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Dip the guidons, muffle the drums, the riderless horse is passing by...

Colonel Timothy Hamilton Donovan, United States Army, Retired, Rotary International, "Career Complete"
Colonel Timothy Hamilton Donovan, United States Army, Retired, Rotary International, "Career Complete"

Or, his most important title as far as I'm concerned... "Dad"

It was a long and difficult labor. The mother was fighting desperately to *not* give birth to ensure that her son was *not* an April Fool’s baby. And in the wee hours of the 2nd of April, 1929, on the cusp of the Great Depression, Timothy Hamilton Donovan came into the world in Denver, Colorado, son of John T. and Rose Donovan, and brother to his sister Elaine. He spent his formative years roaming from Colorado to Texas, Oklahoma and Kansas with his father, an oil company geologist, as he surveyed the oil fields. He spent summers in Canada, living in tents and riding horses in the Canadian Rockies as his father did surveying tasks for the provincial government. It was there he was swept off his horse by a grizzly bear, leaving three long scars across his chest that lasted his lifetime. They were just the first scars he would earn in mortal combat.

Tim’s connection to Missouri began at the Missouri Military Academy in Mexico, where he was a model student, Missouri State champion wrestler, and captain of the football team. He commanded the color guard that honored former Prime Minister Winston Churchill when Winnie gave the iconic “Iron Curtain” speech at Fulton. His enduring connection to Columbia began when his athletic prowess earned him a football scholarship to Mizzou. While there , he suffered the fate of many a Sigma Chi brother – he was blinded by the radiance of a Stephens’ girl – Elizabeth Ann Meriwether, and the two were joined in a love that lasted 56 years, a partnership broken briefly when she passed in 2006, but which is rekindled anew.

Lieutenant Tim and Mrs. Ann Donovan, at her parent's house prior to his departure for Korea and high adventure.
Lieutenant Tim and Mrs. Ann Donovan, at her parent's house prior to his departure for Korea and high adventure.

Commissioned into the Missouri National Guard as a Lieutenant of Field Artillery with the 128th FA in Columbia, Lieutenant Donovan was ordered to drop his football and college career, leave his new bride, and go to Korea in 1952. He served with the United Nations Partisan Forces – Korea (North Koreans fighting for freedom, not oppression) and while qualifying for the Combat Infantryman Badge, he earned a Silver Star for his role in the destruction of a Chinese HQ’s unit.  A battle fought in night and fog and at close quarters - in which he earned the second of three Purple Hearts earned in Korea and was captured – but such was the loyalty he inspired that his guerrillas crossed the Yalu river into China proper to free him and bring him back.   Foreshadowing a bad family habit... this is the first time a Donovan was bayoneted...  At least Dad didn't do it to himself, as I did.  There is a story in there, too - of a man who got himself free of his cage, disposed of armed guards bare-handed yet without raising an alarm, freeing fellow captives as his own guerrillas arrived to take him back across the river.  But that's a story for a different time.

Upon his return from Korea he set about being a father. His daughter, Kathy, was born in Lawton, Oklahoma where Tim taught young artillerymen the finer points of the trade, and he commanded rocket and cannon batteries. Having been present when Churchill named the Iron Curtain, it seemed appropriate for Captain Donovan to take the family to Germany to help defend that frontier of freedom, and, as the result of a very brief trip back to barracks during a long field problem, son John entered the world with an exotic birthplace and a foreign language birth certificate which confuses officialdom to this day.

LTC Donovan found himself in command of an artillery battalion in Vietnam during the Tet Offensive, where he was observed hanging out of the door of his command helicopter firing a submachine gun one-handed at enemy soldiers attacking one of his batteries, an action that so annoyed the enemy that they shot back, and Tim earned the third of his four Purple Hearts from Vietnam (for a total of 7) and a Bronze Star with V for valor. As one of Tim’s long time friends observed – “the record’s eight, why’d he slack off?”

He ended his military career as the Professor of Military Science at MU, where he was privileged (his words) to commission the first women officers from the ROTC program. It was as the PMS where he found his second enduring love – Rotary, where he made his mark as a club and district leader, and was proud to vote to allow women into the club. You find your quiet feminists in the strangest of places…

His greatest joy after his family came from interacting with Rotarians; finding the Rotarians who just didn’t know they were Rotarians yet, and mentoring them into the world of the Four Way Test. Tim Donovan’s life embodied the motto of Rotary – Service Above Self. He leaves a huge hole to fill, but he trained the people who will step into the breach, whether in the Army, in Rotary, and in his family, where he is survived by his daughter Kathy Donovan Hanson and her husband Ed, their children Timothy, Patrick and Erin; and his son John and his wife Beth, and their son, Andy Healy Poland and his fiancée Ashley and his great-grandson Miles. If he departed this world with a regret, it was that he was not able to dance on the grave of Petey – the obstreperous horse who had the temerity to throw him and break a rib, an action that the gentle giant of a man never forgave…  And this was a man who had many cats and dogs over his lifetime, all the ones of his choosing being rescues.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to the Rotary Foundation, via the Rotary Club of Columbia, PO Box 88, Columbia, Mo, 65205.  The funeral is today.

Captain Tim Donovan having some fun at the demo range...

And you can see he bred true, so to speak - given this is a picture of him twisting the handle on a blasting machine, with an expression many of my friends would recognize...

Now is the second time at Castle Argghhh! when we dance the dance I dreaded.  This time for Dad: In Memoriam of Colonel Tim Donovan...   Dad.  Hopefully you were in heaven a half hour before the Devil knew you were dead, given that was one of your favorite blessing.  Allons!

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 God bless you and your family, John. May God's mercy and grace comfort you and your family today, and find peace and joy knowing that the world is a better place today because of your father's love and hard work.

Col. Donovan will be in my thoughts today, and I think, often in the future.
 
God bless your Dad and God bless yourself. 

Not much else that can be said at times when sorrow meets eternal joy.


[incidentally, my oldest sister was the first ROTC graduate from SWMSU back in the distant sixties before color arrived in the world]
 
What wonderful photos.  They really capture his spirit. 

He will be greatly missed.
 

God bless the Donovan's

And now a bit of poetry fitting the day...

Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone,
Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone,
Silence the pianos and with muffled drum
Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come.

Let aeroplanes circle moaning overhead
Scribbling on the sky the message He Is Dead,
Put crepe bows round the white necks of the public doves,
Let the traffic policemen wear black cotton gloves.

He was my North, my South, my East and West,
My working week and my Sunday rest,
My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song;
I thought that love would last for ever: I was wrong.

The stars are not wanted now: put out every one;
Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun;
Pour away the ocean and sweep up the wood.
For nothing now can ever come to any good.

 

[As an aside...I do believe that set of OD Greens in photo 1 could stand up by themselves.]
 

 
I knew it!  He was a Great Guy!  You speak of your parents with such love and respect, and it is inspiring. They are so proud of you.  Farewell, Col. Donovan.  Your son is a credit to you.


 
I love the pics.  I can so see you in your fathers face.
 
Maggie- I thought the same thing about seeing John in his Dad's pictures.  How very fitting.
I am so sorry for your losses, John.  I've never buried a parent, and dread the day.  We all do, when we have close and loving relationships with them as you did your parents.  I've never looked at a daffodil since your mother's passing without thinking of her.  I always know that when you post that daffodil picture, something about your mother is sure to follow.  I think that last picture of your Dad will be his "daffodil" picture though.  It's priceless.  Thank you for sharing his story with us, John.  I'm sure there is much, much more to tell.
 
Thank you, John, for sharing his life's story, and doing it so well. He is a superb example of what humans can do and be. I can only hope when I have to write similar things for my parents I can do half so well. Again, my sincerest condolences.
 
Greetings:

Is that a Combat Infantry Badge in your top photo? 
 
What an awesome tribute.  Well done.
 
My sincerest condolences to you and yours on your loss.  May he lager in at the green and join his fellows for a tin of the brew.

Ecclesiastes, Chapter 3, verses 1-8.

A Time for Everything
1 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:

2 a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;

3 a time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;

4 a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;

5 a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;

6 a time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;

7 a time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;

8 a time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace

 
John, you have beautiful parents.  Thank you for sharing your father's life story - he was an amazing man...
 
Good job, John.  Your Dad would surely be pleased at that.  Very nicely done.

Time to rest easy, eh?
 
What a guy. No wonder you're so proud of him. And I know you've done him proud, too, John. Not with this post - as wonderful as it is - but with who you are.

You and Beth have been on my mind, and in my prayers. Hugs to both of you.

 
Rest in peace Colonel.

God bless you all in this time of loss.
 
11B40 - that CIB cost him 2 of his three Korea Purple Hearts and his Silver Star.

He was very proud of that CIB.  In his service with the UNPFK he was Special Forces before it was cool.

The funeral went well. 

Finally, after all the sleeping in church Dad did over the years, this time he did it flat on his back and no one was upset.
 
Our sincere thanks to all of you for your support in the loss of our father, the Auld Soldier. He was indeed a hero, a great man, and just plain Dad. Your support truly does lift us up in our time of sorrow.

Phillip, that very passage was read this afternoon, albeit in the King James version. It comforts me and causes my brother to remember the Byrds. John, thanks for letting me cause you to have a tune running through your head. I love you.

Kathy
 
Farewell good soldier; rest easy, your job here is done.
 

From one of my favorite movies, the classic, Wizard of Oz.

As the Wizard is searching in his bag for the reward for the Tin Man, the Wizard pulls out a ticktock artificial clockwork heart and makes the statement:

"Remember, my gentle friend, a man is not judged how much he loves, but how much he is loved by others"

Judging from the turnout for your fathers wake.

Timothy was a Tin Man...

Godspeed, Erin go Bragh, and Fiddlers Green shall be enriched by his presence while we here on mortal terra firma shall be the poorer.

RIP a true American hero and Patriot.  Colonel Timothy Donovan!


 

From my Grandfather's (Field Artillery) funeral announcement, a fitting song:

Over hill over dale we have hit the dusty trail
As our caissons go rolling along.
Up and down, in and out, Countermarch and right about,
And our caissons go rolling along.

For it's hi-hi-hee in the Fifth Artillery, Shout out the number loud and strong.

Till our final ride, It will always be our pride
To keep those caissons a rolling along.
(Keep them rolling - keep them rolling)
Keep those caissons a rolling along.

B-a-t-t-e-r-y H-a-l-t!


A "battalion six" of DPICM on the way in his honor.

Snake

 

 
John, on behalf of my family I extend my condolences.  May the piper play a merry tune as your father and mother dance through the pearly gates together. 
 

A life well lived, thank you for sharing him with us.

 
Our loss is Heaven's gain. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
 
It's great to hear about your dad in such a positive way.  May he rest in peace and you and your family find their peace too.
 
Got the heads up from Grim-

Man!! What a great Dad!

My condolences to you and yours.
 

 MY condolences to you and yours, John, as well as my thanks for carrying on your father's work, as both a Redleg, and a Rotarian. The only thing we can take with us is out name, and his was set in gold.

 Anything I can do, ever.. all you have to do is ask.
 
There's not much to add that hasn't been said already, but thoughts and prayers continue to go your way.
 
What a handsome devil. Like father, like son.
 
My sincere sympathy John. Although most of us never met him, we know him.

He will be missed.

God Bless him and your family.
 
Great article.  That is a tribute fit of what I'm sure is a man worth remembering. 
In Hoc Signo Vinces
 

John, your tribute to your father brought tears to my eyes.   He is larger than life to me now, and I can feel your love and loss echo in every phrase.

My thoughts and prayers to you and yours this day.

Godspeed, Col. 

 
One more comment; your parents make a handsome couple. They seemed to have had a twinkle in their eyes most of the time.  We await stories for when they are ready to be told.
 
a Toast to his life, and a libation poured for his legacy!
 
Rest in Peace, Soldier

Condolences to all who miss him, both friends and family. Thank you for sharing these bits of his life's story with us. There's a hell of a good book that should be written though. You might want to think about that.

 
Words can't express how saddened I am for you.  Your family is in my prayers.

MC
 
Echo Taps...such a lovely sound...a shame that in means we've lost one of our best.

To absent companions, patriots, brothers-in-arms, heroes all...

Fare thee well!
 
"11B40 - that CIB cost him 2 of his three Korea Purple Hearts and his Silver Star."

Ehhh?  Howzat?

 
I am sorry for your loss. My parents both passed many years ago and it still hurts.
RIP, Sir, and Thank You for your Service.
 
Lamigra - let me phrase more carefully, it was confusing.  What I was trying to convey was that Dad paid two Purple Hearts and a Silver Star for that CIB.  The third Purple Heart he earned in Korea was serving as an artillery observer in the 2nd Infantry Division.