear Soldier and Veteran,
Before I begin, I wanted to take this moment to thank you for your service on my behalf. I realize that these brief words cannot do justice to, nor express my feelings about, that service, your time a way from your family, the risks that you have taken, the exhaustion you experienced, the wounds you have suffered, the friends that you have lost or the conditions that you live in while you are fulfilling your oath to defend our nation. Yet, I wanted to say it anyway because I don't believe that you hear it as often as you should from your fellow citizens. So, thank you.
This letter, though, is more in the way of an introduction and an explanation. We have been at war now for almost seven years. It is one of the longest wars our nation has ever fought. The fact that we can still voluntarily muster so many fine men and women to take the oath, put on a uniform and take up the fight is a testament to the spirit of service that our nation has nurtured since the moment the first shot was fired in our Revolutionary War. The many long deployments in tough conditions is a also testament to the resilience and fortitude of people like you.
I am the one that sent you to war. No, I am not the president of the United States who ordered your deployment under the War Powers Act. Nor am I a member of congress who voted yea or nay to authorize that use of force. Neither am I the general who drew up the plans and signed the orders for you to be deployed.
It is not arrogance nor with any sense of guilt that I claim to be the one. It is simply that, as a citizen of the United States who enjoys the privileges and rights of our nation, defended through your service, I am also responsible for the policies and actions of our nation including the decision to send you to war. I feel it is important to say that because there is no dearth people who spend time trying to mitigate that responsibility in one way or the other.
Some people claim it is not their responsibility because they did not vote for this or that president or congress person. Or, that the person they voted for did not vote to send you to war. Or, that, their authorization to use force was abrogated by some nuanced political statement that would allow them to claim victory if it could be had or to disavow defeat, if victory seemed impossible. Some believe that, because they did not support the war from the beginning, or ever, they cannot be held accountable for its conduct, the losses or the outcome.
I believe that is wrong. We live in a representative democracy. It is a form of government that allows for the most voices of our nation to be heard while insuring that necessary decisions are not lost in the cacophony of opinions and, often, the selfish demands of a minority or the majority. It also means that, when a decision is made on our behalf, based on that representation, it is the decision of our nation. As such, it becomes the responsibility of every citizen who lives in and enjoys the privileges and rights of our nation.
Once our armed forces leave our shores and go into harms way, I believe there is no room for political nuance, no gray areas to exploit. It becomes black or white: victory or defeat; supporting the mission or not supporting the mission; supporting our troops or not supporting our troops.
Still, I cannot speak for everyone. It is the beauty of our system that everyone has a voice and that individual responsibility is the cornerstone, the building block of our nation. You would know best since, as a member of an all volunteer force, your service is the epitome of that individuality and responsibility. So saying, I can only take responsibility for myself and my beliefs. Therefore, I say only that: I am the one.
I am not asking for forgiveness, only your understanding. When you are responsible for the safety and the future of your family, friends and neighbors, you must make difficult decisions under less than desirable situations and often without the optimal information. I believe that is the reason and the conditions under which we made the decision to go to war. I believe I can ask you for that understanding because I know that you make those decisions every day and know that it is a heavy burden to bear for yourself and others.
It is one of the few burdens that we share, though unequally. It is the soldier in a war zone and a soldier's family that bears the most burden while I am a civilian living here safely and comfortably at home with my family. Thank you for giving me that safety and comfort.
I am the one that sent you to war, to paraphrase former Secretary of Defense Rumsfield, with the army we had. I believed that it was paramount that we respond to the attack on our nation on September 11, 2001, as quickly and decisively as we were able. I did not know exactly the condition of our equipment, your training or the availability of forces to carry out these many missions. After watching the losses on that day, I believed we could not wait to respond or allow another attack on our country and our people by anyone. That is not an excuse, but a statement.
I am almost four decades old. I can remember the day that the Berlin Wall was knocked down and the day that the Soviet Union collapsed. I saw the last major deployment of our forces in Desert Storm and the quick and nearly bloodless victory that our forces had won. It was a period of great joy and hope. It seemed that the great shadow of a terrible war was gone from our nation and the world.
I am the one that allowed our armed forces and the spending on equipment and training to be reduced. We called it "the peace dividend". Someday, when this war is over and you come home, I hope you will experience the same hope and joy of peace; that period in time when you believe you can make the world as you want it and wish it to be.
It is not an empty hope or an illusion. I believe that time will come again when we can turn the great energies we have expended at war towards developing technology, improving the lives of people and building relationships with other people and nations; towards discovering life saving drugs, building international space stations that bridge the differences of nations and believing again in the better nature of mankind.
Still, I am the one who did not see, even during this time of relative peace, that the shadow of war was coming. I am the one that disregarded the attacks on our armed forces, our embassies and our citizens in places around the world as the work of malcontents who were unable to attack our nation directly or cause us great harm. Once again, I do not ask forgiveness. I ask only that you take this lesson from my generation: that even a nation at peace must be prepared to defend itself, its ideas and its people when the time comes.
I do not wish to place an even greater burden on you by saying "when the time comes", as if war was the never ending story of mankind or our nation. I do not know what the future will bring. I only know that the story of mankind and our nation has been fraught with many such years as this and it may yet be generations to come before war has passed away from us, before man values the lives of others more greatly than his own desires or his own worst instincts.
Yet, as a soldier at war, I believe you understand better than most that there is a time to fight and a time for peace. Between the times of great strife, there is a time of peace when life should be lived to the fullest, dreams should be pursued relentlessly and love should be shared as if there were no tomorrow. It is these better times, sometimes all too brief, that we build upon and use to shore up against the worst of times. I hope that you have many better times to come in your future. Thank you for purchasing those moments of peace with your service.
This is one time I'll ask for your forgiveness. I apologize if this letter sounds maudlin or too full of self examination. You were probably hoping for something simple, funny or uplifting to make you forget for a few minutes that you were in a war zone, half a world away from home. I simply felt that, since you are there on behalf of our nation, on my behalf, someone should take responsibility and try to explain why. It seems there is a serious lack of people who are willing to do that these days or even acknowledge that we, you, are at war.
I am the one that sent you to Afghanistan with a small number of troops and limited, old equipment. I explained why I felt that we needed to act as soon as possible, even under those conditions. You did a fantastic job, with limited resources. You carried the message and strength of our nation to an enemy who had no regard for innocent life and continues to show that disregard every day against the people of Afghanistan. Thank you for taking up the fight for me and my family.
I am the one that has not always remembered you or sought out your story or worried about whether you had everything you need while continuing to struggle in a complicated and difficult theater of war. I am the one that allowed the little coverage in the media about your struggle to inform my decisions. I am the one that did not seek out the information that I should have had nor did I ask enough questions of my government, my representatives, about what we are doing for you or how we will work to bring that battle front to a close.
I am the one that has kept you there these many years because the same forces, the same conditions that had wrought such destruction on our nation and the people of Afghanistan have not yet been overcome and defeated. Thank you for continuing to carry out the struggle even when you felt I had forgotten you.
I am the one that sent you to Iraq. I made that decision based on fourteen years of knowledge about Saddam's regime in Iraq. It was not just because Colin Powell went to the United Nations and talked about the dangers of weapons of mass destruction. It was not because I believed that Saddam had colluded with or ordered Al Qaida to attack our nation on September 11, 2001.
I did not know then if he was involved, I only knew the history of that nation and the nature of the man who had murdered and massacred. After so many years of debate, the questions and answers to why and how we went to war have left the path of truth and reside solely in the domain of personal belief and ideology.
I did believe that he was still the open and mortal enemy of the United States. I did believe that, given the chance, with the United States weakened after the attacks and with our efforts focused on Afghanistan, that Saddam would use every weapon, every tool that he could provide to anyone that was willing to hinder our forces or attack us again. I did believe, and I still do, that we could not afford to leave Saddam in power. Thank you for going when you were asked, even as our country struggled over that decision.
I am the one that believed, and still do, that we could not leave Iraq to fester in its terror and murder, to become like Afghanistan, forgotten and abandoned to those same forces that had already wrought such death and destruction. I am the one that has kept you there these many years, fighting to save Iraq and to defeat those forces. Thank you for stepping forward, for serving so many tours away from your family, for doing what I asked, what I could not do and what many would not do.
I am the one that almost lost faith, who considered the cost of the war in blood and treasure and wondered if Iraq could be saved or was even worth it. I am the one that considered bringing you home even when you wanted to stay and finish the job. I am the one that could not see that you wanted your sacrifice and those of your comrades to be worth something, to have accomplished something, to mean something.
I am the one that debated while you sacrificed, fought and sometimes bled in a theater of war whose value I questioned. I finally realized that, if you could stay, if you could carry on the fight, even in the darkest hours, while we debated here, I could keep the faith with you. I am the one that sees that you have triumphed over your own fears, your own limitations and those imposed upon you by the very act of war. I am the one that realizes you have worked hard and brought a measure of peace to such a troubled country. You have done what many have thought, what I thought, was impossible. Thank you for showing me the spirit and strength of our nation.
I am the one that did not pay attention to our veterans' care or the care that your wounded brothers and sisters were receiving. I am the one that did not ask what our government was doing for these deserving citizens of our nation. I am the one that thought that our nation would take care of them and did not worry or wonder after their care. I was reminded, when the story broke, that I am the one that must ask, that must direct our government to its responsibilities because I am the one that the government represents, works for and listens to. Thank you for reminding me of my duties as a citizen.
I am the one that has not given you the support that you need or deserve while you are serving our country. Oh, I have done many things to show my support and send it to other soldiers like you, but they seem all too small and inconsequential in comparison to your service.
I do remember one rally for our troops where one of your fellow soldier's mom gave me a big hug, cried on my shoulder and thanked me for supporting her son who had recently been deployed. I found myself saying what every soldier says, "I am just doing my job." I believe that very much. It is what we are supposed to do when we send our men and women, our mothers and fathers, our brothers and sisters off to war. It is no great deed. In fact, it is painful to recognize that, that support may have been so lacking, that someone thought it was worth appreciating as if it was some great rarity.
I must humbly acknowledge, again, that, however much I will do, it will never equal what you have done for me. Writing this, though, it does not depress my spirits or make me unwilling to carry on. In fact, it has given me a renewed drive and strength to do more. Thank you for being my inspiration.
I am the one that has continued to go to work, to come home, to enjoy my family with sometimes too little thought to where you were, what you were doing and the stress it has placed on you and your family. I am the one that has watched bad movies, read many books, stayed on the internet too late at night, ordered pizza to be delivered, driven to the store for a late night snack and, generally, done all of the things that I have always done here at home; the things that you cannot do, without giving you a thought. Thank you for giving me that freedom from want, from fear and from care.
I am the one that sent you those Christmas cookies that probably arrived there hard as a rock and as tasteless as cardboard. I hope that they at least made good tree decorations and that they reminded you, just for a moment, that someone at home was thinking about you. Thank you for saying they were the best gift ever.
I am the one that stood at the back of the crowd of family and friends, snapping pictures as you prepared to depart. I am the one that you wanted to disappear so you could have that one more moment alone with your wife and children or your mother and father. Thank you for allowing me to share that time with you and your family.
I am the one that sat next to your wife in the restaurant, talking too loudly about the war, as if I knew anything really about it. Please, thank your wife for her patience with me and tell her that I appreciate her support for you while you have served our nation, her strength and her courage.
I am the one that stood in the cold, listening as the taps played for one of your brothers in arms. I did not know him, but felt that I should be there because I am the one that asked him to lay down his life for me, for my family and our nation. I am the one that had to turn away for a moment as his young wife cried and his family hugged each other. Not because I was embarrassed, but because I was ashamed that I had ever thought my own struggles and strife were so great or tragic. She will not remember me. I am the one that will remember her. When you see her again, please thank her for showing me what real courage, strength and sacrifice means.
I am the one that stood on the side of the road with a flag and waved as your bus drove by. I was a face in the crowd, someone you did not know. I am the one that watched you return, getting off the bus, standing in formation and finally being dismissed. You ran to your family and they ran to you, hugging, kissing and hardly believing that you were finally home. I am the one that was taking pictures. Again. Thank you for allowing me to share that love, that relief, the sheer joy of having you home again.
On this day, I am only one of many who will take the time to reflect upon the anniversary of our battle for Iraq. In that reflection, many will seek to discover some unknown truth, but, the truth is, we have traveled these paths before, in this war and others. There will be great speeches and many editorials that will ponder why we are at war and what we should do about it.
Some will no doubt claim some great knowledge that allows them the right to define this war, its value and the worth of your service. In many cases, they will find the value greatly diminished and will seek cynically, once again, to mitigate any responsibility. Others will, no doubt, claim a great victory is imminent and the struggle to be worth every moment. You will carry on as you have because that is what you do, because that is what you must do in the middle of a war and because I asked you to.
I just wanted to write to tell you I was thinking about you and to say, "thank you."
I took the liberty, of printing this post, and taking it to another Disabled Vet. He has 2 sons, one is an NCO w/SF, the other is getting an advanced engineering degree with plans to go into the Military. The father's brother, an uncle has made some kind of arrangement to pay off the student loan providing he went into the military for at least 2 tours. This was already in the young man's plans before the offer by the uncle. As, the uncle would put it, "This is my way to sacrifice to this GREAT Country!"
The "mind blowing irony" is this, the father feels like he is a failure! This letter helped him to start putting things away. I took the letter and hand printed the website address. I took a ruler and drew a line from Kat's name to an open space on the page. I wrote, "This is the writer, I do NOT have the brain to write this well." I then signed it, in agreement. I wish you could have seen his eyes light up. This was a really GREAT thing to see in a friend, since we were kids over 50 years ago.
Thank you,
Grumpy
by Grumpy on March 19, 2008 4:34 PM
Why in the helk was there NOT a Kleenex warning with this!
Sheesh
Oh, I *get it*, it was part of the five paragraphs....
Uh huh.
Yeah.
From one allergic (runny nose, weepy eyes....yeah, let's go with that.) Marine wife, this is an excellent letter. I will share this with MH this evening. I know he will appreciate your words, but then he'll say,"I'm just doing my job."
heh
Men.
0>;~}
by Sly2017 on March 19, 2008 5:03 PM
Thank you...Thank YOU! I - also - AM the one..And I never, EVER forget it.
Kat, I saw your reply and called him immediately! He has had a very "colorful past", from deep in the bowels of the unknown history of this Great Nation's Military. I went over, one of his sons answered the door. He simply said, "He's sitting in there, you better go in." I walked in and he's fussing with his compute, like none of us have been there. He turned to me, he had this really neat gleam in his eyes. He said, "Grumpy, THAT LADY GET'S IT!"
He also said, "Grumpy, tell BillT, I agree, she is most definitely a keeper!" I must agree, she is a real piece of quality work, She is a keeper!
I should've put this up earlier, but things got busy.
Vets for Freedom is kicking off the "National Heroes Tour" in San Diegotomorrow (Friday) to draw attention to their mission as they travel to Washington, DC to meet with legislators ahead of General Petraeus' expected testimony in April. Events will include appearances/speeches by heroes like Bud Day, Marcus Luttrell and David Bellavia, as well as local heroes. There will be a book signing in Pendleton in the morning, then a party on the deck of the Midway Museum at 6:30 p.m., including a parachute team landing and F-18 flyover, and music and food until 10:00 (Hugh Hewitt will be broadcasting from the ship starting at 3:00).
All events are free.Uncle Jimbo of Blackfive and I will be there to cover the news for the blogs.
GOE did a demonstration of support at the Recruiting Office in Times Square that got bombed the previous day. I took the train up from Philadelphia. Great group of people. Rained on and off all day but, they had a party tent without sides set up for us. I can finally say "we played Broadway". We spent the day on that traffic island the Recruiting Office is on. NYPD &FD did a show of support with their cruisers, about 15 went down each side of the island. Cool.
Strike-up the jukebox and base drum, for 'tis time for Helga to start jiggin' in honor of her mistress. Feliz Cumpleaños S4UBO!
by Boquisucio on March 12, 2008 9:15 AM
Happy B-day! Hey! You guys wanna have a steak and margaritas this weekend? Or, if Beth is lonely while the armorer's away, we can have a girl night and talk about his really big weapon...s collection. LOL
by kat-missouri on March 12, 2008 9:27 AM
Happy Birthday to a terrific lady.
SWLHC...or She Who Loves Her Critters.
Black Bean Soup with sour cream and guava paste
Rolled tenderloin of beef with mushrooms
bacon scalloped potatoes
bitter green salad with sweet and sour vinaigrette
mango sherbet
Chocolate cake with bitter almond frosting
by Cricket on March 12, 2008 11:28 AM
Happy Birthday, Beth!! To help protect your tender hands, I think you need some Bionic Gloves!
And just once, just once, I would love to see the stony-faced humiliated woman step to the microphone and say "You sorry b@st@rd. How *dare* you put me in this position!" and storm off.
Reporting As Ordered, Sir!
I personally think that someone who does something like this has 2 other behavioral traits instead of the hubris to think he won't get caught:
1) A fetish for the adrenaline rush of the danger of getting caught.
2) A deep-seeded self-destructive desire, wherein he actually wishes to be caught.
by fdcol63 on March 11, 2008 7:30 AM
by John
Kinda like THIS lady, whom you told YOU LOVE last FRIDAY,,and today, WEDNESDAY, I find out you're doing the FUNKY RUNT??? Really, John?? REALLY???
You call but don't talk, you COME UP TO MY DOORSTEP!!! but don't ring the bell;; WTF -- and leading on Miss Beth at the same time! Beth, what fools we are!! What a guy.
Hell, it may be over NOW, but it's MY choice! "How dare you, indeed."
Barbara
by Barbara on March 12, 2008 3:16 PM
Ma'am - if that was a joke, I didn't get it. Even if it was a joke, it was a tacky thing to do on a birthday post for my wife.
sir.....are you not john lewis of castle arrggh? omdl, he told me he is johnny argghhh. please erase if it is not you...... omdl....not beth foust in ia? not a joke. not at all. what are the chances it would be john and beth? crapp. my sincerest apologies if it is not you. if it IS you, john Bud lewis, go to hell.
sincerely,
barbara
by Barbara on March 12, 2008 3:40 PM
Whew.
There's another Castle Argghhh! somewhere?
There's not a John Lewis here that I'm aware of, and I'm the blog owner. Plus, my last name is Donovan - as is my wife's.
Deepest apologies to Mrs. Arrggh for any misunderstanding.
Sir thankfully took this to ym-s for resolution. If Castle Arrgggh is NOT in the State of Iowa, (hasn't confirmed that), this is regrettably a case of mistaken identity because of incorrect 'intel'. Be thankful *I'm* not out in the field, lol.
I've enjoyed reading this blog over the months, mostly because I thought it was written by *my* Johnny person (sorry). I've learned many things I didn't think I even wanted to know, which can only be a good thing. If y'all don't mind, I'll continue reading, but I don't think I'll be posting any time soon, lol.
Happy birthday, Mrs. Arrgggh. Again, I apologize.
Barbara
by Barbara on March 12, 2008 5:45 PM
Okay, this is weird. Barbara - Castle Argghhh! is in Kansas. Apologies accepted, but golly, you owe me a margarita for that heart stopping comment!
Barb (other Barb) I love the idea of those bionic gloves - perhaps John will buy them for me, as it will make cutting down all those thorny hedge trees and locust trees safer! Not to mention the scissors thing.
Bosq - love the dancing chicken!! We are getting a bunch of chicks delivered this week. I've been building a bigger, better, stronger and in the barn brooder!
Not for nothing - but did you look up crazy Barbara's IP? Is it in Utah? Is this just Cliff finding a new way to be a di$%? Cause that's one sketchy story.
Cricket, Castle Chef, and her family lost Tigger two weeks ago. I asked her for a picture, but she had none, and sent this "thousand words," instead. 'Tis enough, methinks.
I have been looking for one for the past week and a half. I thought we had one or several on the desktop and the laptop, but no such luck. I have checked my camera's storage chips and nothing. And that has upset me more than I realized, because he was such a great cat and I was the one who had the pics of him jumping into the car, sleeping on Rebekah's lap, and my personal favorite; his naptime on her bed with her beanie baby teddy bear. He was so very gentle, for all that he was a redhead. He never bit or scratched anyone, and was a real gentleman. His favorite thing to do was plop in the middle of the kitchen during mealtime preparations and just watch.
He knew that if he was patient enough, he would get a bit of raw meat or some other tidbit such as tuna or even potato. He loved clam chowder...vegetables too. Needless to say, because it is rather rich, we didn't let him sample it too often. He left a couple of litters and they are all very handsome and very well bred cats just like their sire.
There were times he would pay the rent by leaving a few mice or squirrels on the back deck... and the time he left a couple of items for his mate to drag back to her kittens. He tangled with a bobcat; had a serious wound and that was when we found out he was positive for feline leukemia. We have had the other cats vaccinated.
While we waited for the vet to get ready, he sat on my shoulder, then Rebekah took him. She held him while he was injected first with the sedative, then the fatal injection. We cried all the way home. He is buried in the hobbit hole the kids dug the first year we moved here. He can see the other animals and join in the moonlight hunts.
All I have is the word picture, the memories, and a new space in my heart.
Murray, Castle Metalsmith and Trebuchet-maker to the Stars, lost his companion Jessica T. Hill, his pal of 18 years.
And Castle BarnCat, Sergeant S'mudge, has been moved from the MIA list, to Missing, Presumed Lost.
Now is the time at Castle Argghhh! when we dancesing three sparks to the Great Hunting Ground and Tennis Ball Chasing Facility.
I had just finished debriefing CPT Mike O’Connor, my section leader, about my first flight of my first AT with the Jersey Guard. I left him in the Planning Room on the second floor of the old wooden hangar at Wheeler-Sack AAF, walked out the door and down the single stairway onto the hangar floor and promptly came nose-to-nose with – Mike O’Connor.
“Geez, Mike, how’d you get *down* here so fast?”
“Easy – I’m twins.” *leprechaun grin* And he continued walking across the hangar floor towards the ramp.
I turned around to head toward our own aircraft parking area and promptly came nose-to-nose with – Mike O’Connor. Who had just descended the stairs from the second floor.
*blink*
I glanced over my shoulder to see if Rod Serling was standing behind me, waiting to cue the theme from the “Twilight Zone,” and suddenly realized that the Mike standing in front of me was wearing a red baseball cap (as I was, since we were both in the DivArty Aviation Section) while the Mike walking toward the ramp was wearing a black (Air Cav) baseball cap.
That was in 1976, and that was my introduction to Charlie O’Connor, Mike’s twin brother.
Imagine the consternation in their old unit in Vietnam. Generally, Army policy won’t place two siblings in the same combat outfit, but Charlie and Mike wangled billets in the same Assault Helicopter Company at the same time, agreeing, sensibly enough, that they wouldn’t fly CAs in the same aircraft. And probably agreeing that they wouldn't double-team anybody with their jokes.
I saw Mike every drill and most Night Flights, but usually only saw Charlie during AT or when I had a flight up to the Picatinny Facility. I saw him only sporadically after he left the Guard, but every so often I’d get the chance to pop into Teterboro to see how he was progressing up the corporate aviation ladder. And, of course, to cadge free coffee in the pilots’ lounge. And, of course, to hear his latest non-PC-and-definitely-not-suitable-for-mixed-company jokes.
Early last week I dropped in at my old unit and found that most of the gang had taken up new digs at Lakehurst. I ran into one of the OSACOM fixed-wing guys, though, and he brought me up to date on who was where and what the latest rumor was about their next deployment.
And he told me that Charlie had pancreatic cancer. And he’d started a site to raise funds for research, called – in typically blunt Charlie fashion – “Charlie O’Connor’s Pancreatic Cancer Sucks Site.”
I started scratching out this post yesterday, intending to put it in the Spirit of America category as a “Someone You Need To Meet” bit.
I should’ve done it sooner.
Charlie died on Valentine’s Day.
Oh – almost forgot. The reason I figured it for a great Spirit of America bit was that Charlie set a fundraising goal of $5,000.
He raised almost twice that. And that's why he's grinning that leprechaun grin on his site.
Heads' up, Fiddlers Green contingent -- Charlie likes Tullamore Dew with Guiness on the side...
Therefore, now is the time at Castle Argghhh! when we dance: In Memoriam.
pancreatic cancer sucks indeed. We lost my dad AND my father in law to it. The odds are stacked against the Marine!Goth, which scares the bejabbers out of me.
by Karla (threadbndr) on February 18, 2008 10:11 AM
*sniff*
Cancer has it's own agenda, doesn't it? Damn. I'm so sorry, Bill.
Two recently-passed survivors of "The Great Escape," from New Zealand and Australia.
This “Great Escape”, as it became known and popularized by the movie of the same name, was an incredible example of ingenuity and determination on the part of Allied airmen resolved to escape from a camp designed explicitly to prevent escape. Of the two hundred intended escapees, only 76 got away when the exit point of their tunnel was discovered by a guard who chose that exact spot to relieve himself while on roving patrol.. All but three of those who got out were recaptured and, of those 50 were shot by the Gestapo, at Hitler's direction.
Heavans someone who didn't know Steve McQueen mastermided the great escape. I didn't know there were any.
Aside from the small aspect that no Americans were involved in this particular venture its not a bad film though.
by Murray on February 15, 2008 8:43 PM
Several years ago (ok, probably more like 10 years ago or more) I had the pleasure of volunteering at a military reunion. Red Cross was asked to man the registration desk and a few other positions, so I volunteered. I had no idea whose reunion it was. As it turned out, it wasn't your typical reunion. It was the reunion of men who survived a prison camp- the "Great Escape" prison camp. I met the chaplain and several other survivors, and bought the chaplain's book. Meeting those men, hearing their stories first-hand, and seeing their reactions as they walked around the artifact displays was an incredibly moving experience.
I'm sad to hear we lost two more. At the reunion, which was held every five years, organizers were afraid it would be the last reunion because the survivors were dying at astronomical rates.
I'm pretty sure that reunion is being held at Fiddler's Green now. Perhaps some day they'll let me listen in on their conversations again.
by AFSister on February 15, 2008 9:17 PM
HA!
I found it!
The book is by Padre Murdo Ewen MacDonald. In searching for information about him tonight, I discovered he passed away in 2004. I also found out that another Stalag Luft III reunion has been planned, in Cincinnati again, in a few months. I just might have to show up...
by AFSister on February 15, 2008 9:46 PM
My highschool algebra/woodshop/technical drawing teacher spent time in Stalag Luft III. He was a B-17 navigator, shot down over Regensburg.
He was in no shape, physically, to be in contention as an escaper (which he noted saved his life), but he worked as part of the support group who helped the tunnellers, "organizing" materials for shoring up the tunnels.
Once, and only once, he pulled together the pictures and information he'd collected during that time, and presented the story to his students. He wasn't a hero, but he lived and worked with quite a few of them, he said.
by steveH on February 15, 2008 10:46 PM
Trias - comments like that keep me posting stuff like this.
AFSister the Cincinnati reunion I suspect will be for the US vets of Stalag III. The US camp seems to have been seperate from the Commonwealth and quite large.
Bill Fordyce was the last of the Great Escapers according to the report.
There weren't that many to begin with since Hitler ordered 50 of them shot.
The "Great Escape" itself was staged from the Commonwealth Camp hence the kiwis & Aussies. Those pommy miners really loved digging holes. The Germans would have had less troble chasing them down all the time if they'd sent back everyone they caught from Newcastle, Wales and the NZ West Coast.
Every time the Germans tripped over there was some herbert covered in dirt saying oi gov is this the way to picadilly then?
Try The Wooden Horse for a sample of just how much these guys got into digging. They make Hogan look like a pansy.
From my reading it appears that the Australians got a camp of their own as well in due cause.
Not sure if thats due to numbers or social presure from the non-barbied shrimp eating members of the commonwealth but there you go.
by Murray on February 16, 2008 6:26 PM
It could be, Murray, but the one I went to did have foreign attendees- including Padre Mac.
But that doesn't mean some aren't worth sharing. And anyone who knows what the last year has been like for the Master and Mistress of Argghhh! will appreciate why this one resonates. I can really identify with the Old Man. At the KC RenFest I used to go take the mallet and ring the bell. Then one year I didn't do it. Couldn't do it. And that ruined my day.
The Old Man and the Dog
by Catherine Moore
"Watch out! You nearly broad sided that car!" My father yelled at me.
"Can't you do anything right?"
Those words hurt worse than blows. I turned my head toward the elderly man in the seat beside me, daring me to challenge him. A lump rose in my throat as I averted my eyes. I wasn't prepared for another battle.
"I saw the car, Dad. Please don't yell at me when I'm driving." My voice was measured and steady, sounding far calmer than I really felt. Dad glared at me, then turned away and settled back. At home I left Dad in front of the television and went outside to collect my thoughts. Dark,
heavy clouds hung in the air with a promise of rain. The rumble of distant thunder seemed to echo my inner turmoil.
Dad had been a lumberjack in Washington and Oregon. He had enjoyed being outdoors and had reveled in pitting his strength against the forces of nature. He had entered grueling lumberjack competitions, and had placed often. The shelves in his house were filled with trophies that attested to his prowess.
The years marched on relentlessly. The first time he couldn't lift a heavy log, he joked about it; but later that same day I saw him outside alone, straining to lift it. He became irritable whenever anyone teased him about his advancing age, or when he couldn't do something he had done
as a younger man.
Four days after his sixty-seventh birthday, he had a heart attack. An mbulance sped him to the hospital while a paramedic administered CPR to keep blood and oxygen flowing. At the hospital, Dad was rushed into an operating room. He was lucky; he survived.
But something inside Dad died. His zest for life was gone. He obstinately refused to follow doctor's orders. Suggestions and offers of help were turned aside with sarcasm and insults. The number of visitors thinned, then finally stopped altogether. Dad was left alone.
My husband, Dick, and I asked Dad to come live with us on our small farm. We hoped the fresh air and rustic atmosphere would help him adjust. Within a week after he moved in, I regretted the invitation. It seemed nothing was satisfactory. He criticized everything I did. I became
frustrated and moody. Soon I was taking my pent-up anger out on Dick. We began to bicker and argue. Alarmed, Dick sought out our pastor and explained the situation. The clergyman set up weekly counseling appointments for us. At the close of each session he prayed, asking God
to soothe Dad's troubled mind. But the months wore on and God was silent.
Something had to be done and it was up to me to do it.
The next day I sat down with the phone book and methodically called each of the mental health clinics listed in the Yellow Pages. I explained my problem to each of the sympathetic voices that answered. In vain. Just when I was giving up hope, one of the voices suddenly exclaimed, "I just read something that might help you! Let me go get the article." I listened as she read. The article described a remarkable study done at a nursing home. All of the patients were under treatment for chronic depression. Yet their attitudes had improved dramatically when they were
given responsibility for a dog.
I drove to the animal shelter that afternoon. After I filled out a questionnaire, a uniformed officer led me to the kennels. The odor of disinfectant stung my nostrils as I moved down the row of pens. Each contained five to seven dogs. Long-haired dogs, curly-haired dogs, black
dogs, spotted dogs ball jumped up, trying to reach me. I studied each one but rejected one after the other for various reasonsbtoo big, too small, too much hair. As I neared the last pen a dog in the shadows of the far corner struggled to his feet, walked to the front of the run and sat
down. It was a pointer, one of the dog world's aristocrats. But this was a caricature of the breed. Years had etched his face and muzzle with shades of gray. His hipbones jutted out in lopsided triangles. But it was his eyes that caught and held my attention. Calm and clear, they beheld me unwaveringly.
I pointed to the dog. "Can you tell me about him?" The officer looked, then shook his head in puzzlement.
"He's a funny one. Appeared out of nowhere and sat in front of the gate. We brought him in, figuring someone would be right down to claim him. That was two weeks ago and we've heard nothing. His time is up tomorrow." He gestured helplessly.
As the words sank in I turned to the man in horror. "You mean you're going to kill him?"
"Ma'am," he said gently, "that's our policy. We don't have room for every unclaimed dog."
I looked at the pointer again. The calm brown eyes awaited my decision. "I'll take him," I said.
I drove home with the dog on the front seat beside me. When I reached the house I honked the horn twice. I was helping my prize out of the car when Dad shuffled onto the front porch.
"Ta-da! Look what I got for you, Dad!" I said excitedly.
Dad looked, then wrinkled his face in disgust. "If I had wanted a dog I would have gotten one. And I would have picked out a better specimen than that bag of bones. Keep it! I don't want it" Dad waved his arm scornfully and turned back toward the house.
Anger rose inside me. It squeezed together my throat muscles and pounded into my temples.
"You'd better get used to him, Dad. He's staying!" Dad ignored me. "Did you hear me, Dad?" I screamed. At those words Dad whirled angrily, his hands clenched at his sides, his eyes narrowed and blazing with hate.
We stood glaring at each other like duelists, when suddenly the pointer pulled free from my grasp. He wobbled toward my dad and sat down in front of him. Then slowly, carefully, he raised his paw.
Dad's lower jaw trembled as he stared at the uplifted paw. Confusion replaced the anger in his eyes. The pointer waited patiently. Then Dad was on his knees hugging the animal.
It was the beginning of a warm and intimate friendship. Dad named the pointer Cheyenne. Together he and Cheyenne explored the community. They spent long hours walking down dusty lanes. They spent reflective moments on the banks of streams, angling for tasty trout. They even
started to attend Sunday services together, Dad sitting in a pew and Cheyenne lying quietly at his feet.
Dad and Cheyenne were inseparable throughout the next three years. Dad's bitterness faded, and he and Cheyenne made many friends. Then late one night I was startled to feel Cheyenne's cold nose burrowing through our bed covers. He had never before come into our bedroom at night. I woke Dick, put on my robe and ran into my father's room. Dad lay in his bed,
his face serene. But his spirit had left quietly sometime during the night.
Two days later my shock and grief deepened when I discovered Cheyenne lying dead beside Dad's bed. I wrapped his still form in the rag rug he had slept on. As Dick and I buried him near a favorite fishing hole, I silently thanked the dog for the help he had given me in restoring Dad's
peace of mind.
The morning of Dad's funeral dawned overcast and dreary. This day looks like the way I feel, I thought, as I walked down the aisle to the pews reserved for family. I was surprised to see the many friends Dad and Cheyennehad made filling the church. The pastor began his eulogy. It was a tribute to both Dad and the dog who had changed his life. And then the pastor turned to Hebrews 13:2. "Be not forgetful to entertain strangers."
"I've often thanked God for sending that angel," he said.
For me, the past dropped into place, completing a puzzle that I had not seen before: the sympathetic voice that had just read the right article...
Cheyenne's unexpected appearance at the animal shelter. . .his calm acceptance and complete devotion to my father. . and the proximity of their deaths. And suddenly I understood. I knew that God had answered my prayers after all.
Life is too short for drama & petty things, so laugh hard, love truly and forgive quickly.
Live While You Are Alive. Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity. Forgive now those who made you cry. You might not get a second time.
And if you don't send this to at least 4 people - who cares?
But do share this with someone. Lost time can never be found.
I had to show this to my husband, it reminded us both of his sister. About 5 years ago, an elderly miniature doberman pincer showed up at his sister's house. Less than a month later, she was diagnosed with lung cancer that had metastasized through out her body, including brain tumors that prevented her from drawing, a favorite activity. This dog was devoted to her, and didn't leave her side. A few months later, my sister-in-law died from complications from the cancer. That dog, who'd been such a comfort to her, left the house a few days later, and wasn't found. He'd been a guardian angel to my sister-in-law while he was truly needed, and we hope he found a new home where he was equally as valued.
by Heather on February 11, 2008 12:14 PM
True story or not, it is a nice tale to read and like you said John, some letters are worth sharing.
It's an old buddy of mine, alla way back to high school. Preston Sights. Or, more aptly, Prestone Antifreeze.
He did the Polar Bear Plunge for Special Olympics in Missouri. In the video, he's the shirtless, odd-colored furry fella. The odd color is from his disguise. He went as The Hulk - which the Special Olympians thought was simply way cool.
If you're moved to, you can donate, ex post facto, by clicking the link below. Hey - you *know* you got your money's worth, you've already seen him do it, right?
Heh. I should have put this up *before* the event, but I dunno, it just never occurred to me to do so. Prolly because Preston is normally such a private person.
Click here if you're moved to donate. Hey, $5, $500, it's all good. It would tickle me pink (which is a scary thought) if collectively we could bump "Prestone's" numbers to the $2K mark. As I write - only $999 to go - you can probably guess which donor I am. Tax deductible - start sheltering your money from the grasping fingers of Congress now.. well, at least spend it on projects *you'd* like to see it spent on, vice other people's pet projects they want Congress to bill you for.
Private First Class Ray Jacobs - someone you should know.
"...Marines on the ground, still engaged in combat, raised a spontaneous yell when they saw the flag. Screaming and cheering so loud and prolonged that we could hear it quite clearly on top of Suribachi..."
The first flagraising atop Mount Suribachi, February 23, 1945. Hank Hansen (without helmet), Boots Thomas (seated), John Bradley (behind Thomas) Phil Ward (hand visible grasping pole), Jim Michaels (with carbine) and Chuck Lindberg (behind Michaels).
Photo by Lou Lowery. 10AM, Feb. 23, 1945
Private First Class Ray Jacobs was one of those flag-raisers. He didn't make it into the pictures. They were kind of busy, taking the island and all. They had other things on their mind, I'm guessing.
He died today.
The media hasn't noticed, yet. But we'll make sure they do.
So make a hole down there in Fiddler's Green! War hero, genuine, 1ea, Inbound
Now is the time at Castle Argghhh! when we dance, In Memoriam.
...well, at least the local media noticed last night...in, of all places, the SF Bay Area (Oakland, actually). He was an opinion broadcaster on KTVU TV for many years up until 1992. Today, they wouldn't let him any where near a microphone. Too American for this town!
by g on January 31, 2008 3:47 PM
I wish I had seen this earlier today - I would have forwarded it to some folks I know at one of the major Network news stations - don't know if they would have picked it up, but...
by KG2V on January 31, 2008 5:08 PM
That's not tears, its something in my eye.."Semper Fi Mac"
by kenfitz on January 31, 2008 5:19 PM
I met Ray August of 2006 at the 57th reunion of the Iwo survivors. I can not believe he has passed away. He seemed like a man in his mid 50s. Those Marines can fool ya! God Bless all of our troops. You are all heroes.
Came here from National Review Online. Thanks for posting this. Uncommon valor truly was a common attribute on that island. These men, their comrades, and those who went before, came after, or serve today are truly owed a debt that can never be repaid.
by RDuMont on January 31, 2008 6:34 PM
They were all heroes on that island.
by Mace on January 31, 2008 6:55 PM
Sic Transit Gloria Mundi.
It is inevitable, as we all shall also pass one day. But darned; so many heroes are moving on, all at once.
by Boquisucio on February 1, 2008 7:55 AM
May God bless Ray Jacobs and hold this brave Marine in the palm of His hand for ever.
Deep Peace of the running wave to you,
Deep peace of the flowing air to you,
Deep peace of the quiet earth to you.
Deep peace of the shining stars to you,
Deep peace of the gentle night to you,
Moon and stars pour their healing light to you,
Deep peace of Christ the light of the world to you.
Deep peace of Christ to you.
Goodbye Aunt Elaine - cut a rug with Skeet and get that Grand Slam.
This has been a tough twelve months, especially for my father. Last night, his sister Elaine died. She was 90, and had, like my mother, a good life, well lived.
She was a school teacher by trade, a professional mother, if you will. And while with me, her teaching didn't always take, she never stopped the lessons! She was trying to teach me to be polite until just about her dying breath.
It took more than she realized - you have no idea of what a ill-mannered buffoon I would be were it not for my Donovan relatives of that generation. My impishness comes from the Meriwether side. The steel is all Donovan, tempered by Meriwether.
I have many fond memories of Elaine and her husband Harold, better known as "Uncle Skeet." Heh. There's a good chance that my interest in ordnance stems from Skeet and Elaine. Of course, it's Dad's fault. At least I think so. When going to visit Aunt Elaine and Uncle Skeet I would home like a Maverick on the training hand grenade (that I assume Dad gave them) they had on their bookshelf, and would play with it (safely, of course). I'd also grab the history books on their shelves (they had more pictures than Dad's books) and flip through and read them - especially the American Heritage Civil War books. Skeet taught me to fish and appreciate the Colorado Rockies, clear mountain tarns and swift-running streams.
Skeet's been gone for many years now, and I'm guessing Elaine was ready to go join him, sure that her two daughters and their families were going to make it, and that her little brother was okay after the passing of his wife, my mother. I'm going to miss her, though not like Dad, methinks.
The music may be a little different, but now is the time at Castle Argghhh! when we dance: In Memoriam, for Elaine Donovan Langford, Aunt Elaine.
I am so sorry for you, your dad, and your family. Losing a woman like that is never easy. However I am thrilled for her that she gets to go be with her husband, safe in the knowledge that the family she leaves behind are well.
One of those who was a double-warrior. A police officer and a military reservist. With a Castle connection - he was one of 1SG Keith's troops. What follows is from 1SG Keith. This post will remain up top all day. New content comes in below.
We lost one of our own today. Staff Sergeant Eric Barker, my broadcast section NCOIC, was killed in a shootout in Atlanta at 1240 am Wednesday morning. When not serving our country in the US Army Reserve, Barker was a Dekalb County Police Department officer. Last night, while working an off-duty detail with another officer, Barker and his partner were gunned down in an ambush.
Watching the news reports, I could see the little yellow evidence markers. A lot of them. I saw a number 57 on one. Hopefully they were marking more than just bullet casings. Barker was a good NCO and a very cool guy. He was always joking. We talked several times about family. He and his wife have 4 kids, the youngest of which is only 3 or 4. I'm sure they won't understand why Daddy's not coming home. They won't understand for a few years anyway. I hope they catch these guys. I hope they try to get away. I'm angry, as is everyone who knows Barker. I want revenge. I don't care if some panty-waisted liberal claims the perpetrators were disadvantaged youth- fact is, they killed two police officers; one of which was also a friend of mine.
I like what the Chief had to say during his many press conferences today: "Of all the avenues I've gone down as police chief, this one was the darkest, and the toughest hour I've ever had, because it was about nothing -- senseless... today's act of senseless violence is a display of what we're seeing around the country where people will shoot down a police officer without regard to any repercussions."
My respect for Chief Bolton doubled when I heard him say, "For those witnesses and those people that are here [at the apartment complex]: Don't lie to us. Tell us the truth....For to witness the life, the whole life, of a police officer, who represents us all, lie there on the asphalt in the middle of the night, leaving behind children -- and we're going to remain silent. I submit to you today, you're not my brother, you're not my sister if you go down that road."
Staff Sgt. Eric Barker is my brother, and he will be sorely missed.
Those we love
can never really leave us.
We feel their presence,
like a gentle touch,
whenever we remember
moments shared
and do again
the things they loved to do.
In so many ways,
they remain with us,
their gentle spirits part of
all we do and all we are.
May you find comfort in the gentle words, helping hands, and warm thoughts offered in loving sympathy.
Take care, Staff Sgt. Eric Barker. We will meet again someday on the other side.
Now is the time at Castle Argghhh! when we dance, In Memoriam.
Update: Click this link if you are unfamiliar with the backstory for this post. A suspect in the shootings has been apprehended.
Thank you for putting this up top and giving us the chance to dance.
Barker was a GREAT guy. Funny as hell, and completely dedicated to his family. He was one of those rare individuals who truly gave his all to our country as both a police officer and an Army NCO. You can't tell from the picture, but he has jump wings- something you don't find often in a public affairs unit.
The smile you see in that picture is how I will always remember Barker. It's a very "him" picture- right down to the mismatched helmet cover.
We're gonna miss you. See you on the other side.
by AFSister on January 17, 2008 9:05 AM
UPDATE: They arrested a second scumbag. His family turned him in. The Chief alluded to searching for another one. Preliminary reports show one of them is bleeding. Neither officer unholstered their weapons, so speculation is that the scumbags shot each other. I hope it hurts. I hope it gets infected. I hope it turns to gangrene.
by 1sg keith on January 17, 2008 12:07 PM
Heh. Dbie is getting so into the Army stuff she's critiquing uniform violations... whodathunkit?
SSGT Barker's family is in my prayers, as are the officers and staff he served with. I'm an old grunt, but an 11-B2P can still raise a glass in his honor. Airborne! All the way!
Alan Briley, RN
2nd Bn/325th Abn Inf.
82nd Airborne Division
by Alan Briley, RN on January 17, 2008 3:53 PM
So very sorry. My prayers and sympathy are with his family and friends.
...I married SWWBO, and then got on an airplane to go to Kuwait for a sabre-rattling exercise.
Back then, she was a computer geek for Sprint or Birch Telecom, I don't remember which. Then she morphed into a computer geek for Cerner Corporation... then Cerner did her the favor of firing her for being too old for their young, hip, not-customer-service-focused workforce. Heh. It's bad when your mother is better at what you do than you are, isn't it kiddies? *Especially* when it comes to client interface?
Update: Becuz' I *know* you're dying to know... what'd I get SWWBO for the anniversary? Well, it wasn't tin, or aluminum. No, actually I went back to the traditional 6th anniversary item, iron. A drag harrow. Hey, I'm the guy who got her a black rifle for Christmas, right?
Congrats on #10 and may you both have many more happy years together.
However, your present should have been a different type of iron . . . specifically a Stag 2H rifle with a MonsterMan grip, ambi-selector, an A1 stock, a YHM Phantom muzzle brake, and a C Products 10/30 magazine but in Hello Kitty pink, see link for picture (if you haven't already been swampted with links to it).
I see a sweet little handgun with platinum and china grips in the not-too-distant future! LOL
by fdcol63 on January 7, 2008 9:20 PM
oh, boy. WIll you adopt me? I can fix just about anything, I can weld, run a lathe, mill, grinder, harness repair, ropework, I don't eat much (anymore) and I'd be tickled to sleep in a cot in the gun room.
Hey, Og, If you and I work together, I betcha we can get the Degtyarev running again! With you sleeping on a cot, and m'self under the bench, nobody'll notice what we're up to, and The Donovan can have plausible deniability when the Kitten-Stompers come calling!
Happy Anniversary! A rifle for a gift is true love. For Christmas I had a choice of an early gift of a black powder rifle, which I would only use one day this past season or a remote car starter. Had to go with the car starter. That truly is the most thoughtful gift I have ever gotten.
[Armorer's Updated Note: Rather than link to this post in today's H&I Fires, I decided to just repost it, because some of you don't click the links... yes, I know who you are. Co-blogger Bill is the original author of the post.]
I would like to introduce you to someone: CW2 Hugh Thompson. A fellow helicopter pilot from my war...
You probably don't recognize his name and you probably don't know what he did, but you will definitely recognize where and when he did it: My Lai, Vietnam--1968.
What would you call a man who saw his friends committing murder and risked his life to stop them?
Skimming over the Vietnamese village of My Lai in a helicopter with a bubble-shaped windshield, 24-year-old Hugh Thompson had a superb view of the ground below. But what the Army pilot saw didn't make any sense: piles of Vietnamese bodies and dead water buffalo. He and his two younger crew mates, Lawrence Colburn and Glenn Andreotta, were flying low over the hamlet on March 16, 1968, trying to draw fire so that two gunships flying above could locate and destroy the enemy. On this morning, no one was shooting at them. And yet they saw bodies everywhere, and the wounded civilians they had earlier marked for medical aid were now all dead.
On that historic morning, Thompson set his helicopter down near the irrigation ditch full of bodies. He asked a sergeant if the soldiers could help the civilians, some of whom were still moving. The sergeant suggested putting them out of their misery. Stunned, Thompson turned to Lieutenant Calley, who told him to mind his own business. Thompson reluctantly got back in his helicopter and began to lift off. Just then Andreotta yelled, "My God, they're firing into the ditch!"
Thompson finally faced the truth. He and his crew flew around for a few minutes, outraged, wondering what to do. Then they saw several elderly adults and children running for a shelter, chased by Americans. "We thought they had about 30 seconds before they'd die," recalls Colburn. Thompson landed his chopper between the troops and the shelter, then jumped out and confronted the lieutenant in charge of the chase. He asked for assistance in escorting the civilians out of the bunker; the lieutenant said he'd get them out with a hand grenade. Furious, Thompson announced he was taking the civilians out.
Thompson coaxed the Vietnamese out of the shelter with hand gestures. They followed, wary. Thompson looked at his three-man helicopter and realized he had nowhere to put them. "There was no thinking about it," he says now. "It was just something that had to be done, and it had to be done fast." He got on the radio and begged the gunships to land and fly the four adults and five children to safety, which they did within minutes.
Before returning to base, the helicopter crew saw something moving in the irrigation ditch�a child, about 4 years old. Andreotta waded through bloody cadavers to pull him out. Thompson, who had a son, was overcome by emotion. He immediately flew the child to a nearby hospital. Thompson wasted no time telling his superiors what had happened. "They said I was screaming quite loud. I was mad. I threatened never to fly again," Thompson remembers. "I didn't want to be a part of that. It wasn't war." An investigation followed, but it was cursory at best.
A month later, Andreotta died in combat. Thompson was shot down and returned home to teach helicopter piloting. Colburn served his tour of duty and left the military. The two figured those involved in the killing had been court-martialed. In fact, nothing had happened. But rumors of the massacre persisted. One soldier who heard of the atrocities, Ron Ridenhour, vowed to make them public. In the spring of 1969, he sent letters to government officials, which led to a real investigation�
Not all soldiers at My Lai participated in the carnage. Some men risked courtmartial or even death by defying Calley's direct orders to shoot civilians. Eckhardt doesn't think these men were heroes, because they didn't try to stop the murderers. But Colburn thinks they did the best they could. "We could just fly away at the end of the day," he notes. The ground troops had to live together for months.
Colburn and Thompson lived in relative anonymity until a 1989 television documentary on My Lai reclaimed them as forgotten heroes. David Egan, a Clemson University professor who had served in a French village where Nazis killed scores of innocents in World War II, was amazed by the story. He campaigned to have Thompson and his team awarded the coveted Soldier's Medal. It wasn't until March 6, 1998, after internal debate among Pentagon officials (who feared an award would reopen old wounds) and outside pressure from reporters, that Thompson and Colburn finally received medals in a ceremony at the Vietnam Veterans Memorial.
But both say a far more gratifying reward was a trip back to My Lai this March to dedicate a school and a "peace park." It was then they finally met a young man named Do Hoa, who they believe was the boy they rescued from that death-filled ditch. "Being reunited with the boy was just...I can't even describe it," says Colburn. And Thompson, also overwhelmed, doesn't even try.
Almost forty years ago, CW2 Hugh Thompson saw murder in the middle of a war and stopped it. Fewer than twenty hours ago, he died of cancer in the VA Hospital in Arlington, Virginia�
Now is the time at Castle Argghhh! when we dance, In Memoriam.
To see the very tangible results of Chief Thompson's actions - click here.
If you want to learn more about Hugh Thompson - buy the book.
[First Time Visitors - you're welcome and encouraged to poke around in the corners. We try to run a fun place that does a little educating and maybe a nice rant or two. -Warning- This is a memorial post - discussion of the war and My Lai is inevitable - but we've got rules here - discuss the message, don't attack the messenger. Be polite. Others may feel it's bad form to delete comments, I have no such compunction. I won't delete ones I disagree with the content, I'll delete hair-tearing, shirt-rending rants that spew vileness at other people. Be polite (within the limits of a robust conversation, this isn't a graded debate)]
Inretelling the story of My Lai, this is the part that gets skipped. Someone had the decency to stand up and say it was wrong.
Both the military and our general history minded folks are wrong when they did this. Without this part of the story, there were no heroes and every Vietnam Veteran was tainted with its stink.
Without this part of the story, the military and many fine young men took away the moral that it was better to be quiet and take care of things "quietly". They did not learn that this was a lesson for all regarding the possible effects of war and bad leadership. nor learn the final lesson which is that, in an organization as big as the military, nothing will be a secret.
By hiding it, they killed the heroes just as much as any anti-war folks.
Real heroes never die, Chief. This man will forever live our memories. As an example of what a really righteous man is, instead of the tin plated imitators we run into on a daily basis. He will continue to be an example, an example a chucklehead like me needs right now, of how a real man does what needs to be done, what it means to be a stand up guy.
(And just to fling poo, 'cause I can, now why isn't this guy noted as the hero of My Lai instead of Sy Hersch(who swooped down like a vulture after Ridenhour did basically told everyone who would listen to him about it)? Incroiable.)
John, Well done, Sir. Sadly to say, he was a very rare breed and COMMANDS our respect. This is the lesson of Nuremburg and Watergate, plausable deniability is not a viable defense. This man's heroic action should be drilled into the bone, even into the very marrow of that bone of every American combatant. This covers the whole range. Yes, this includes the contractors and the CIA.
Kat, when someone has said it perfectly, you don't add to it. I just want to say, "Thank you. I can not speak for the other vets."
I came from that era, coming up on 60. It is very hard to explain those times, but yet we must.
I noticed one day, John was making a comment on the "Global War on Terror." He crassed out the word, "Terror" and put in the word, "Whatever." I would suggest a new name, it would be "The Global War on Tyranny."
To the both of you, my THANKS!
Grumpy
by Grumpy on January 6, 2008 2:45 PM
*sigh*
I do remember the name, Bill. I remember it because you've written about him before, and with the passion I've come to love, and expect, from you. You're a "do the right thing" guy, just like Thompson.
I'm sure there's a special place in heaven for him right now.
by AFSister on January 6, 2008 9:21 PM
I forgot what I wrote the last time this was posted, so I'll start from zero, here and now. That fellow has an earnest visage. I rate being earnest very highly. He also displayed great moral courage, which is sadly much rarer than physical courage.
If more people had more moral courage, maybe we could get by without having to use the physical variety quite so much.
R.I.P., Sir.
P.s. Oh, he had the physical kind, too, going down to draw fire...
The Department of Defense announced today the death of two soldiers who were supporting Operation Iraqi Freedom. They died Jan. 3 in As Sadiyah, Iraq, of wounds suffered when insurgents attacked their unit using small arms fire during combat operations. Both Soldiers were assigned to the Military Transition Team, 1st Brigade, 1st Infantry Division, Fort Riley, Kan.
Killed were:
Maj. Andrew J. Olmsted, 37, of Colorado Springs, Colo.
Cpt. Thomas J. Casey, 32, of Albuquerque, N.M.
For further information related to this release, contact Fort Riley public affairs at (785) 239-3410.
Major Andrew Olmstead. You owe it to yourself, and yes, Andy Olmstead, to click that link over there. This is why - and it's not the best part:
What I don't want this to be is a chance for me, or anyone else, to be maudlin. I'm dead. That sucks, at least for me and my family and friends. But all the tears in the world aren't going to bring me back, so I would prefer that people remember the good things about me rather than mourning my loss. (If it turns out a specific number of tears will, in fact, bring me back to life, then by all means, break out the onions.) I had a pretty good life, as I noted above. Sure, all things being equal I would have preferred to have more time, but I have no business complaining with all the good fortune I've enjoyed in my life. So if you're up for that, put on a little 80s music (preferably vintage 1980-1984), grab a Coke and have a drink with me. If you have it, throw 'Freedom Isn't Free' from the Team America soundtrack in; if you can't laugh at that song, I think you need to lighten up a little. I'm dead, but if you're reading this, you're not, so take a moment to enjoy that happy fact.
Now is the time at Castle Argghhh! when we dance: In Memoriam.
Update: Email I got in response to a note I sent out.
John,
I read the whole piece on his website. Looks like the world is a bit poorer today. Just too bad.
Jim
I say we are richer for knowing that we have such men and women who will strive for us, and for others.
And speaking of others, here are some others speaking of Andy:
He is a modern day Seigfried Sassoon, Edmund Blunden, Wilfried Owen. He is gone, but he will be long remembered.
by leavenworth centurion on January 4, 2008 7:46 PM
*heavy sigh*
Damn. Just... Damn.
by AFSister on January 4, 2008 8:42 PM
My prayers to his family. G-d grand them serenity.
by Glenn M. Cassel, AMH1(AW), USN RETIRED on January 4, 2008 11:36 PM
MAJ Olmstead,
We grieve for your absence in the lives of your family, friends, and the rest of us.
We celebrate the life you've lived and the influence you've had on everyone around you.
And we rejoice in the continuation of your spiritual journey.
Godspeed.
by fdcol63 on January 4, 2008 11:40 PM
John, I'd found this earlier and printed it off, as well as "The Reasons Why". I have no words that work for what he has left us. What he has left, I'll be sharing locally, even when my boss recently told me my photo should be "most wanted" since I'm a vocal vet (he was kidding on the square being from CA but working up here in the summer). I've tried reading through it several times and still haven't made it all the way.
God Bless and God's Speed Major Olmsted.
by Rod Thorsen on January 5, 2008 12:55 AM
I've just poured out a virtual libation for him at Lex's place, and an actual one rat cheer, just outside my front door into the Florida sand. I used beer, which I had in my hand. He mentioned Coca-Cola. I may go buy one of those and do it again.
[Deleted as irrelevant to the post. I maintain a post, called the H&I Fires, where this sort of post is even encouraged. But not here. -the Armorer]
by SpreadWord [Insensitive Clod] on January 5, 2008 6:39 AM
Reading that brought tears to my eyes. At first I was a bit surprised how the death of someone I didn't know could affect me so. Then I realized it's because I didn't know him. Or more precisely, because he didn't know me. He didn't know the vast majority of us. Yet still he went, he fought, and he died. For me. For all of us. No greater love, indeed.
by Tim on January 5, 2008 7:47 AM
Maj. Olmsted's final post is a good life lesson for us all - a fitting post for a life lived with vigor and love. My heart breaks for his family and friends.
Tim - you pinned it well. Because he didn't know us, and went to fight, for us - no greater love is right. Well said.
It started with a huge down. My family pretty much spent the first two and a half months caring for my mother, who had lung cancer. Then, Mom died, and a huge door shut forever, becoming only a window on the past.
Then came the Milblogger Conference, where I found out I have fans, even if they never comment or email... and discovered that we really *do* get read by the people we want to read us. But the gurls!
Meanwhile, SWWBO got ANSWER'd! That was fun, mostly. The Gathering of Eagles rally was definitely fun.
A downer was when SWWBO got canned from Cerner. Ironically, she was let go two days after the quarterly meeting where she was recognized as being one of the people who had 100% satisfaction ratings from Cerner clients... but none of the people who are in her group, and still have jobs, made the cut. Seems she didn't fit well with the group. Heh. Oddly enough, she was also the oldest member of her group (though not the most highly compensated) and when she was going through the fruitless search for another job within Cerner, *every* interview had a question about how she felt about working with younger people and did she think she'd fit in... She won't sue. Too bad. I think we'd get a pretty penny for the Cerner Campus in North Kansas City. It would make a fine place for a museum of Stoopid Corporate Cultures. I can say this now, after having sat silent for years as Cerner fumbled it's way along, jumping from this HR fad to another as they cycled through upper level management... they produce a pretty good product, and they are the giant of their market - but they make money because they don't have any serious competition. If anyone poses a serious challenge, they are such a internal culture nightmare, they'll implode. It would be good for them. They need the kick in the butt.
Then, Blogworld Expo, out in Las Vegas. Where I met Kos himself, and found out I've got fans on the west coast... and that most of the people at the Expo don't pay any attention to the polibloggers or the milbloggers... they were there to learn how to make money on their blogs. Those were the well-attended seminars! But it was fun to move among the big names of the 'sphere and find out they know my name (though I doubt they're avid consumers of Castle content...).
Yeah, it's been a year of ups and down, but the ups helped counter the downs. The family is closer, you guys still show up, and more of you than before, pushing on to 3 million uniques (well, that's what Sitemeter says, anyway - the server logs say closer to 5).
But Dad and Sis and her family are doing well. Prodigal Son Andy and his Significant Other Ashes are doing well. August graduated from college... SWWBO and I are feeling the mileage, but hey, who isn't, at this point in the Skein of Life?
Thanks for stopping by all these years. Or today, if this is your first visit.
Since I can't name you all, I won't name anyone so there are no hurt feelings (or they are at least evenly distributed). I read every email you send, and I manage to answer most of them. One plus side of not being a Really Big Blogger.
You make it worth the effort. More of you should comment, though. That's what makes it fun!
As soon as I saw the daffodil, I knew you were going to talk about losing your Mom this year. It has been a year of ups and downs for sure, but looking at the list... I'd say the ups won out in the end.
Here's to a great 2008 with even less downs and more ups!
by AFSister on December 31, 2007 6:44 PM
John,
It was another great year reading the exploits of yourself, Bill, Dusty and all of the others. I started lurking in 04 and make it a daily must read. When you decide to open the Arms Room Museum...I'll be there (from the left coast no less...maybe a SA fund raiser idea?). I wish you all of the best in 08 and keep up the great work.
Capo
by Capo del Fuoco on December 31, 2007 6:55 PM
John,
You may not have the biggest blog on the net, but it's got to be #1 for being a class act. Thanks for the info, education, humor, discussion and the Rulz.
Thanks for providing the forum! May the New Year bring the very best for you, Beth, the rest of your clan, and Castle Argghhh!
And "Happy New Year!" to all the other Castle denizens .... especially to those of you deploying or returning home.
by fdcol63 on December 31, 2007 10:45 PM
You are one of the highlights of my day. Thank you and know that you have my prayers for a wonderful 2008. Looking forward to seeing you at the next conference.
Keep it up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The Retired First Class Petty Officer stands by you.
Besides, you live in Kansas. I live in Wichita.A retired squid in an Air Force town. Go figure, my brother.
by GM Cassel, AMH1(AW), USN, RETIRED on December 31, 2007 11:22 PM
A Happy New Year to You and Yours. The year you loose your Mom never leaves but, belive me the hurt fades over time.
She will still find a way to tell you you goofed up, I know.
by Old Dog on January 1, 2008 1:00 AM
Thank you John and SWWBO, for the entertaining and informative site you run. You and yours are always welcome here in Halifax, VA, and though we ain't got much, we'll share with you!
Keep your powder dry, your rifle clean, and your hatchet sharp!
Airborne, All the way!
by Alan Briley, RN on January 1, 2008 9:13 AM
May you *always* misunderestimate the rack space you need... howz that for a New Years wish, eh?
I just want to tell you, now that some time has passed, that when I read your Mother's obit on here, it was just an interesting writeup for a nice lady, until it got to the part where you said "Mom". I'm crying again as I write this. Happy new year!
by BigFred on January 1, 2008 10:29 AM
Happy New Year!! I too thank you for Argghh and the denizens and, well, everything.
Y'all up for round two of gyrls gone wyld?
by Carrie on January 1, 2008 12:59 PM
A mind is a terrible thing to lose.
by Carrie on January 1, 2008 4:09 PM
I'm always up for Gurls gone Wyld, Boomer Edition.
From Jules Crittenden, reproduced whole with permission. [You should read it anyway, Cassandra... 8^ ) ]
Christmas Story
Meet Capt. Southworth. Meet Ala’a. It’s not just their story. It’s a bit of a project. AP:
MAUSTON, Wis. (AP) — Capt. Scott Southworth knew he’d face violence, political strife and blistering heat when he was deployed to one of Baghdad’s most dangerous areas. But he didn’t expect Ala’a Eddeen.
Ala’a was 9 years old, strong of will but weak of body — he suffered from cerebral palsy and weighed just 55 pounds. He lived among about 20 kids with physical or mental disabilities at the Mother Teresa orphanage, under the care of nuns who preserved this small oasis in a dangerous place.
On Sept. 6, 2003, halfway through his 13-month deployment, Southworth and his military police unit paid a visit to the orphanage. They played and chatted with the children; Southworth was talking with one little girl when Ala’a dragged his body to the soldier’s side.
Black haired and brown eyed, Ala’a spoke to the 31-year-old American in the limited English he had learned from the sisters. He recalled the bombs that struck government buildings across the Tigris River.
“Bomb-Bing! Bomb-Bing!” Ala’a said, raising and lowering his fist.
“I’m here now. You’re fine,” the captain said.
Over the next 10 months, the unit returned to the orphanage again and again. The soldiers would race kids in their wheelchairs, sit them in Humvees and help the sisters feed them.
To Southworth, Ala’a was like a little brother. But Ala’a — who had longed for a soldier to rescue him — secretly began referring to Southworth as “Baba,” Arabic for “Daddy.”
MILWAUKEE (AP) — Having overcome great obstacles to adopt an Iraqi orphan with cerebral palsy, Scott Southworth is spearheading an effort to find families to care for another 21 disabled children from that unhappy land.
Soldiers found the boys in June in a government-run Baghdad orphanage, naked and emaciated on cement floors in their urine and feces. Swarms of flies covered some. Others were tied to the outside of their cribs.
“It was just gut wrenching,” Southworth said.
A soldier in the military police unit Southworth led in Iraq, Sgt. Kerry Otwaska, saw a television clip on the orphanage in June. Devastated, he called Southworth, who contacted another comrade, Lt. Sheree Gunderson.
All three had spent time visiting children at the Mother Teresa orphanage in Baghdad, and they recognized some of those boys in the television report — they had been moved to the government facility. Three of them have since died.
“Feeling sorry for them on our end isn’t enough,” Southworth said. “We need some action."
You’ll want to read the rest of that, too. Southworth needs help. AP adds:
EDITOR'S NOTE _ Anyone interested in participating in the effort to care for these children can contact Scott Southworth at shsouth@mwt.net
To all of our visitiors, with special emphasis to the Denizens and the long-time lurkers (may you periodically break cover and drop a comment!)
A look around the Castle's world at Christmas...
Bill checked in via the post below.
Dusty sends:
It's midnight in El Paso and I launch from here back to a regional hub this evening as part of the mad scramble that is Christmas at [a major cargo carrier]. Have NO idea where I'll be Christmas Day...probably relaunch that night. Anyway, being a real-life Santa is kinda fun. Picture of the sleigh cockpit attached.
Hope you and Beth's 2008 is the best yet and all the critters have a healthy and happy year, too.
My best to all the denizens--I'll be too busy to post anything for the next week or so.
Happy Holidays to all,
Dusty
Like Dusty, the Coast Guard Delivers...
So does the Navy - taking a little time out for some rescuing on the side.
071224-N-8594S-066 YOKOSUKA, Japan (Dec. 24, 2007) Lt. j.g. Steven T. Benefield helps open a gift to give to the children at the Shunko-gakuen orphanage. 25 sailors assigned to the amphibious command ship USS Blue Ridge (LCC 19) volunteered their time to go the local orphanage and share gifts and holiday spirit with the children. Blue Ridge is forward deployed to Yokosuka, Japan, and serves as the flagship for Commander U.S. 7th Fleet. U.S. Navy photo by Mass Communication Specialist 2nd Class Will L. Sweats
071223-N-2880M-085 PERSIAN GULF (Dec. 23, 2007) The last of seven shipwrecked survivors is escorted across the flight deck of the Nimitz-class nuclear-powered aircraft carrier USS Harry S. Truman (CVN 75) after being rescued at sea by two MH-60S Seahawk helicopters, assigned to the "Sea Knights" of Helicopter Sea Combat Squadron (HSC) 22 embarked aboard the fast combat support ship USNS Arctic (T-AOE 8). The mariners were recovered after their dhow sank in rough seas. Truman and Arctic are deployed to the Persian Gulf as part of the on-going rotation to support maritime security operations in the region. U. S. Navy photo by Mass Communication Specialist 3rd Class Joshua Moore
Some Marines mark the holiday at sea...
ABOARD USS TARAWA (Dec. 24, 2007) — Gunnery Sgt. Christian Bull, squadron gunnery sergeant, Marine Medium Helicopter Squadron 166 (Reinforced), calls for a Marine to come pick a care package sent by members of the unit’s Key Volunteer Network back home during a Christmas Eve party in the Tarawa’s hangar bay. HMM-166 (REIN) is from Marine Corps Air Station Miramar, Can Diego, Calif., and is the MEU’s aviation combat element. The 11th MEU (SOC), Camp Pendleton, Calif., is embarked aboard the Tarawa and other ships of the Tarawa Expeditionary Strike Group. They have been at sea since leaving San Diego Nov. 4 on a scheduled six-month deployment through the Western Pacific Ocean and Arabian Gulf regions. (Official U.S. Marine Corps photo by Sgt. Bryson K. Jones)
In Iraq, the Army doesn't let the holiday go unobserved...
Holiday Spirit Photo by Sgt. Brandon Little
December 21, 2007: 1st Lt. Adam Samiof, Camp Taji, Iraq, helps fellow Soldiers decorate a tree for the holidays.
The USAF goes the extra mile - literally, to bring home some holiday cheer...
Children gather around Santa Claus at the Hogar San Antonio de Padua Orphanage in Comayagua, Honduras. Operation Christmas Wish is an annual trip made by Airmen from the 1st Special Operations Wing who deliver more than 9,000 lbs of Christmas packages to hundreds of Honduran orphans. Santa is Tech. Sgt. Norman Padilla Cruz from the 1st Special Operations Aeromedical Squadron. (U.S. Air Force photo/Senior Airman Stephanie Jacobs)
The more things change...
Holiday Spirit: December 21, 2007 Servicemembers at Camp Buehring, Kuwait, celebrate the holidays. For a larger pic of those soldiers, sailors - and a coalition troop or two - click here.
...some things are still timeless.
Sitting around a miniature Christmas tree and opening a Christmas package are (front row, left to right) S/Sgt. John F. Suchanek; and Pfc. Joseph G. Pierro; and (back row) Sgt. Charles M. Myrich; and Sgt. Leon L. Oben. All are members of F. A. Bn., 3rd Div. Pietramelara, Italy. December 16, 1943.
Merry Christmas everybody from all of us who reside at Castle Argghhh!... and hopefully most of you are reading this late in the day, or after Christmas. Today is a day for flesh and blood, if you can - not electrons! -the Armorer
"A day for flesh and blood", eh? Well said! ...and as there's 8 pounds of it, perhaps I'll get my prime rib sandwich on Boxing Day this year! Best to all from Colorado...
by Neffi on December 25, 2007 2:29 PM
Heres a note from one of the long time lurkers. I sure apreciate everything ya'll do for our troops and the great information I get from you. Best wishes to you and yours. Bob
My very best wishes for all of. May you all have a prosperous and healthy new year, and many happy returns of the season.
I apologise not commenting as often as I have in the past, my family has suffered some health issues this past few months, and I haven't the time to be as active as I would like. Still and all, we're all here and celebrating together.
As to USS Blue Ridge, WOW! She's been around some time. i remember watching her burn in San Diego back in '76. I was attending Navy fire-fighting classes when she had a huge fire in her engine rooms. Put the fear of God into all of us watching from afar.
I *hate* that the power outage caused us to miss this.
Trit was a fascinating man. An early reader and frequent commenter at the Castle, he drifted from commenting here and moved into SWWBO's blog, as my focus shifted away somewhat from guns and more to things military and political.
When SWWBO started Carnival of the Recipes (the longest-running Carnival on the 'net, I wonder how many people remember it was SWWBO's idea?) he submitted a recipe for... dog.
That caused some consternation at the Castle, I can tell ya. But Triticale was nothing if not a practical man, and his own man. As astute man.
Not as polished as Will Rogers, perhaps, but he had that same eye for puncturing pomposity with a simple observation.
Yujiro Shidara. Born: 13.01.1972. Died: 09.12.2007. He was a man who was friends to many but the enemy of no-one. He is survived by his wife, Emiko, their one month old daughter, Momo, his mother (Kimiyo), father, sister, and elder brother (Kojiro). He is still my friend. He ever was and will ever be thus.
He died being a dutiful son. He was driving his mother to O’Hare airport so she could fly back to Yokohama after helping out with the newborn, Momo-chan. He had his ‘night in the ditch’, and upon climbing back up the embankment to talk to what he believed were the police he was hit and killed by a teenage driver---driving too fast for freezing rain conditions, for his experience level---who hit the same slush that spilled Yuji-san into the ditch. He was a better man than I.
A quiet, patient, and beyond the norm (even for Japanese) polite man. In the 3 years I’ve known him I never once heard him raise his voice to anyone. He was quick to laughter and smiles. He blinked a lot. Highly inquisitive and rarely offended by what he found. A good friend who loved to have far ranging conversations on a multitude of topics, and prone to responding to information he was given with earnest wonderment of it. A trait that is a requirement to be a scientist’s scientist, that few have, and he had in never ending abundance.
Yujiro, like many Japanese I know who have come to the US to study, worked long and hard to earn the financial freedom to have the opportunity to follow his passions instead of simply earning a living. He worked 8 long years in Japan as a dentist before he came to Purdue to become a professional biologist. He was, quite simply, brilliant. Yujiro was hard working, efficient, and skilled. He would begin working at 5am in the lab and wouldn’t leave until well after 5pm. Day in and day out, like clock work, he got the job done, living his dream.
Yujiro met Emiko while they both were in college (daigaku), fell in love, and lived the fairytale most couples wished they could achieve. They both studied dentistry and both are certified dentists in Japan. They married in Japan long before coming to the States. They looked forward to coming here. With the closing of their practice in Japan they now had the time along with the means to finally start a family.
They were happy here before Momo-chan arrived, extremely. When Momo did arrive they were ecstatic--- I’ve never seen a happier, and perplexed, father nor a more radiant expectant mother. Yujiro sought to break with tradition in Japan: he would be imminently involved with feeding, diapering, taking care of fussy baby, the whole nine-yards (and in typical Yujiro-fashion more like the entire football field instead of just the nine.). The phrase ‘he was a good husband’ fails to come close to what Yuji-san was. He was an example of what most husbands could and should be.
Siyonara, Yujiro-san. Jess and I shall miss you. You lived well, an example to all of us who knew you.
Ryan.
My sincerest condolences to you, and to his family and to all his other friends. In such times, we can only hope that there is a greater purpose to a tragedy like this.
by fdcol63 on December 10, 2007 7:09 AM
*sniff*
I hate to hear this, Ry. You lost a good friend, and it would appear that Emiko lost her best friend and husband, not to mention to father of their newborn baby.
So very, very sad.
by AFSister on December 10, 2007 1:20 PM
To lose part of your soul...and a wonderful friend. I think he is happy that you have
memorialized him. Keeping you all in our prayers
here at Chez Engineer.
Momo has a guardian angel now.
by Cricket on December 10, 2007 2:51 PM
Ry - I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend. Thank you for sharing Yujiro with us.
Thanks. It was the least I could do. Really, thank you all. The Shidara's were very touched by you expressing grief for their son. Doomo.
by ry on December 11, 2007 1:07 AM
Ryan,
Sorry to hear about your friend. I'm a reporter from the local paper that covers Purdue and we wanted to follow up on his death. We always do a story when someone at Purdue dies. His story is especially touching.
I'll leave my contact info here. If you would be willing to call me or e-mail me a number to call you, we'd like to give you the opportunity to say whatever you would like about your friend. Thanks.
Brian Wallheimer
765-420-5346
bwallheimer@journalandcourier.com
You described Yuijiro perfectly, not a word you said was untrue. Yujiro helped me with my Japanese and I helped him with his English. I was looking forward to spending the next year having those long conversations and eating with his family as we did every so often. He will be missed by me and my friends. I will always remember Yujiro laughing and smiling. I wish there was something I could do for Momo-chan and Emiko. If there is anything, please let me know.
by Joe Hemphill on December 11, 2007 2:25 PM
Ryan, I worked with Emiko on some of her articles around the beginning of her pregnancy. She was thrilled to finally begin a journey of growing their family. I am so sorry for her and your loss. I can't imagine a nicer person, Emiko always talked about her husband so proudly. My prayers are with them and all who suffer from this tragedy.
This could go in H&I Fires above, but this is one you really don't want to miss. "Inspiring" doesn't even BEGIN to cover it...
The "Someones" are an entire family--two sons (one fallen), a 60-year-old father inspired by his son(s), and a mother-wife with devotion, perspective and courage that should be an example to us all. CDR Salamander writes:
How do you define sacrifice? How do you respond to loss? How do you focus pride, grief, love and honor? Do you try to take positive action in the face of a horror you never expected to face? Can you go beyond the emotional and tap into the intellectual? ...I ask you to step back , absorb, and most of all - be humble.
Be sure to see comments at Salamander's link for the story of the surviving brother.
We've had other stories of courageous response to loss similar to this one... but the response of this entire family is in a league of its own. You will not be sorry for clicking through.
If you've been to a sandbox, are going to a sandbox, or are *in* a sandbox - this post's for you.
And, in truth - if you've served, this post's for you.
And I, in addition to that - give thanks to those of you who support we who have, are, and will serve. Especially those of you who keep an eye on the ones that get left behind when the wars aren't so hot...
Even though I lost my mother this year, with the closing of that door came the opening of another. Thanks to Mom, SWWBO and I can take walks down this little road.
Which isn't a road, really. It's the bed of the creek moat that runs at the base of the motte upon which rests the new Castle. At this point it runs along the top of the soft shales that underlay the area. We'll never have to buy another flagstone.
A year where the rest of the family has remained pretty healthy, and we all grew closer helping Mom make her passage to the next stage of her existence.
We've had reason to get closer to son Andy and his gurl, Ashes.
We got to meet a President. We influenced, in minor ways, policy, for Veterans, for Warriors, and we've been involved in helping the Stories Untold, get told.
We've helped provide adaptive laptops for warriors who need them. In non-blogging endeavors, we've helped the homeless, the hungry, the shut-in. We've helped with literacy at home and abroad. We've helped organize events to bring the community together.
The blog has expanded our professional horizons, too, creating windows of opportunity that beckon for exploitation.
We've suffered the barbs of age discrimination - and lost a source of income as a result... but through that, too, was a door opened. This time for SWWBO. who gets to indulge a dream, aided again by Mom, who's influence is still felt, and whose absence still leaves a huge hole.
We lost a puppy, but rescued another.
But much of what has gone right this year is due to those of you who find this a congenial place to hang out, and worthy of returning to, despite it's admittedly creaky infrastructure. Those who post, those who comment, and those who lurk.
And for that, too, we are thankful.
An unread blog is a terrible thing. But readers... well, readers make it worth coming back to.
Happy Thanksgiving all!
Update: I just put 20 rounds downrange from my No.4Mk1(T) (less the (T), actually). Something else to be thankful for. Grab the rifle, the box of Sellier & Bellot .303 ammo, and step out the back. Load, lock, fire. 20 times. Police the brass. Walk back in. Clean the rifle. Rack it.
Time expended... including prep and travel? 30 minutes. Ahhhhh. Now *that's* something to be thankful for, in addition to all the good stuff already mentioned...
This seems appropriate to mark, as well. Canadian forces lost two more soldiers last week.
Prime Minister Harper issued a statement of condolence Saturday. "These are all exceptional Canadians who deserve the gratitude and respect of this nation," he said. "The actions of these brave soldiers have brought hope to the Afghan people."
Two Canadian soldiers and their Afghan interpreter were killed when their vehicle hit a mine early Saturday morning, about 40 klicks west of Kandahar.
The Canadian dead are Corporal. Nicolas Raymond Beauchamp, 28, of the 5th Field Ambulance in Valcartier (right, below), and Private. Michel Levesque, 25, of the 3rd battalion of the Royal 22nd Regiment, also in Valcartier (left, below).
According to a report I saw on CTV news last night, Cpl Beauchamp's wife, also a medic, was in Kandahar. She marched behind his casket, bearing his beret, during the ramp ceremony.
by Pat on November 19, 2007 11:33 AM
Isn't it interesting that war turns around like it does? When was the last time a wife was at the battle front with her husband? 19th century?
When they get to Fiddler's Green, I hope there is some Labatt's waiting for them. My prayers go to their families and the 22nd from Quebec City. As fine an outfit that ever was.
The Bible tells us that "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends." (John 15.13, King James (my fave) version)
True enough.
Most of the time I read that, and I, like I expect most of you, cast it in terms of heroic actions in terms of war, disaster, and other, singular events. That's the only way I can remember having seen the phrase used. Up until this post, it's the only way I've used it.
Just goes to show how narrow my thinking can be at times, canalized by what I chose to do for a living.
Because there is another, arguably harder path to choose. Where one has to make the choice of a similar sacrifice every.single.day. Especially in a pop culture that promotes and values self-absorbtion as ours does.
I remember that day in the summer of '68 when we got the telegram that Dad couldn't stop the Army from sending because he arrived at the field hospital unconscious (he stopped 4 others that long year). Mom stood paralyzed at the door. I had to take the thing and read it.
It said Dad was wounded but not seriously wounded. It helpfully noted the helicopter did not crash and burn.
In our case, they were right. In *this* case, they were not.
Meet Flora and Johnny Brooks. Yeah, Brava! for this woman. Indeed. Greater love has no person than they give their life, for another.
From SanLuisObispo.com:
The military telegram arrives, and a marriage is forever changed.
By JULIET WILLIAMS
Associated Press Writer
STOCKTON, Calif. --The telegram arrived on Nov. 15, 1969: "Private First Class Johnny O Brooks was slightly wounded in action," it began.
Flora Brooks, 20 and recently married, read on, not knowing then how much her life was about to change.
"Since he is not, repeat not seriously injured, no further reports will be furnished," the telegram concluded.
The couple would grow old together, but not in the way either had envisioned.
There would be no children, no exotic vacations, not even the simple fishing jaunts they had enjoyed before Johnny Brooks was drafted into the Army and sent to Vietnam.
He returned home without a leg and would soon lose the other, along with his ability to speak and the use of his arms.
Nearly 40 years later, Flora Brooks continues to serve as nursemaid and constant companion to a husband who is confined to a bed, unable to talk or move on his own.
Damn humidity...I can't see the keyboard. Is something being done for couples like this? I
tell you that there has to be a God in Heaven
for someone to care as deeply as that. What
a wonderful woman.
by Cricket on November 12, 2007 8:21 AM
I turned 18 in 1969. When I read stuff like this I get weepy and feel, well, guilty. My life since then has been no great shakes, and I always wonder if my participation might have helped tip things in a better direction, even if only by stopping some metal that killed a better guy due to my not being in front of him.
Don't worry, Sir, I am not thinking what I think you are thinking that I am thinking, just normal Celtic gloominess, exacerbated by disappointment at failing to influence events, and maybe even have some cool manly disgusting fun, when young.
Today is my day. Today is SWWBO's day. Today is my Dad's day. Today is Dusty's day. Today is Bill's day. Neffi's, Bloodspite's, Sanger's, Jim B's, Mike L's, Jim C's, John S', V29's, Sergeant B's, 1SG Keith's, Oldloadr's, 74's, CAPT H's, a certain Canadian Gunner who shall remain nameless, a certain Redleg Captain who shall remain nameless, MajMike's, the 'Phibian's, Lex's, Matty's, Chuck's, the list is endless, and I know I didn't list everybody - feel free to add yourself in the comments. That would be a nice touch, actually.
But, even though it grew from Armistice Day, and is Remembrance Day to our Anglosphere buddies, it is *not* my Grandfather's day. Daddy Jack, a soldier of the Great War, well, his day now is Memorial Day.
Today we celebrate the living. The survivors. We honor the dead in May. Except today we Veterans honor the dead, too. We can't help it. The bonds of combat soldiery are tightest because of those who went with us but didn't come back, they took the low road while we took the high. Most of us have an "absent companion" or four that we drink to, when the time is right. Today it will be right. I have 17 19 that I will drink to. 17 little shots of tequila. Actually, I won't do it tonight when I get home, either. I spread 'em out between Veteran's Day and Memorial Day. My father doesn't even try. If he toasted all his ghosts, his liver would rip itself out of his belly and run. I rather expect Bill has a similar problem.
I honor my two favorite veterans: SWWBO, and my Father. The rest of you can take your positions after that. I honor my two favorite people who sweated out what their veterans were off doing: Mom and my sister. Well, this year Mom moved to the Memorial Day slot, dammit.
Last year, I was in the Leavenworth Veteran's Day parade. This year, the demands of work won't allow that. S'okay.
We have bonds, we veterans. Bonds that sometimes our closest family don't understand. Why does Grampa Joe keep bailing that wino out of trouble? Because that wino lost two fingers tossing a grenade out of a two-man fighting position during the a vicious night fight on Guadalcanal, that's why. Because that stranger that Dad greets like a long lost brother once a year is, in fact, a long lost brother, who shared the exhilaration of the night combat drop on Point Salines. Because the quiet guy you've never seen before extracted your Dad's best friend's body from a helicopter crash in Mogadishu by cutting off his legs - so that no man would be left behind. Because that guy over there negotiated with Aideed to get the legs back.
Because that woman sitting at the table comforted many of your grandfather's friends as they lay dying, the last thing they ever saw, or heard. Because that janitor in your school spent a long night on LZ X-Ray, cut off from his unit, keeping his squadmates alive. Because that Bank President looking at ties over there drove an AMTRAC across the reef at Tarawa under a withering fire so your uncle wouldn't have to slog in on foot, fighting both the sea and the Japanese. That man in Lions with your great-uncle? Your uncle helped him walk out from the Frozen Chosin.
Because that man serving turkey at the shelter helped Uncle Bob deal with Esther's "Dear John" letter, that arrived right before "Big Push." And him, that guy playing with his grandkids, who always seems to have some candy for you... well, he's a Glow-worm, a fighter pilot who jumped from a burning aircraft after he lost that dogfight with the Bf-109, and spent the rest of the war in a POW camp - and survived the forced marches to the west, as the germans were falling back from the onslaught of the Red Army. His buddy? The wingman whose 'six' was being covered. We are also a maudlin, sentimental group. We honor ALL of our veterans. Especially the ones who didn't really volunteer, but would and did give their lives freely for their brothers in arms, too.
We have the bond of shared experiences, whether it's Basic, Jump School, the JRTC, Graf, Pahakuloa, Camp Red Cloud, Hof, Okinawa, Tay Ninh, Vung Tau, Suwon, Phenix City, El Paso, Biloxi, FOB Speicher, Fallujah, Al Anbar, the convoys across the Atlantic, storming over a beach, busting bunkers, hunkering under artillery, rescuing families caught in the middle, finding that cask of cognac and... and the list goes on and on and on. And your newest veterans - they will have their traumas, too.
I am proud of my place among you, you men and women who simply did their duty. Who didn't run. Who came when asked. I am among giants. But my thoughts will be with the newest wave of veterans.
by Spc. Nathan Hoskins November 8, 2006
Pvt. Michelle Young, Pvt. Zachary Smith and Spc. Courtney Brenton from 3rd Battalion, 227th Aviation Regiment, 1st Air Cavalry Brigade, 1st Cavalry Division, beautify Dining Facility 1 at Camp Buehring, Kuwait. Paintings like this one are found throughout the camp. This photo appeared on www.army.mil.
The Republic is well served. Well served indeed. And as long as we find men and women willing to do the hard, dirty work - there will be a Republic.
...his liver would rip itself out of his belly and run. I rather expect Bill has a similar problem.
It already tried that, but without the alcohol inducement. The good news is, the kevlar patch the docs inserted makes about 18 square inches of me bulletproof.
We went to Mass at the 20FW Chapel, today (as is our custom). The priest said I want to think all of the veterans here today for their service. Two things came to mind:
1. Nearly everyone there was either a veteran or, as you mentioned, one who has supported a veteran while he/she was off doing whatever, where-ever.
2. The priest at the chapel is an active duty chaplain (maj) who is, of course, a veteran himself, but as is the way with this particular brotherhood, we all seem to celebrate others' service and denigrate our own; and maybe that is as it should be.
Hope everyone has a fulfilling Veterans Day!
by Oldloadr on November 11, 2007 12:49 PM
I have my Dad's dog tag here. It is from 1942. I can date it because in those days the date of the last tetanus shot was on the dog tag. I also have his "ruptured duck" lapel pin given to those discharged during the war.
My brother and I were in the Army in the early '70s. He served two tours in Vietam. He liked it there. There was a time while he was in Vietnam and I was in Alaska that there was 150 degrees of separation between us. That's temperature degrees.
by Fred on November 11, 2007 1:49 PM
Well said. Well described. Well missed.
by Mr. T's Haircut on November 11, 2007 6:28 PM
Enjoy your Day, and to all of you that this Day celebrates, remember it's for you too.
John, this was a beautiful post- one of my favorites now. Thank you, and Happy Veteran's Day.
by AFSister on November 11, 2007 8:53 PM
Dead or alive, they are still veterans. And, given the level of their sacrifice, I have no qualms giving the dead two days of remembrance.
As for today, I honored MacGyver. And my Daddy who was 1 year too young for WWII and never saw front line action in Korea but served honorably nonetheless. I honor MacGyver's 2 brothers, his dad, both of his grandfathers, and so on as well as my Grandfather who fought for in the South Pacific during WWII.
My liver is wimpy so I'm not going to even attempt to drink shots to the 7 friends of ours who will be honored again in May. I'll be content to say a prayer for their friends and loved ones.
Thank you for the post John. And for your service. And to the rest of you here, reading...thank you. So very much.
We have not fought most of our wars this last hundred years alone. And other nations, other armies, with whom we have much in common also honor the living and remember their dead. I have a significant Canadian readership. So, I honor our Canadian and Commonwealth brothers, who shed blood with us in Afghanistan, and sadly, a good chunk of it was shed by us... so it's only fitting.
Usually around Christmas you see the poems about the American soldier and his sacrifices. The Canadians have one too.
Who Is He
He is profane and irreverent, living as he does in a world full of capriciousness, frustration and disillusionment. He is perhaps the best-educated of his kind in history, but will rarely accord respect on the basis of mere degrees or titles.
He speaks his own dialect, often incomprehensible to the layman. He can be cold, cruel, even brutal and is frequently insensitive. Killing is his profession and he strives very hard to become even more skilled at it.
His model is the grey, muddy, hard-eyed slayer who took the untakeable at Vimy Ridge, endured the unendurable in the Scheldt and held the unholdable at Kapyong.
He is a superlative practical diplomat; his efforts have brought peace to countless countries around the world. He is capable of astonishing acts of kindness, warmth and generosity. He will give you his last sip of water on a parched day and his last food to a hungry child; he will give his very life for the society he loves. Danger and horror are his familiars and his sense of humour is accordingly sardonic. What the unknowing take as callousness is his defence against the unimaginable; he whistles through a career filled with graveyards.
His ethos is one of self-sacrifice and duty. He is sinfully proud of himself, of his unit and of his countryand he is unique in that his commitment to his society is Total. No other trade or profession dreams of demanding such of its members
and none could successfully try.
He loves his family dearly, sees them all too rarely and as often as not loses them to the demands of his profession. Loneliness is the price he accepts for the privilege of serving. He accounts discomfort as routine and the search for personal gain as beneath him; he has neither understanding of nor patience
for those motivated by self-interest, politics or money.
His loyalty can be absolute, but it must be purchased. Paradoxically, the only coin accepted for that payment is also loyalty. He devours life with big bites, knowing that each bite might be his last and his manners suffer thereby. He would rather die regretting the things he did than the ones he dared not try. He earns a good wage by most standards and, given the demands on him, is woefully underpaid.
He can be arrogant, thoughtless and conceited, but will spend himself, sacrifice everything for total strangers in places he cannot even pronounce. He considers political correctness a podium for self-righteous fools, but will die fighting for the rights of anyone he respects or pities.
He is a philosopher and a drudge, an assassin and a philanthropist, a servant and a leader, a disputer and a mediator, a Nobel Laureate peacekeeper and the Queen's Hitman, a brawler and a healer, best friend and worst enemy. He is a rock, a goat, a fool, a sage, a drunk, a provider, a cynic and a romantic dreamer. Above it all, he is a hero for our time.
You, pale stranger, sleep well at night only because he exists for you, the citizen who has never met him, has perhaps never thought of him and may even despise him. He is both your child and your guardian. His devotion to you is unwavering.
Hell, he's any soldier of a true democracy. And he too is one of my brothers-in-arms.
A worthy cartoon. H/t, Barb of Righty in a Lefty State.
H/t to CAPT H for the Canadian input. A nod to Sheldon P (1 PPCLI) and Jim Cope (USA, ret'd) for the link to Remember.
I just visited the National Steel Car website (a Hamilton-based railway freight car manufacturer) . I will be linking to their site on November 11th. If you have a moment, visit http://www.steelcar .com/ and look at the pages for "In Memoriam" and "Remembrance Day, 2007".
I can't recall the last time I saw such a respectful salute to the veterans and the serving troops on a corporate website (and one, so far as I know, that doesn't particularly depend on government or military contracts, so it doesn't appear to be just pandering . . . it seems heartfelt). I've sent an email to them, thanking them for putting this material on their website.
Regards,
Nicholas
Brigadier, Red Ensign Brigade
I visited. You should too. And I don't think it's a mistake that photos of US troops are included in their memorial video.
...you've seen me give hat-tip credit for the atrocious puns and oddball jokes with which V29 and Doc E bombard me (thereby reinforcing my rep as a real stand-up, albeit strait-laced, individual) and you've "met" V29 via his semifrequent comments and the TINS Times Two we tag-teamed on a while back.
So, I figger it's time to introduce Doc E.
He's the guy on the left who forgot his sunblock. And, yes, he really *is* a doctor (even though he's never played one on TV), or, more precisely, he's now a *retired* doctor. But he prefers playing with his 'puter to playing with golf sticks -- he's a hi-tech hobbyist who's translated some of his pix from the Ol' Days into some YouTube vids, and I think you'll find his most recent effort a bit thought-provoking.
I'll link it after this caveat: although the pix and music are work-safe, there's a picture at the 6:35 mark you might want to view alone, or forego viewing altogether.
It's a shot of one of our cockpits after a typical day suddenly became a really bad one. The pilot was from my platoon.
And so long as we would have freedom, there will be a price upon it, and so long as there is a price, there must be those willing to give what is asked, or we will no longer have freedom. Now transfer the image of that Huey cockpit to the interior of a Hummer or a sandbag checkpoint...
We're a fortunate people to have among us those who have given what was asked. We have the freedom for which they have paid -- and continue to pay.
It's only fair that we return them something in the way of repayment, isn't it?
I didn't look away, Bill. It's the least I can do to honor the men who died.
Thanks to Doc E for putting that together. It's a perfect reminder of the importance of Project Valour-IT.
JTG -- That'd be WO1 Leroy Dike, is my guess (the pic was taken after I left). The 55-gallon drum structure is our above-ground bunker (the water table was nine inches below the surface), which would withstand direct hits from 81mm mortars, but not from 122mm rockets. The background hootch looks like one of the wooden barracks they built after yours truly had departed for the Land of the Big PX.
[FbL here. The Armorer is winging his way across the country, so I have fearlessly stepped in. I'll let you know if I survive the Evil Eye for doing so. Update: The donation totals in the widgets are not tracking correctly, but donations are still being received and credited in PayPal. We hope to have the bug fixed soon.(Bumping this back up top where it belongs.--ry)] [Bumping it back down to where it was, cuz I did something new - the Armorer]
It's that time again.
What time?
Time for ruthless competition, endless inter-service snarkage, and constant meter-watching. Oh, and we raise some money for a good cause, too!
It's the 2007 Valour-IT Veterans Day Fundraising Competition, the yearly slugfest where milbloggers and friends compete to see who can get to the fundraising goal first. Last year our merry band raised over $230,000 dollars. This year, need among the wounded hasn't changed, with as many as 100 laptops going out each month. But every year, the amazing bloggers who participated have exceeded Valour-IT's wildest hopes. Let's do it again!
Here's the who, what, where, when, why and how of the competition:
Who: Bloggers of any and all stripes who support the U.S. Military What: Raising $240,000 ($60,000/team) for Project Valour-IT, the non-profit Soldiers' Angels program that helps supply voice-controlled and other adapted laptops to severely-wounded troops. Where: Starting on the blogs, then spreading through your community and into major media When: Monday, 29 October through Saturday, 11 November (Veterans Day) Why: Because reconnecting the wounded with the world is a vital part of their recovery How: Signing up, blogging, auctioning, emailing, and just generally spreading the news
For more info, see the important competition websites listed below.
Official Website: history and background on Valour-IT, official donation info Bulletin Board: general competition info, tech help, team planning, announcements, etc. Auction Site: donated items for sale Project Blog: background, interesting links, daily donation tracking, public relations
Let's make this happen! There are wounded men and women who need us, and to whom we owe so much.
So, what're ya waitin' for?! Need inspiration? Check "Selected Valour-IT Posts" in my sidebar or click on the "Valour-IT" category below that and at the bottom of this post.
Though I myself am on the Marine Corps team, I'm guessing the Armorer would prefer I post the following (besides, you doggies have some catching up to do! *grin*):
UPDATE: The widget that was here earlier has been giving as fits, so we changed over to a new one. Unfortunately, the new one only works in the sidebar and I don't have permission to change the sidebar. But you can go here to donate to the team of your choice.
Thanks, FuzzyB, I know yer pullin' for the sailors. but thanks for stepping in here. I'm back on the ground, and about to go into work... but I've got some stuff up my sleeve for this one, too.
You're welcome, John. Things up your sleeves? Good! Knowing how busy you are and with your restricted/frustrating Internet access, I hadn't bee expecting much. So glad you're going to be able to contribute...
For some reason the widgets are not updating. Data is being collected, but not being forwarded. We're working on it, but the company is based in Hawaii, so they're three hours behind us. As soon as things get un-knotted, all the previous donations should show up in the totals.
No one's lost and no one's missing
No more parting, just hugs and kissing
And all these stars are just for wishing In my heaven....
"Not in front of the children." That's a phrase most of us associate with bitter marital feuds, a reminder that children are often frightened or hurt when adults lose control of their emotions; that little eyes and ears see and hear more than we think they do.
That harsh words, spoken in the heat of anger, can leave ugly scars.
It's a pity so few of the participants in our often fractured debate on the war spare a thought for its smallest victims:
CamerynLee was only 3 years old when her father, Lance Cpl. Eric J. Orlowski, a Marine Corps reservist, was killed in an accidental shooting during the first days of the Iraq war. Now 8, she is suddenly hungry for information about the man she remembers only in sketchy vignettes: Did he like chicken wings as much as she does? How about hockey? Was he funny?
In a grim marker of the longevity of the war, children who were infants or toddlers when they lost a parent in action are growing up. In the process, they are coming to grips with death in new, more mature and at times more painful ways — pondering a parent they barely knew, asking pointed questions about the circumstances of the death and experiencing a kind of delayed grief.
Families and bereavement counselors say that media coverage of the war, dedication ceremonies and even school events — in which most classmates have both parents in attendance — can all heighten yearning for the missing parent. For young children, the flood of prickly feelings and questions often arises just as the surviving parent is moving beyond his or her own intense grief, sometimes with a new spouse or partner in the picture.
In prior wars, children of soldiers and Marines killed in action would have medals, stacks of letters, perhaps a few photographs or, if they were very lucky, a faded clipping from the local newspaper to help keep the memory of a lost loved one alive. To such meager artifacts would be added endless quiet recountings of birthdays, vacations, holidays and the thousand shared moments - trivial, poignant, or hilarious - that make each family happy in its own unique way.
But the children of today's fallen warriors are growing up in a digital age, surrounded by often disturbing images and multimedia Is it too much to ask that when these smallest Americans look for traces of their missing fathers or mothers, the first image to spring to their minds should comfort, and not horrify?
One by one, the children of war are growing up. They are learning to read, to take an interest in the world around them, to follow politics and the nightly news. They surf the Internet. And what they find as they explore their increasingly divided nation should disturb and shame all of us. For instead of discovering that the world is in capable hands, they are finding a nation of self-absorbed, petulant children in grown-up clothing, squabbling and tearing at each other and eroding the very underpinnings of civil society with no conception of how our actions impact those who depend on us.
The media demand the right to film the dead, grievously wounded, and the dying, though such stunningly insensitive and dehumanizing behavior goes against the very civilized norms they hold up as a mirror to the Bush administration. Indeed, the oft-cited Geneva convention forbids the photographing of detainees. to protect them from threats or acts of violence. But this prohibition is also intended to protect their honor and dignity against the dehumanizing public curiosity, insults, and abuse of which our species is unfortunately all too capable. Oddly, though the media regularly use the Geneva 'humane treatment' standard as a stick with which to beat the administration about the head and shoulders, they appear singularly reluctant to submit to that standard themselves.
A point seldom made is that the media itself violated international norms of civilized behavior when it literally drenched a salivating world in lurid images of Abu Ghuraib.
Was it really necessary, to show those images over and over at that frequency and intensity to get the story told? Or were the press indulging a prurient desire to pander to the lowest common denominator? Did they consider how offensive such images would be to a society that values honor and dignity far more highly than we do here in the West; one that considers the loss of "honor" in a young unmarried woman, for instance, such a unremediable shame that her male relatives have no recourse but to kill her?
Of course they didn't. There was money to be made, and ratings to be considered. Neither do they consider how humiliating and dehumanizing it would be for an American soldier or Marine to be videotaped rolling on the ground in agony just after his leg had been blown off, or (God forbid) crying in his sleep. Such moments make for great television: they represent the gritty reality of war. And if the children happen to be watching as Daddy gasps out his last breath on national TV, well, where was Mommy?
The media really can't be responsible, and after all accountability is for the elected and appointed branches of government. The Fourth Estate is a rule unto itself. Unlike every other known human institution, the media seem to believe that in this one special case, absolute power does not corrupt absolutely. They will brook no checks and balances, obey no laws, submit to no standard or authority. They can police themselves.
One might be tempted to believe this, if not for the media blackout after reporter Jill Carroll's abduction. Sig Christenson, president of the Military Reporters Group, pointed out exactly how the media again betrayed their own principles:
Christenson stressed, the key objection he has to such a blackout is the way it portrays the media as giving its own members special treatment. "We already have readers who question our credibility," he said. "In this case, there will be people who think we consider ourselves different and worthy of special treatment."
This begs the question, to those war correspondents who cry foul when the Pentagon won't let them shove cameras in the faces of wounded and dying soldiers without permission, "If you were lying there wounded, would you want a camera in your face?" More importantly, would you want your 6 year old daughter to watch you bleed to death on national television? Would you want your son to stumble across a video of a sniper's bullet passing through your brain, to watch pieces of your head explode in slow motion on the New York Times web site, floating across cyberspace for all eternity? Would you want him to watch numbly as your buddies rushed to your side in shock, as they cradled your twitching form, as they swore, screamed in fury, sobbed; a public passion play enacted before millions for their entertainment; better yet, with an interactive comments section!
Goodbye Daddy. And thanks for the memories.
Can't wait to see your flag-draped coffin on TV. And in my newspaper. And maybe on a few billboards. And if the media and the President of the United States don't show up to snap a few photographs with Mommy crying and perhaps catch Grandpa breaking down at the grave site, how will America know we're really at war?
After all, who really believes in privacy anymore? This is the age of BritneyCam.
This is America's war.
Somewhere along the way, we seem to have lost our capacity for self restraint. At his retirement ceremony, General Peter Pace spoke eloquently of the need for civility and limits in our national debate. If you have a moment today, or tomorrow, or even this weekend, stop and listen to his speech. It is worth hearing. It saddened me greatly because it brought to mind the day it was announced that he would be replaced by Admiral Mike Mullen. I recall it vividly because I was appalled by the vicious and completely unsubstantiated attacks on his character from the antiwar Left. His critics could not have been more wrong about General Pace, but they seemed to have been seized by a strange madness, an almost Olbermannesque determination to validate their world view by criminalizing political disagreement. Unreasoning hyperbole like Olbermann's only fuels the determined obstinacy of people like this gentleman, who couldn't back down even when faced with evidence that Randi Rhodes fell:
It’s not a huge leap to jump from viewing conservatives as those for whom ‘lying is second nature, if not first, who make up the most corrupt Administration in history, who trash the Constitution and who stop at nothing to get their way to accusing them of committing violence. C’mon, if the GOP was willing to steal the 2000 and 2004 elections, beating up a woman who dares to speak truth to power is no big deal. Once you tell yourselves enough times that the right hates women, especially women with brains, it’s a small step to figuring they’re no longer satisfied with abusing women verbally. Since the right obviously isn’t happy limiting themselves to violating our civil rights on a daily basis, it makes sense that they’d turn to beating up their critics.
False story, but accurate… because every conservative is a potential mugger. If they haven’t yet turned to beating up their critics, it’s just a matter of time.
It is acceptable for us to disagree about the war. It's acceptable for adherents of both sides of the debate to grow passionate about their respective beliefs. With the stakes so high and the tragic cost of war growing ever greater, it is right and proper that we should care, should grow angry, should shed more than a few tears. What is not acceptable is that we should so forget ourselves that we dishonor those who have served this nation well and faithfully, whether they support this war or not. And the truth is, we cannot know this for certain all of the time, for they are lost to us.
Sometimes we have their words, left behind in a letter or an email or even a song, and sometimes not. But even then there is really no guarantee those words encompassed their entire thought. The truth, as this young man's story so poignantly demonstrates, is often a far more painful and more complex tapestry:
Anyone who knew me before I joined knows that I am quite aware and at times sympathetic to the arguments against the war in Iraq. If you think the only way a person could bring themselves to volunteer for this war is through sheer desperation or blind obedience then consider me the exception (though there are countless like me).… Consider that there are 19 year old soldiers from the Midwest who have never touched a college campus or a protest who have done more to uphold the universal legitimacy of representative government and individual rights by placing themselves between Iraqi voting lines and homicidal religious fanatics.
And here's something from one of his last letters home:
I was having a conversation with a Kurdish man in the city of Dahok (by myself and completely safe) discussing whether or not the insurgents could be viewed as "freedom fighters" or "misguided anti-capitalists." Shaking his head as I attempted to articulate what can only be described as pathetic apologetics, he cut me off and said "the difference between insurgents and American soldiers is that they get paid to take life—to murder, and you get paid to save lives." He looked at me in such a way that made me feel like he was looking through me, into all the moral insecurity that living in a free nation will instill in you. He "oversimplified" the issue, or at least that is what college professors would accuse him of doing.
In his other e-mails and letters home, which the Daily family very kindly showed me, he asked for extra "care packages" to share with local Iraqis, and said, "I'm not sure if Irvine has a sister-city, but I am going to personally contact the mayor and ask him to extend his hand to Dahok, which has been more than hospitable to this native-son." (I was wrenched yet again to discover that he had got this touching idea from an old article of mine, which had made a proposal for city-twinning that went nowhere.) In the last analysis, it was quite clear, Mark had made up his mind that the United States was a force for good in the world, and that it had a duty to the freedom of others. A video clip of which he was very proud has him being "crowned" by a circle of smiling Iraqi officers. I have a photograph of him, standing bareheaded and contentedly smoking a cigar, on a rooftop in Mosul. He doesn't look like an occupier at all. He looks like a staunch friend and defender. On the photograph is written "We carry a new world in our hearts."
The dead are lost to us, yet they live on in the hearts of their wives, their sweethearts, and saddest of all, in their children. They cannot be reduced to slogans or names on a T-shirt, or a symbolic flag on a coffin.
The dead of this war do not belong to us. Let them belong, first and foremost, to their families. And for God's sake, can we not have the decency to spare a thought, as we argue and wrangle and fight over the war on terror and the future of this nation, for the collateral damage that we do to the children they leave behind?
Someone should protect them. Let it be us. It's the least we can do.
I guess it's only news when there's victimhood or the perception thereof...
I want to add something, a request, to your post.
If any of the readers, lurkers or commenters are in the position to write to the child of a fallen comrade, please do it. I know it may be a little painful for you but the gift of your memories is priceless. Most of them won't have any of their own and will have to rely on others' to get a sense of their lost parent.
Also, Doc Kirby is one of the finest young men I've ever had the pleasure to know. Just sayin':)
by Carrie on October 25, 2007 11:06 AM
Carrie, even notes from a stranger can be a blessing. I'll never forget the beautiful note I got from Roslyn Carter after my father died of Leukemia when I was 11.
My mother in law told me many times how much comfort she got when people took the time to include a remembrance of my father in law in a note or a card. It gave her back something of what she had lost and reassured her that he was not forgotten.
FbL, yes, I am sure that was a comfort (and I'm glad she did that for you) but what I was referring more to were people who served with that lost parent. People who could give great anecdotes like "when your dad pulled that really great prank on the 1st Sgt." etc..Filling in some blanks for those kids as to what their parent was like/about.
Cass...Exactly!!! Having their loved one forgotten is the nightmare they don't want to live through.
by Carrie on October 25, 2007 3:42 PM
This whole discussion is one reason I do the memorial posts for the fallen of Kansas or who have touched the Castle in some way - so that when people google (and they do) they'll find a place marked by respect, by people who have "been there, done that."
Somewhere along the way, we seem to have lost our capacity for self restraint. At his retirement ceremony, General Peter Pace spoke eloquently of the need for civility and limits in our national debate. If you have a moment today, or tomorrow, or even this weekend, stop and listen to his speech. It is worth hearing. It saddened me greatly because it brought to mind the day it was announced that he would be replaced by Admiral Mike Mullen. I recall it vividly because I was appalled by the vicious and completely unsubstantiated attacks on his character from the antiwar Left. His critics could not have been more wrong about General Pace, but they seemed to have been seized by a strange madness, an almost Olbermannesque determination to validate their world view by criminalizing political disagreement. Unreasoning hyperbole like Olbermann's only fuels the determined obstinacy of people like this gentleman, who couldn't back down even when faced with evidence that Randi Rhodes fell:
It's one reason I work with a politician who is not my fully natural ally - and we both work from our common ground.
It's why I encourage Ry to post his contrarian links.
Because I'm tired of spittle flecked ranters and I want some civility. And I strive to keep this place a relative oasis of calm amidst the raging moonbats and wingnuts.
And as long as my sister keeps reading, I'll know I'm still succeeding.
Thank you, Mr. Donovan, for enforcing those rules. This is one of the few places that has calm discourse on the web. To be honest, it has gotten to the point where certain sites are like Slashdot: read the comments if you want to see general stupidity and rage.
Cassandra, it is true that many people wave the GC about like a stick without having read it. Always makes for fun debates when someone doesn't understand the rules they are citing.
by GeoSTI on October 25, 2007 11:53 PM
I talked with a blogger last night who is on the brink of quitting b/c of the whole flaming thing.
It is really getting out of hand. I don't see what is so hard about treating other people like human beings.
This is a moving post. I had the pleasure last year of meeting a girl whose father was a Special Forces NCO. He was 39 years old and dropped dead from a heart attack, doing nothing dramatic. She was working for a house cleaning business and cleaning my messy house. She had gotten out of highschool a semester ahead of schedule, but had qualified to graduate a year early. She had just finished her first semester at junior college with a 4.0 GPA.
She is a good kid and I told her to go do some detective work on scholarships, as millions of dollars go unawarded each year. She's a cinch to get a free ride at a good university.
I am going to call the cleaning company and ask them to have her call me, as I have several hundred pounds of elk meat. She and her family are from Oregon and her dad hunted. She once offered to buy elk from me (illegal, and I got skunked that year), said she and her mom love it.
Ohhhhh Mike.
I am so, so sorry to hear about this. Soulmate couples sometimes die close together like this. Losing your better half can cause unimaginable sorrow, resolved only in death. I'm sure they're both holding hands, giggling like children, and enjoying their renewed angelic bodies.
Those left on earth have so much grief to deal with though. I am just heartbroken over your loss, Mike.
by AFSister on October 18, 2007 8:39 PM
"Tha mi bron ach" (The sadness is upon me)[Irish]
by Jack Hammell on October 18, 2007 8:42 PM
Mike & family,
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
April & Doug Rollison
by April Rollison on October 18, 2007 9:20 PM
....and the grief and tears of the evening continue.
I can't believe it. LTC Brian Delaplane, of "Firepower Forward", passed away last week of a pulmonary embolism.
It's been a bad night... and tornados are on the way. I think I'll cover my head now, and cry myself to sleep.
by AFSister on October 18, 2007 10:03 PM
A very sad day across the board. I like your idea AFS. Seems like the right thing to do at the moment. First, prayers on the way for all of the families.
I am saddened at the loss of your Mom and Dad so close together (but, you knew this would happen - you called it a few weeks ago). It is evident, as with many of our greatest generation, that their love was so strong, that as lifelong partners, they simply wanted to remain together. Mom just wanted to join Dad. You and your family are in my prayers.
God Bless,
Matt
by Matt DeMaria on October 19, 2007 7:01 AM
Mike - Our sympathy and prayers go out to you, and we know that your Mom is back with Elden, and they are taking that long ride into the sunset together. What a great thought! Chris
by Chris Foley on October 19, 2007 7:37 AM
..nunc, et in hora mortis nostrae. amen.
by MajMike on October 19, 2007 8:04 AM
My dear brother, my deepest sympathies at this time of loss, but rest assured, as I know you do, there is rejoicing in heaven this day for a lamb returned to the fold, and Eldin being the loudest voice upon her entry at the gates...if there is anything we can do, do not hesitate...Blessings, Mel & Donna
by Mel Cape on October 19, 2007 8:30 AM
V. Requiem aeternum dona eis Domine.
R. Et lux perpetua luceat in eis.
V. Requiescant in pace.
R. Amen.
by JimC on October 19, 2007 8:45 AM
There is no loss more personal and heartfelt than the death of those we love. I pray that God maintains your strength and comforts you and your sister as you all say your final goodbyes. God bless you all.
by Eric Franzen on October 19, 2007 9:18 AM
There is no death above.
You will see them again, whole, happy and able to embrace you. Prayers and peace be with you...the peace of the Comforter.
by Cricket on October 19, 2007 10:34 PM
As many here have expressed, what a love they must have held. Know you are in my thoughts and those of so many and find comfort in their nearness, however far.
Retired U.S. Army Sgt. Maj. Brian Waters, formerly assigned to the 101st Airborne Division, is overcome with emotion as he visits The Moving Wall at Fort Concho National Historic Landmark in San Angelo, Texas, Oct. 12, 2007. The traveling, half-size replica of the Vietnam Veterans Memorial was built by veterans to bring the experience of the memorial to those who cannot travel to Washington, D.C., and has been touring the country for more than twenty years. DoD photo by Staff Sgt. Angela B. Malek, U.S.Air Force. (Released)
Thought this deserved more than a link in H&I Fires, and considering my recent lack of posts have driven my site into absolute obscurity, I figured it wouldn't get much exposure over there... - FbL
Sam Eifling of ESPN Outdoors has written an excellent profile of J.R. Salzman.
Most of us know J.R. as a wounded soldier. Some of us also know the barest outline of his athletic history--something about being a lumberjack and winning a number of awards in "Outdoor Sports." But in sympathetic writing and powerful pictures, Eifling lays out the history and traces J.R.'s progress from professional athlete to soldier, to wounded veteran reclaiming an athletic life.
The extensive collection of personal and ESPN photographs linked with the story speak volumes, a story in themselves... be sure to read the captions.
Another thread in the warp of the fabric of the Greatest Generation parts...
The flags will go to half-staff at the Castle later next week, for there has been a death in the family of Castle Argghhh! Not my direct family, nor SWWBO's, but my boon companion Mike Lehnherr, a dedicated reader, occasional content provider, grammar consultant and commenter, his father passed yesterday.
I don't know a lot about Mike's Dad and Mom - but I know Mike, and I know that even though his Dad was not his biological father... there is no doubt as to whom his Dad was.
And by knowing Mike, I know his Mom and Dad did at least one thing right in their lives.
So bow your head for the passage of yet another of the "Greatest Generation" and give thanks for what they passed on - in spirit, and in flesh.
Make a hole down there, inbound to the Stammtisch at Fiddler's Green!
Sergeant (made it three times, he did!) Elden D. Lehnherr, U.S. Army, arriving.
Now is the time at Castle Argghhh! when we dance: In Memoriam.
Mike,
I'm so sorry to hear about your father. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.
Most sincerely,
Margaret McLaurin
by Margaret McLaurin on October 5, 2007 10:18 AM
Mike,
I'm sorry to learn of the death of your father.
I hope that you and the members of your family that gather to honor his life and love are able to come together in a meaningful sense and strengthen the family and all that means, in his memory.
We will be thinking of you - safe travels.
Warmest Regards,
Tim
by Tim Daniel on October 5, 2007 10:32 AM
Mike,
My deepest sympathy on the loss of your Dad. Another "old soldier" passes in review to the parade ground "on high". You and your family will be in our prayers. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help you or your family.
Matt & Judy DeMaria
by Matt DeMaria on October 5, 2007 10:41 AM
Mike,
No need for SGT Lehnherr to set up an NDP anymore. He made it to the cantonment area and can get fresh uniforms and a shower any time he wants.
Sergeant may be the absolute best rank in the Army (still with troops, lots of authority and respect, not as much administrative hooey, and still young and fit enough to do the fun stuff). Your dad was a wise man to go for it three times!
Hope that he enjoys his new assignment, the camaraderie with his new unit, and the cushy duty of just getting the area ready for you and the rest of your family.
Here's to a soldier who won't fade away.
Jack
by Jack Hammell on October 5, 2007 10:42 AM
My condolences to Mike and all of the Lehnherr family. Rest in Peace, Sgt. Lehnherr.
I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your father Mike. We all know we'll have to say goodbye some day, but we're never prepared. His spirit will be there with you as the bugler blows Taps.
by Eric Franzen on October 5, 2007 2:34 PM
Okay - now my eyeballs are REALLY sweating. I never could figure out how a lump, the size of a watermelon, can fit in our throats. Thanks so much to everyone - raise one with me to a comrade, fallen. Kyrie Eleison. ML
Our prayers are with you and your family during this time. We are very sorry for the loss of your father. Please let us know if there is anything at all that we can do.
Your friends,
Doug & April Rollison
by April Rollison on October 6, 2007 7:48 AM
Qui tollis peccata mundi, miserere eis. Omnibus in Christo quiescentibus locum refrigerii, lucis et pacis...
Mike, our deepest sympathies to you and yours. You know you are in our prayers here at home, let us know if there is anything we can do. Mel & Donna
by Mel Cape on October 8, 2007 6:26 AM
Mike and Family,
As I watch this happen to our Booz family of friends, I cannot imagine this loss, nor how one deals with it, save for the support of others. As I read the messages left you here, I know it must help you because it even touches me to be a part of this group who grieve with you for a man whom they do not even know except as a fellow vet. My thoughts are with you as well and I too will honor your father's passing. Take care.
Construction proceeds apace, with painting finished yesterday, carpeting going in today, satellite TV going in today, and Internet access next week (when I'll be gone on the road, anyway), hence why blogging by me is sporadic, despite all the stuff going on.
If the schedule holds, the cabinets will go in tomorrow, and the seals will be in place on Friday.
Accordingly, the Arsenal is in motion, changing from one site to the other, via different routes and at different times, natch. Not for nothing did I take those counter-terrorism classes with the driving lessons!
For those who want to figure out what's in there - click here.
Notice Sergeant Barnacle keeping a [glowing] eye on things. Or izzat a BCR Labs Special Patrol 'Bot? You'll never know... until it's too late!
via different routes and at different times, natch. Not for nothing did I take those counter-terrorism classes
....and Twinkles only smiled!!
by Mike Lehnherr on October 3, 2007 8:26 AM
I can spy with my little eye, several SKS's both pre and post ban. Looks like a Romanian or Yugo SKS?
I spy a Mauser or two.
Oh and is that Enfield?
But a question? Where are the Black Rifles? (is this a time specific collection?)
by MR T's Haircut on October 3, 2007 8:32 AM
There are *no* post-ban SKS's, only post-84 with the marking requirement.
And there is a clean one, a Vietnam battlefield capture.
The only "black rifle" in the Arsenal of Castle Argghhh! is a Brit L1A1 (pre-ban). There is a ROMAK in the Arsenal.
I got into collecting for the historical connection.
I do intend to get at least an M4-clone, but that hasn't been a priority.
There's a Korean War capture M38 Nagant, an M44, several flavors of Mauser, including Siamese, several flavors of Enfield (including Siamese), there's a Tower 3 Band musket in there, a repro Remington Zouave (had it since I was 18), several flavors of Gew 88 and a MAS 35 in there, too.
Oh, and a Springfield '03, I don't remember which one off the top of my head.
Oh, I meant to ask, how is the Interior Guard handling the move? I imagine y'all are a bit leery granting extraliminal privileges, 'specially after P.P. Houdini went missing, or deserted, or got waylaid or whatever.
The reason for all this is that the Destriers of Argghhh!, who have lived the last 10 years in the old Quartermaster Stables at Fort Leavenworth, were due at the new demesne on Sunday, lest we have to pay for another month... Good trade for them. They're going into larger stalls, and instead of getting to go to a 3 acre pasture with 30 other horses every other day... they have 40 acres of wood and pasture, which they will eventually share with about 20 horses, as we allow friends to pasture their horses out at the Castle.
yeah..kind of reminds me of that movie Shrek where the princess is singing all pretty to the birds and then hits a note she couldn't possibly carry off. Shriek!!!
and all the birdies fly away.
I imagine something like that will be happening at the Castle soon.
One of the thing I do, in my role as a member of Congresswoman Boyda's veterans and military affairs advisory council, is talk to people - my neighbors, friends, co-workers, and sometimes just sit and listen as I overhear strangers talk - about the war. A recurring complaint is about how we're going it alone, without support from the international community.
Which, regarding Iraq, is certainly arguable, if not exactly accurate. It is less true regarding Afghanistan, the Under-Reported War. The Press seems to still support that one, so they aren't going to report on it, seemingly, since they can't use it to Bash Bush while at the same time support the war without getting confused. Or something.
Regardless, NATO is there, and I assure you, as a former soldier of NATO, I don't think too many NATO nations had on-the-shelf plans for Afghanistan. Currently, there are two Italian soldiers missing, feared kidnapped.
Just recently, Canada suffered another fatality and wounded soldiers. Corporal Nathan Hornburg is Canada's 71st fatality supporting the NATO effort in Afghanistan. A member of the King's Own Calgary Regiment, he was actually serving with C Squadron, Lord Strathcona's Horse. Captain H, himself a member of the Strathcona's told me about it. That giving Corporal Hornburg a Castle connection...
Therefore, now is the time at Castle Argghhh! when we dance: In Memoriam.
Over in Iraq, Specialist Joshua H. Reeves, of Watkinsville, Georgia, died in an IED attack. An infantryman of the 2nd Battalion, 16th Infantry Regiment, of the 4th Brigade Combat Team of the 1st Infantry Divsion at Fort Riley, Specialist Reeves became the 134th casualty for Fort Riley.
Now is the time at Castle Argghhh! when we dance: In Memoriam.
Last, but in the eyes of his fellow soldiers, not least, there is an Australian casualty. Razz. Three Australian soldiers were wounded and one killed in two separate attacks in Afghanistan last week.
Killed doing his duty of helping to find and disarm bombs, was a furry soldier, a black Lab named Razz. H/t, Tim Blair, via CAPT H.
Name Muffy, Sergeant Kiki, muster the Guard Force. It's time to dance for Razz..
Now is the time at Castle Argghhh! when we dancesing a soul to the Great Hunting Ground and Tennis Ball Chasing Facility.
When Governor Sebelius sets the day to fly the colors at half-staff for Specialist Reeves, the second staff at Castle Argghhhh! will fly the Maple Leaf.
The point of this post is simply this - we may not have all the help we'd like - but we are not alone in this fight. And we do well to remember that, now and again.
So, today, at the Castle, the colors of Canada and Australia will whip from the staffs.
Condolences and sympathies to those who knew the fallen here, the serious-lookin well-posed Canadian, the badly-posed Georgia boy who still managed to get his emotion across, and Razz for his amazingly large pink tongue.
I have been licked by loving dog tongue. It is cool. Those humans were cool and manly, too, I think.
The Department of Defense announced today the death of a soldier who was supporting Operation Iraqi Freedom.
Sgt. Edmund J. Jeffers, 23, of Daleville, Ala., died Sept. 19 in Taqqadum, Iraq, of injuries suffered from a non-combat related accident. He was assigned to the 1st Battalion, 9th Infantry Regiment, 2nd Brigade Combat Team, 2nd Infantry Division, Fort Carson, Colo.
The circumstances surrounding the death are under investigation.
If the name sounds familiar, you've met him before, in this space and elsewhere.
And I am ignorant to the rest of the world...or so I thought.
But even thousands of miles away, in Ramadi, Iraq, the cries and screams and complaints of the ungrateful reach me. In a year, I will be thrust back into society from a life and mentality that doesn't fit your average man. And then, I will be alone. And then, I will walk down the streets of America, and see the yellow ribbon stickers on the cars of the same people who compare our President to Hitler.
I will watch the television and watch the Cindy Sheehans, and the Al Frankens, and the rest of the ignorant sheep of America spout off their mouths about a subject they know nothing about. It is their right, however, and it is a right that is defended by hundreds of thousands of boys and girls scattered across the world, far from home. I use the word boys and girls, because that's what they are. In the Army, the average age of the infantryman is nineteen years old. The average rank of soldiers killed in action is Private First Class.
*sigh*
This is just so sad, John. Once again we've lost a favorite American son.
I've been surrounded by death this weekend. I watched "We Are Marshall" yesterday (great movie, btw), and read Bellavia's book today. I had no idea he was under Capt. Sean Sims. I've been reading Heidi's blog for a while now, so it just re-opened that wound hearing about Sean before, during, and after his death in Fallujah.
"You Can't Give Someone Something You Never Received"
Yeah? Sez who?
Vietnam vets give what they never got
By Edward Colimore, Inquirer [Philadelphia] Staff Writer
For the last year, they saw the Iraq war up close; some fought gun battles with the enemy, and all were far from home and the comforts of family.
Then, after a marathon flight, the troops were back again yesterday, tired, excited, hungry, and still loaded down with their M-16s and military gear.
They did not expect anyone to notice.
But at the journey's end, Michael Engi and fellow Vietnam veterans were waiting. They are always there for the troops coming home from Iraq and Afghanistan.
At 2, 3, 4 o'clock in the morning - any time of the day or night - it does not matter. They drop what they are doing and head to Fort Dix to greet the soldiers and offer warm handshakes.
As 150 troops piled off buses at the Mobilization and Demobilization Briefing Center, more than a dozen Vietnam veterans formed a receiving line to give a welcome they did not receive decades ago. One veteran played the haunting melody of "The Minstrel Boy" on the bagpipes.
"Welcome home! Welcome back!" a beaming Engi said over and over as the soldiers moved past him.
Many lit up with smiles. Some teared up. America's newest veterans - scores of them from Pennsylvania, Delaware and other states - were surprised and touched by the gesture.
One of them took the American flag patch from his uniform and handed it to a Vietnam-era veteran, Dexter Hawkins of Browns Mills, as a way of saying thanks.
"They become overwhelmed with emotion," said Engi, 59, of Bordentown, president of New Jersey Chapter 899 of the Vietnam Veterans of America. "They're just glad to see someone understands. You see handshakes and hugs. They can't thank us enough."
Army Reserve Sgt. Tim Simon, 22, of Franklin, Pa., who just returned from al-Qayyarrah, Iraq, and who serves in the 298th Transportation Company, said: "This means a lot because of what they went through. It feels good."
The Vietnam veterans have been going to Fort Dix and McGuire Air Force Base for more than three years to offer encouragement and advice. They said they felt an emotional kinship with the troops forged by the shared experience of war.
But something cathartic happened along the way. Engi and his comrades said they got as much from the meetings as the troops did, maybe more.
"By welcoming them home, we were getting welcomed home, too, and we never had that," said Engi, a former Burlington County sheriff's officer who organized the welcome-home events and recruited other veterans. "Every time we go out there, it's the same thing. We get as much from these guys as we give them. It's better than any parade we could have ever had."
Hawkins, who served in the Air Force from 1966 to 1989, added: "If I had a son who went to war, it would tear me up [if he returned without a greeting]. I came home and was treated badly. It just wasn't right."
Curt Anderson, a Navy veteran of the Vietnam War who played the bagpipes yesterday, said the welcome-home ceremonies were "a bit like closure for us.
"It's good for both sides," Anderson, 53, of Willingboro said. "It's giving something we never got. It helps make you whole."
Tom Jellick, 75, of Wrightstown, the second vice president of Chapter 899 and the group's chaplain, said he recalled "how lonesome it was when I left for Vietnam and how bad the reception was when I got back."
An Air Force tech sergeant, he also recalled loading aircraft with ammunition and unloading bodies. "That bothered me more than anything else," Jellick said. "Some of the bags had only pieces and the blood was leaking out.
"So when I first started coming out here [to welcome the troops home], I was emotional. I cried. They got their welcome, and I didn't get mine. Some folks would get so emotional they'd have to walk around the corner. Now, we're pros at it. It's like having a treatment at the psychiatrist. I feel I'm doing something, and I'm feeling better."
Moments before the buses arrived yesterday, Engi asked his fellow Vietnam veterans "to raise your hands if you want to reenlist. They're looking for a few good men." Then buses began pulling up. "Here they come," he said.
Engi recruited veterans in Chapter 899 for arrival and departure ceremonies at Fort Dix and McGuire. The veterans also spend hours at the medical hold unit, where soldiers are treated for minor injuries as well as post-traumatic stress disorder. They bring chili and other food and talk and play pool or cards with the troops.
"I wanted them to know someone cares," said Engi, a former sergeant who served with an artillery unit in Vietnam in 1969 and 1970 and who suffers from post-traumatic stress disorder.
Engi said he and other veterans tell the troops what worked for them, especially those affected by trauma disorder. Each group that arrives is different, depending on the role they had, and the levels of combat they experienced.
"We get standing ovations from the troops all the time," he said. "We don't want them to be forgotten. Somebody has to speak up for them."
Army Sgt. Emmanuel Maxwell, 25, a member of the 24th Quartermaster unit from Fort Lewis, Wash., felt buoyed after the reception.
"It's always good to get a welcome home. I wasn't expecting it."
Army Maj. Marla Seeman, 48, of Harrington, Del., a member of the Delaware National Guard 198th Signal Battalion from New Castle, Del., said she was "honored that they [Vietnam veterans] would do this for us. It was wonderful."
One soldier probably had the best perspective of any. Sgt. Maj. Robert Wilson, 57, of Bear, Del., had fought in Vietnam in 1969 and 1970 and remembered "going over and coming back by myself.
"I turned 20 in Vietnam and 57 in Iraq," he said. "It couldn't be any better than to be welcomed by these guys. I hope they get what they want out of this. There is a different feeling today than there was during Vietnam."
H/t to Doc E. (for those of you who were wondering if he had a serious side)
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About a month ago, I aired out part of my brain, and had a brief exchange with Two-Niner in the comments about the Company "kids" -- the children of those guys we lost. Some "adopted" us after visiting our site, some just came once or twice to ask The Question and a few came because we were a link with a face on a fading photograph...
"It's giving something we never got. It helps make you whole."
Add our Company Kids to a million children who are also now grown to adulthood. We gave the Kids something to help heal their souls and they gave us something to help make us whole...
That story reminded me of one of the guys from MOPH leaders that went with us to the VA hospital in December 2005. Some twit that was with me asked if he was jealous of the reception and support this generation of warfighters were receiving.
He was a bit taken-aback by the question, I think. But he soon broke into a huge grin and said that for most of them it had soothed their hearts to see the parades and the welcome home that the Gulf War(I) vets received, that they had been relieved to see that another generation would not suffer the same treatment the older warriors had, and that the welcome spilled over somewhat onto the Vietnam vets, which was very healing for many of them.
In my activities with the wounded, it seems there are always Vietnam veterans involved. The fierce tenderness and protectiveness they have for this generation of veterans is always striking--I particularly remember the tone of voice and body language I saw in interactions with the the older guys and the wounded at Soldier Ride, but you can see it in everything from the Patriot Guard Riders to the veterans who join Soldiers' Angels and adopt a youngster. They are a living example of giving better than you get.
ha I spy a 'u' in studiously. We shall.. reeducate you in the Queen's English and civili*s*e you heathen upstarts once again.. and collect back taxes too.
Good post tho, there are many ways of therapy but sometimes it's better to do something active like that.
The only tea I've drunk in the last fifty years was in Multan. If you're up for collecting on *that*, go past Karachi, take a right at the Indus River and head north until you see a tree.
Careful, though -- it's full of giant mango-eating spiders...
America has been blessed by the brave men and women of our Armed Forces who have answered the call to defend our country and protect liberty around the world. On National POW/MIA Recognition Day, we honor a special group of patriots: those who have been prisoners of war and those who are still missing in action. We remain forever in their debt, and we renew our commitment to them and to their families never to rest until we have accounted for every missing service member.
To commemorate this day, the National League of Families POW/MIA flag is flown over the White House, the Capitol, the Vietnam Veterans Memorial, the Korean War Veterans Memorial, the World War II Memorial, and other locations across our country. This flag is an enduring symbol that reflects our solemn commitment to our courageous service members who have been imprisoned while serving in conflicts around the world and to those who remain missing. America will always remember these heroes, and we underscore our pledge to achieve the fullest possible accounting for every missing member of our Armed Forces.
NOW, THEREFORE, I, GEORGE W. BUSH, President of the United States of America, by virtue of the authority vested in me by the Constitution and laws of the United States, do hereby proclaim Friday, September 21, 2007, as National POW/MIA Recognition Day. I call upon the people of the United States to join me in honoring and remembering all former American prisoners of war and those missing in action who valiantly served our great country. I also call upon Federal, State, and local government officials and private organizations to observe this day with appropriate ceremonies and activities.
IN WITNESS WHEREOF, I have hereunto set my hand this twentieth day of September, in the year of our Lord two thousand seven, and of the Independence of the United States of America the two hundred and thirty-second.
POW/MIA RECOGNITION DAY
(The third Friday of September)
As time goes on remains are found
And another finds his way back home
After years spent lost on foreign shores
Feeling forgotten and left all alone.
But they will never be forgotten
By the Country they went off to serve
We will search until all are returned
To loved ones, the least they all deserve.
There are new ways to identify
DNA can tell, just who they may be
Those lost in those past conflicts
A Hero home, their final destiny.
War is so terrible and horrific
Worse for the POW and the MIA
All of those unaccounted for
Compounds the price they chose to pay.
Each year, we should all remember
Those we lost in the fog of War
Better yet, take a moment every day
While we appreciate what they fought for.
POW/MIA Recognition Day
Dedicated to honor their memory
For the time or life they gave
To keep this, "The Land of the Free".
Del "Abe" Jones
09.13.2007
some older pieces >
POW/MIA
(This is with Etching in Texas)
So many fates are left unknown
And so many rumors that abound
So many families ask the question
"When will, the answers be found?"
So many years have come and gone
Sometimes, hope is hard to keep
There’s some who feel there’s none
And in some, it’s buried deep.
The pain, is in not knowing
How, to put loved ones’ to rest
When there is no way to prove
They have passed, the final test.
But, no matter what the answers
We can’t let this cause alone
Until, each and every one of them
Is found, and brought back home
POW/MIA STORIES
It's hard to find, the stories
That, they won't talk about
It's hard, to realize the things
That they had, to go, without.
How can they let the feelings
(Even, they don't understand)
Show to, any other people
In this, Freedom's Land.
We can’t know, the hardships
Unless, we were there
Especially, when they came back home
To those who didn't, seem, to care.
Unless you had, lived through it
Watching, Comrades that had died
Why should they, talk about it to us
Of, the tears, inside, they've cried?
Even, if they chose to tell us
What difference, would it make
Would it be worth the chance
That they, would have to take.
Why should they bare their soul
That's already been, stripped, clean
Because, even with, a picture of it
We couldn't see, what they have seen.
Sometimes, all we have to do
Is, to look into their eyes
And think that we might see or hear
Their, mournful, pain-filled cries.
That POW who came home
Who lived, through that Hell
Can't tell the stories, of the MIA
Who never had, a chance to tell!
So, we may never, ever, know
Of, the horrors, they have, known
And, if we think about it
It's probably best, that they aren't shown!
But there is, always an end
To every, never-ending story
Although sometimes, they’re never told
In, all their Truth and Glory.
So if you ask about it
And if you ever wonder why
They won’t talk of that nightmare
Maybe now, you might know, Why?
POW/MIA
For as long as we have Wars
And we send our Young to fight
We’ll have Those who are Missing
And the POWs plight.
All People of this Nation
Have this Duty to fulfill.
We must keep Them in our thoughts
And, We must have the Will
To bring every One home
And do all we can to find
All those POW/MIAs
And leave NO Souls behind.
POW/MIA ISSUE
Ten years of "BITS 'N' PIECES"
By some People who still care
In a search for clues and answers
About Those We left "over there".
Trying to get the military
And all those politicians
To take actions to find Them
With calls, letters and petitions.
It's a sad State of Affairs
When the families and friends
Must lead the Battle in the Search
In this War that never ends.
All those loved ones still Missing
Who went to War for me and you
Deserve much more from our Country
Than just the efforts of those few.
"The National Alliance of Families"
Carries that Banner for us all
To bring home those Forgotten
Who answered our Nation's Call.
Please visit their pages
And give them a helping hand
For if "One Missing" was "One" close to you
Maybe then, you'd understand.
I'm thinking this is an especially appropriate post for today, considering what's going on at the Mall today.
Make a hole there - two more inbounds to the 1st Division Stammtisch at Fiddler's Green:
Air Force Master Sergeant Patrick D. Magnani, 38, died in a non-combat related incident Sept. 4 near Bagram, Afghanistan.
Magnani was serving on a transition team assigned to 1st Brigade, 1st Infantry Division. His home of record is Martinez, Calif.
He arrived at Fort Riley in May 2007 and deployed on the transition team in July 2007.
Transition team training is a 60-day training cycle at Fort Riley to prepare small teams of American Soldiers, Airmen and Sailors to advise, teach, mentor and coach their Iraqi or Afghan counterparts.
Staff Sergeant Courtney Hollinsworth, 26, died of wounds suffered when insurgents attacked his unit using an improvised explosive device and grenades Sept. 9 in Baghdad.
Hollinsworth was a cavalry scout assigned to 1st Squadron, 4th Cavalry Regiment, 4th Infantry Brigade Combat Team, 1st Infantry Division. His home of record is Yonkers, N.Y.
He entered the Army in September 1998 and began serving with the 1st Infantry Division in June 2006. This was his second deployment in support of the Global War on Terrorism.
To date, 133 Fort Riley Soldiers and Airmen have been killed while serving in support of Operation Iraqi Freedom and Operation Enduring Freedom.
Now is the time at Castle Argghhh! when we dance: In Memoriam.
This will remain up top all day. A note from our landlocked sailor, Joe.
Six years to the minute after the south tower fell; I was in the middle of Kabul , surrounded by scores of men and women from 38 different countries. We came bringing justice, and have stayed to bring freedom.
Just a quick comment about the Officer's Field Mess Kit. I have looked everywhere to find out about them. I recently bought a practically new one at an estate sale. Most of the issued knives forks and spoons are gone, but the only other thing that has been used was the coffee pot. My case is is stenciled U S 1964 and the Manufacturers plate reads Texas Trunks. Any idea what these are actually worth?? I am a retired tweeker (1977-1997) and did not have the 'pleasure' of doing a lot of real Marine stuff. Your page is great reading and I am listing it as one of my favorites. Semper fi!
by MSGT Wade Rhoney USMC Ret. on September 11, 2007 2:58 PM
Heh. Good timing on your question, MSGT Rhoney. I just hauled my officer's mess kit out to use at our annual Rotary picnic this week.
"Alive Day" is a label many wounded apply to the day they were hit--the day they could've died but lived instead. HBO has taken that label for a new documentary by James Gandolfini of Sopranos fame that seems to be worth checking out.
As many of you may know, the well-being and treatment of the wounded is a subject that is very close to my heart. So, when I hear of a documentary being done about the experiences of some of them, I start to get nervous. I worry that it will be exploitative or condescending, or in some way pitying--anyone who works with the wounded knows that in most cases, offers of pity are generally not well-received.
Somehow I ended up on the publicity list for HBO's Alive Day Memories: Home from Iraq (being broadcast today) awhile ago, but I knew I had to take the time to explore it before I could endorse it. Upon getting around to reading what people who had already seen it had to say, I found most of them seemed to be viewing it through an anti-war cognitive lens that made it hard to identify the film's actual message. But simply on the basis of the following, this sounds promising. It seems Gandolfini lets interviewees speak for themselves [click on the video and see the sidebar for more excerpts and media coverage]:
The first interviewee is Bryan Anderson, whom I've written about before, and there are others in the video who have also received the help of Soldiers' Angels and Valour-IT. This sounds like worthwhile viewing, if only for the chance to see the kinds of people that need our physical and emotional support as they continue to recover from devastating wounds.
There is one concern, however: the documentary includes insurgent video of successful attacks, including those that injured the veterans featured in the film. From the tone of the preview, it seems those videos are treated as archival footage relevant to the story being told, and not as something to gasp and gawk over. Still, I'm not entirely comfortable with the idea...
Alive Day Memories is being broadcast today, and will be repeated a number of times in the coming month [click and search for "alive day"]. I don't have Cable, so I would appreciate the report of anyone who is willing and able to watch. I hope Alive Day Memories is as worthwhile as the trailer seems to promise.
Update: Wounded veteran JR Salzman gives it his full endorsement. And if you miss it today, you can also stream it on on HBO.com from 11:30PM EST Sunday September 9th until Sunday September 16th.
Keith posted about it yesterday too, and then watched the show last night with lots of compliments. He said it wasn't anti-war at all, and of the dozen amputees featured, only 1 said that if he had it to do all over again, he never would have gone. All of the rest said that they'd go back in a heartbeat, nor do they regret going.
HOOAH!
Another tough week for the 1st Infantry Division at Fort Riley.
Fort Riley Soldiers Killed in Iraq:
Staff Sergeant Jason M. Butkus, 34, died of wounds suffered when insurgents attacked his vehicle Aug. 30 in Baghdad, Iraq.
Butkus was an infantryman assigned to 1st Battalion, 28th Infantry Regiment, 4th Infantry Brigade Combat Team, 1st Infantry Division. His home of record is West Milford, N.J.
He entered the Army in February 1995 and began serving with the 1st Infantry Division in October 2006. This was his first deployment in support of the Global War on Terrorism.
Specialist Rodney J. Johnson, 20, died of wounds suffered when insurgents attacked his unit Sept. 4 in Baghdad, Iraq.
Johnson was a cavalry scout assigned to 1st Squadron, 4th Cavalry Regiment, 4th Infantry Brigade Combat Team, 1st Infantry Division. His home of record is Houston.
He entered the Army in September 2005 and began serving with the 1st Infantry Division in March 2006. This was his first deployment in support of the Global War on Terrorism.
Three Fort Riley Soldiers died Sept. 4 in Baghdad, Iraq, of wounds suffered from an improvised explosive device. This is a double-whammy for Kansas, as two soldiers are from Kansas.
Killed were:
Sergeant Joel L. Murray, 26.
Specialist David J. Lane, 20.
Private Randol S. Shelton, 22.
Murray was an infantryman assigned to 2nd Battalion, 16th Infantry Regiment, 4th Infantry Brigade Combat Team, 1st Infantry Divsion. His home of record is Kansas City, Kan. He entered the Army in January 2003, and he began serving with the in April 2006. This was his second deployment in support of the Global War on Terrorism.
Lane was an infantryman also assigned to 2nd Battalion, 16th Infantry Regiment, 4th Infantry Brigade Combat Team, 1st Infantry Divsion. His home of record is Emporia, Kan. He entered the Army in February 2006, and he began serving with the 1st Infantry Division in July 2006. This was his first deployment in support of the Global War on Terrorism.
Shelton was an infantryman also assigned to 2nd Battalion, 16th Infantry Regiment, 4th Infantry Brigade Combat Team, 1st Infantry Divsion His home of record is Schiller Park, Ill. He entered the Army in October 2005, and he began serving with the 1st Infantry Divsion in March 2006. This was his first deployment in support of the Global War on Terrorism.
To date, 130 Fort Riley Soldiers have died while serving in support of Operations Iraqi and Enduring Freedom.
Pull up some more chairs at the Big Red One's Stammtisch - 5 more, inbound.
Now is the time at Castle Argghhh! when we dance: In Memoriam.
Lest anyone think I'm playing favorites with picture sizes - Sergeant Butkus, in that shot, stands in for all the soldiers doing what soldiers do. And since they died together, I felt that Murray, Lane, and Shelton should, well, stand together.
It's been a tough week for the Transition Teams in Afghanistan.
Some people wonder why I do the memorial posts. They posit that doing so actually undermines support for the war. I suspect it might, in people who's support for the war is already slipping. I don't intend it to fan support for the war, either, however. "Redeeming their sacrifice" is not a good reason to continue a war. If your only reason to continue fighting is to avenge the dead... well, then you're starting to sound a lot like... oh, gosh, all those people who's only good reason to kill people is because someone killed their great-grandfather 100 years ago, and so the feud must continue. Ya gotta have better reasons than that to continue the fight, and we do.
All this is inspired by the comments to Bill's Clearing Out A Cobweb post of yesterday. If you skipped it - you should read them, but one in particular inspired these words, along with the group of casualties I'm going to honor in this post.
Denizen Just This Guy said:
On thinking about this for a while, I think it's better to remember how dead comrades died, than not to remember them. Minimise the worst of the suck that way. Can't eliminate the suck, of course.
I remember people, and things, which are just gone, and which I miss horribly. Some of their going I may have been somewhat involved with. Trying not to think about it sorta works, but not very well. Thinking about it can drive one nuts. Try not to drink too much (Hah! such advice from *me*!)
Which cascaded a train of thought that ended with the lyrics of one of my favorite songs (I tend to favor dark, true enough), The Green Fields of France, by Eric Bogle:
Most especially the second verse.
And did you leave a wife or a sweetheart behind?
In some faithful heart is your memory enshrined?
And though you died back in 1916,
In some faithful heart are you forever 19?
Or are you a stranger without even a name,
imprisoned forever behind a glass frame
In and old photograph, torn, tattered, and stained,
And fading to yellow in a bound leather frame?
I guess I just don't want them to be nameless faces imprisoned forever in an old photograph.
TWO TRANSITION TEAM SOLDIERS KILLED IN AFGHANISTAN
Two Soldiers were killed Aug. 24 in Herat, Afghanistan, when the vehicle they were traveling in rolled over.
Killed were:
Master Sergeant Scott M. Carney, 37.
Sergeant First Class Daniel E. Miller, 43.
Carney was a mobilized Iowa National Guard Soldier assigned to the same transition team. He entered the National Guard in June 1991. He began serving with the 1st Inf. Div. in February 2007.
Miller was an infantryman serving on a transition team assigned to 1st Brigade, 1st Infantry Division. His home of record is Rossford, Ohio. He entered the Army in June 1986. He began serving with the 1st Infantry Division in November 2006. This was his first deployment in support of the Global War on Terrorism.
This one is an unusual one. We don't often lose Finance Corps officers, especially field grade and above. It's a very small branch, so they're comparatively rare, especially in the wild where the bullets fly. The Finance Corps is feeling this one.
THREE TRANSITION TEAM SOLDIERS KILLED IN AFGHANISTAN
Three transition team Soldiers died Aug. 27 at Forward Operating Base Naray, Afghanistan, from wounds suffered when insurgents attacked their unit during combat operations in Jalalabad, Afghanistan.
Killed were:
Major Henry San N. Ofeciar, 37
Sergeant First Class Scott R. Ball, 38.
Sergeant Jan. M. Argonish, 26.
Ofeciar was a finance officer serving on a transition team assigned to 1st Brigade, 1st Infantry Division. His home of record is Agana, Guam. He entered the Army in February 1994 and deployed to Afghanistan in January 2007. This was his first deployment in support of the Global War on Terrorism.
Ball was a mobilized Pennsylvania National Guard combat engineer serving on the same transition team. His home of record is Mount Holly Springs, Pa. He entered the Army in July 1987. This was his second deployment in support of the Global War of Terrorism.
Argonish was a mobilized Pennsylvania National Guard infantryman serving on the same transition team. His home of record is Peckville, Pa. He entered the Army in February 1998. This was his second deployment in support of the Global War of Terrorism.
To date, 125 Fort Riley Soldiers and 1 Airman have been killed while serving in support of Operation Iraqi Freedom and Operation Enduring Freedom.
Now is the time at Castle Argghhh! when we dance: In Memoriam.
We Danced when I listed them as members of our Thirty Nine, so they'd been introduced. Just not in context.
Usually they took the Path solo, or in wing formation, but we had a couple of crews who walked to FG as a crew. They're the ones who own the tables in our corner of the place.
Thanks, John.
Got a compartment leaking. I've gotta fix that after a bit...
Your horoscope for today: There’s wisdom to be gained from combing through the recesses of your soul and clearing out the cobwebs.
Helicopter pilots don’t have recesses, we have compartments. Whether we’re born compartmentalizers or we learn the trick in Flight School doesn’t matter, we’re fully-functional compartmentalizers before they shake us out of the bag with Junior Wings on our chests.
When you’re in the air and nothing is going wrong, you have the luxury of browsing the compartments. When things turn sour, the lids to the compartments slam shut except the one labeled “Fly The Aircraft!” -- that mental trick allows us to survive in the air.
Memories (as distinct from experience and knowledge) may have relevance to the “Fly The Aircraft!” bin and are usually in close proximity -- emotions occupy entirely separate compartments on the periphery. Makes us really lousy at relationships, but it helps keep us alive when the cockpit turns into the last place in the world you want to be.
Sometimes, the compartments leak. Details in the memory bins furthest from “Fly the Aircraft!” fade, unless something hammers them into place -- but when that happens, nothing will budge them…
I’m putting the rest of this in flash traffic/extended entry. It’s not one of my War Stories, it’s a story about one incident that happened during my war.
It’s not a TINS. It’s also a bit long and decidedly dark…
I had four different callsigns in Vietnam. When I first got there, the Boss discovered I was fluent in Normal English and could spell my way out of a paper bag, so he blessed me off as the Admin Officer, which meant that I took care of the daily foothills of paperwork while he and the XO were out flying -- we never had a full complement of pilots, and they took up the slack in the Gun and Flight Platoons. So, I started as Vulture Three, which I used maybe twice. Make that three times -- I think I used it the first time I got shot down.
My second callsign was Vulture One-Five -- the Assistant Platoon Leader, First Platoon. One-Six, the Platoon Leader, was a short-timer, and he started grooming me to take over the Platoon after he left.
Before he departed, our Gun Platoon Leader was KIA, and I was made Copperhead Three-Six. One of the senior Warrants in the guns had previously applied for a direct commission and his paperwork was approved a few days after the first time I got shot down in a Charlie-model gunship -- I was more than happy when the Boss asked if I’d step down so our newest Lieutenant could claim command time on his OER.
I resumed using One-Five. My Platoon Leader DEROSed about a month later, and I became Vulture One-Six. I never had an assistant PL, so I used One-Five and One-Six pretty much interchangeably, depending on whether I was flying as the C&C (Command and Control), Flight Lead, or Trail.
In June, 1970, we got a newbie Captain; he outranked me, so I started grooming him as the new One-Six. He was a pretty quick study, so we started concentrating on the survival skills. We had maybe two flights together before I started NightHawking again, so the senior ACs took over his tutelage. I was officially One-Five again.
In mid-August, I was back flying CAs with the Flight and on the 26th, One-Six was Chalk Two and I was Chalk Three in a flight of five. We were flying staggered right -- odd-numbered in trail behind Lead, even-numbered offset to the right. My Peter Pilot was "Little Mac," one of our Test Pilots, and I was giving him some formation flight refresher training; I was on the controls, flying in the left seat so I could scan the instruments while I maintained my sight picture on Chalk Two. We were on a left base to pick up some troops we’d inserted for a sweep several hours earlier -- the PZ was a couple of klicks from the area in which we’d inserted them. Lead gave us a heads-up that the final approach would be steep because the PZ was in a nasty area and there were thick treelines along our approach path. I told Mac to get on the controls with me when we started our descent. Then Lead turned left to establish us on final.
In a staggered formation, when Lead makes a turn, the aircraft in trail behind Lead usually slow slightly to avoid overtaking Lead and the aircraft on the outside of the formation have to increase airspeed to maintain their positions in the formation. As I was turning left, I watched Chalk Two drift slowly to the rear -- I knew One-Six hadn’t mastered all the tricks yet, and imagined what the AC was saying to him. Our normal radio chatter had died to the essentials -- negative suppression inbound, but if the flight takes fire, suppress it without hitting the friendlies. By the time we rolled out of the turn to final, I had to look over my right shoulder to see Chalk Two. I saw the aircraft nose dip and knew that Two had just increased power to put on a burst of speed to get back in position -- ahead to my right front and offset 135 degrees from Lead. We flew tight formations going into an area; the Book recommends a minimum of two rotor-disk separation between aircraft. We never got that far away from each other. Chalk Two was now about sixty feet outside my door, closing the gap between himself and Lead.
Hell opened up.
I watched Chalk Two rise a hundred feet above us and begin a left roll. By the time he was fully-inverted, I was looking up at him through the greenhouse. I distinctly remember thinking, “They’re inverted -- oh, my God…”
You don’t survive going inverted in a Huey a thousand feet above the ground.
“Fly The Aircraft!”
He's inverted and falling out of the sky and he's directly above me…
“Fly The Aircraft!”
His rotors are gonna mesh with mine and the two of us will disintegrate in mid-air…
“Fly The Aircraft!”
Mac was gaping up at Two through his greenhouse -- he couldn’t believe what he was seeing…
“Fly The Aircraft!”
I slammed the cyclic left and pulled the collective to the stops.
I rolled the aircraft 90 degrees because anything less wouldn’t get us away from four tons of metal and fuel closing with us at 5,000 feet-per-minute.
I overtorqued the transmission and overtemped the engine.
Three seconds later, I rolled the Huey upright and there was chatter on all three radios:
“Are we taking fire?” “Two hit Three on the way down -- wait, no, Three just rolled out of it.” “Flight, are you guys taking fire down there? The troops just called and said a rocket hit a helicopter.” “Copperheads are up north and we haven’t fired anything!” "Five's in after Two." “Damn it! One of the crew just fell out!” “I don’t think it’s small arms -- no muzzle flashes. No tracers.” “Five’s approaching Two -- they just hit.” “Trail, watch yourself -- the troops are still saying it was a rocket.” “Lead, this is Five. I'm in the PZ. They’re all dead. One of the enlisted guys fell out on the way down, but everybody else is still inside. It’s flat. The aircraft is flat.”
Silence.
C&C: “Who was it? Who was on board?”
Silence.
Lead: “Laurence was the AC.”
Silence.
Lead’s Crewchief: “Jacobson.”
Silence.
My Crewchief: “Halstead was flying in the gunner’s seat.”
Silence.
Me: “One-Six was with Laurence. Captain Carr.”
Silence.
C&C: “Flight, return to Can Tho and stand by.”
Five: “I’ll stay for the recovery.”
C&C: “No. You go back with them. We’re going to insert troops out to the west and south to catch whoever shot Two down.”
Me: “Four, Three’s now Chalk Two. I’m sliding right. Break. Lead, I think I overtorqued back there. I’ll be shutting down to have maintenance take a look at it.”
Silence.
Lead: "Flight, come up trail. Keep it spread out."
On the way back to Can Tho, I concentrated on the engine and transmission instruments. I concentrated on keeping off Lead's tail. I concentrated on the mechanics of flying, because that was the only thing that kept me from seeing the last thing I saw before I rolled left. I was looking straight up through my greenhouse and I could see straight through Chalk Two’s greenhouse into the cockpit.
He raised his head and looked at me…
“Fly The Aircraft!”
Yeah. “Fly The Aircraft…”
Even when the compartments are leaking…
* * * * * * * * * * * *
WO1 William H. Laurence, Jr.
CPT Stephen Douglas Carr
SP5 Larry Bruce Jacobson
SP5 Benny Ray Halstead
Panel 07W-010 of the Wall.
* * * * * * * * * * * *
I tried to do this a couple of times over the years and I could never get it right.
BillT, I am...speechless. I am so sorry. We ask so much of our fighting men, and seldom stop to think of the terrible price. They have not been forgotten.
by Cricket on August 30, 2007 11:59 PM
You done good, Chief. I don't have anything like that, but there are a couple of faces I see some nights as well. They're never really gone as long as we remember them.
Bill, this happened on the day I left country. I was getting my short, shortimer tan when summoned by Maj. B. He told me I had 3 hours to leave if I wanted a 3 day drop. They had secured a spot for me on a Caribou. I left so quickly I never properly said goodbye to anybody. It was only a few years ago that I was told of this. I have met Laurence's family. He would be very proud of them! Here's to fallen comrades; long remembered, ne'er forgotten.
V29.
by V29 on August 31, 2007 9:08 AM
BillT, first, THANK YOU, for your courage. Not just then, but NOW. You may not think of of it this way, but you have done the toughest task of your life. You have helped the whole Veterans community.
Thank you, for your service to this GREAT NATION and HER VETERANS.
Grumpy
by Grumpy on August 31, 2007 10:50 AM
V29 -- Remember the debate last year about giving our KIAs' kids the full story -- before we realized that the "kids" were now older than we were when it all happened?