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H&I* Fires, 27 NOV 2007

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Time to add a new caveat, because from email it's not clear to some folks (mind you, if you don't read this it won't matter...) Being an open post, people (collectively, the Denizens) other than I post in the H&I. They sign their work (most of the time) - keep that in mind when you want to flame someone in email please - if it doesn't say "The Armorer" or "John" then I didn't write it! And honestly - if you don't like something said or posted... leave a comment, and hash it out (within the context of The Rulez which are clearly posted on the comment form, I would add).

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“Don’t go outside the house,” the 911 operator pleaded. “You’re going to get yourself shot if you go outside that house with a gun. I don’t care what you think.” “You want to make a bet?” Horn answered. “I’m going to kill them.” He did.

Burgling is a dangerous business in Houston. I might not have been so quick to shoot as this guy... but I really dislike the flipside to the above, as aptly captured by Jules Crittenden in his piece that I lifted these quotes from:

This would not happen in my state, due to the well-established Massachusetts criminals’ rights movement that levies severe penalties on anyone with a lawful firearm attempting to interfere with a domestic felony in progress.

Indeed. Too many jurisdictions (the entire British Isles for example) levy severe penalties for interfering with a felony in progress. Feh. -the Armorer

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Heh. *Someone* has their undergarments all snarled up... -the Armorer

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Yeah, that's right I *am* smiling, dammit! -the Armorer

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*A term of art from the artillery. Harassment and Interdiction Fires.

Back in the day, when you could just kill people and break things without a note from a lawyer, they were pre-planned, but to the enemy, random, fires at known gathering points, road junctions, Main Supply Routes, assembly areas, etc - to keep the bad guy nervous that the world around him might start exploding at any minute.

*Not really relevant to today's operating environment, right? But, it *is*

The UAVs (oops, can't call 'em UAVs anymore - they're now Unmanned Aerial Systems... some Colonel got his Legion of Merit for that change...), er, um UAS's we fly over Afghanistan and Pakistan looking for targets of opportunity are a form of H&I fires, if you really want to parse it finely. We just have better sensors and fire control now.

I call the post that because it's random things posted by me and people I've given posting privileges to. It's also an open trackback, so if someone has a post they're proud of, but it really isn't either Castle kind of stuff, or topical to a particular post, I've basically given blanket permission to use that post for that purpose. Another term of art that might be appropriate is "Free Fire Zone"

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Colorado has fairly citizen-friendly laws governing use of deadly force in your home (and on the street, for that matter). There is even protection from a civil lawsuit if the shooting was considered 'righteous' under the law... but “You want to make a bet?” Horn answered. “I’m going to kill them.” was entirely the wrong thing to say to the 911 dispatcher, IMHO. Premeditation, anyone? Still, I hope he avoids prosecution- and that reminds me, I need some #0 buckshot for my own tube-gun...
 
"many jurisdictions (the entire British Isles for example) levy severe penalties for interfering with a felony in progress" That may be standard belief in the US about "felony" in the "British Isles". It's wrong. OTH the standard belief in the "British Isles" (which includes Eire, by the way) is that Americans frequently make sweeping statements that are incorrect.
 
OTH the standard belief in the "British Isles" (which includes Eire, by the way) is that Americans frequently make sweeping statements that are incorrect. I personally find that using a broom is simple enough that I rarely mispeak about it... but perhaps it passes the time in Jolly Ol'*. *including Eire B^D
 
Okay Matt - explain why my admittedly sweeping statement is sweepingly incorrect (vice cherry-pickingly)...
 
Matt: Well, what is the rule in the Isles? BTW, I know that geographically, Éire is part of the "British Isles," but don't say that to anybody I know from the Republic unless you're ready to run. (including my wife, LOL) Anyway, in every discussion I've had with citizens/subjects of aforementioned jurisdictions (and I've had many between layovers in Heathrow to family visits on Éire, to hanging out with RAF colleagues), all were, at the least startled, when I explained the castle doctrine and it's application and interpretation in the states I'm most familiar with (KY & SC). Then there was that high profile case some time back in the Sun about a guy who went to jail for shooting someone who broke into his home... Therefore, at least from our perspective, the governments of the British Isles do seem to care more about the felons than the homeowners. Could you please enlighten us as to where we are off the mark on this one?
 
Well, It seems there are quite a few people in the UK that also believe that you shouldn't interfere in a crime in progress.
The Home Office warned the public against taking any action against criminals that could result in them being injured or facing assault charges themselves. A spokesman said: "The public should not intervene directly in any situations of criminal activity - they may put themselves in danger or exacerbate the situation. "Ultimately, they may be acting on the wrong side of the law." The Association of Chief Police Officers said members of the public should call the police to report criminal behaviour.
Considering they're involvement in the whole policy/law enforcement arena they might be on to something. Sure, you might claim an out that they approve of interferance when injury or assault charges could not result, but who knows when these cases will be. Many of your fellow countrymen (same link) describe why they would fear being a 'have a go' hero: And it's not fear of the criminal that stops them, it's fear of your own police. Even SWWBO has had conversations with your countrymen that show how that view has permeated the culture.
The idea of self defense is incomprehensible to the guys I'm working with. They think I'm pretty much some kind of viking/amazonian woman - because I told them I would not hesitate to shoot someone threating my home and family. In fact they all kinda backed away from me a little bit. One of them said to just give the crook what he/she wants and he/she will leave you alone. When I told him I would happily gouge out the eyes of any man who tried to rape me - he was absolutely stunned - he said that I had to be fair and use fair force.
I suppose that if she faces rape, that fair force dictates that she should try to rape him right back!? BS, fair is not being attacked in the first place. After that, all bets are off until the threat is ended.
 
I had a question; here goes: I read the article, and will go back and re read it again. Since he shot and killed his witnesses, it is only his word and the transcript from the tape. It would seem that he had a genuine reason to fear for his life; it isn't as if the perps were unarmed and we don't know if he asked them to stop. By armed I mean they had a crowbar. So, given the climate in Texas against criminals and the transcript, would you say that he might get off or be made an example of?
 
I guess I have to be the rational dissent. He wasn't in danger, and they were fleeing. He had other options. His statements('wanna bet?') show premeditation. We don't go for vigilante justice in these here United States. He screwed up and I won't even care if the crims' families make wrongful death cases. HE could racked the shotgun, fired a warning shot, declared them under citizens arrest and held them until 5-O showed up. If they rushed him or went for something, well, he's got the shotgun and the element of surprise doesn't he? You don't go out to smoke people like that. That's vigilantism, bordering on the same self-righteousness of ELF and ALF. He had options including force that were just as appropriate that fell far short of shooting to kill at that point. Castle Doctrine did not grant us home and gun owners the right to be judge, jury, and executioner. The Geneva Conventions allow for shooting up fleeing troops, but civil law doesn't. Non-righteous shoot.
 
Again, I'll reiterate I wouldn't have gone out to shoot... but IIRC, Texas law allows him to go defend his property. Be interesting to see how it plays out. I'm sure you are right in many jurisdictions, Ry. But I'm not sure you are right in this particular one.
 
Here's a post from A Keyboard and a .45 of the relevant law. I think, based on this, we don't know enough from the story to offer informed opinions on the specifics. I just know that based on the data in the story alone, I wouldn't have stepped out to go perp-hunting. I guess the prosecutor and/or a jury will decide in this case.
 
Rules for self-defence in the UK First of all, there is no "duty to retreat". There used to be such a duty in Common Law but that was specifically changed in 1967. Secondly, "reasonable" force can be used by anyone in the prevention of any crime or in making an arrest. You can use any REASONABLE force to defend yourself or another person or property. You are allowed to protect yourself with something you are carrying anyway (for example: keys, umbrella or a can of deodorant), but you may not carry a weapon. The prohibition against weapons is taken very seriously. Carrying a knife can theoretically lead to a 2-year prison sentence and being in possession of a firearm can be a 5-year penalty - even if no other crimes are involved. A private citizen cannot legally kill someone to defend property. Period. Neither can any Police Officer (caveat: one possible exception is the Civil Nuclear Constabulary, who guard the civilian nuclear power plants and are our only permanently armed police force.) The law does not attempt to make a definition of "reasonable" or "appropriate" force. This is deliberate policy - there would be an infinite number of caveats and hypothetical situations. It is up to a jury to decide whether too much force was used. The NRA likes to quote the case of Tony Martin, the UK farmer who defended himself with a shotgun when 2 burglars broke in to his house and was locked up for exercising his "god-given right to self-defense". Things they don't quote 1. Martin shot the first burglar (who was unarmed) inside his property. The burglar claims that there was no warning. 2. Martin then chased the other (equally unarmed) burglar outside and shot him as he was running away. Note the important aspects here: unarmed, outside, running away. 3. Martin then left the area. He was not the one who called the emergency services - this was done by neighbours when burglar number 1 regained consciousness 2 hours later and dragged himself to their door 4. The body of burglar number 2 was found by the Police in undergrowth the next day. It's not clear how the body got there - or if someone attempted to conceal it. It's possible that burglar 2 would have lived if an Ambulance had been called soon after he was shot. 5. During the investigation, it became apparent that there was some sort of dispute between the burglars' family and Martin. They knew each other. 6. Martin had not been surprised. He'd expected the burglary attempt. In fact, he'd been awake and waiting for them. 7. Martin did not have a licence for his pump action shotgun. 8. The jury was instructed that they could have returned a Manslaughter verdict if they so chose. The jury voted 10-2 for Murder. However, on appeal, this Murder conviction was reduced to Manslaughter (because of Martin's mental health problems) 9. Because of the success of his appeal, Martin's sentence was reduced to 5 years. He served 3 years (and if he'd expressed any repentance he'd have got out even sooner). The surviving burglar received a 3 year sentence and served 18 months. 10. Martin received 125,000 pounds from the Daily Mirror for his story. It is true that you can find reported cases of the police in the UK investigating allegations of assault involving citizens restraining burglars or defending themselves. There are very few examples where this gets to court - and even fewer where the jury convicts For example, this footballer seems to have been unlucky and had to restrain burglars twice. http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/scotland/2668359.stm Charges have never been brought against him
 
The Geneva Conventions allow for shooting up fleeing troops, but civil law doesn't. Non-righteous shoot. Number one, I know for a fact that the police in Texas are allowed to shoot fleeing suspects in the back if they represent a potential danger to society. In this, Texas courts have been pretty wide in their allowance for what constitutes "danger" including suspects who have committed armed robbery, even if they did not assault someone, B&E, rapists, child molesters, etc. The person does not have to be a murderer or assault. There disposition during arrest could also have them considered "dangerous" such as resisting arrest and assaulting an officer with their fists. Those people could be rightfully shot, in the back, while fleeing because they now represent a "danger" to society since their actions, even if it is a first time, represent a willingness to commit violence even in the face of an armed aggressor. It's a bad mistake Texas criminals often make. Secondly, don't think that Texas juries are totally without sympathy for the "vigilante". We are talking about a society where cattle rustlers are still considered the worst sort of criminal and ranchers have not even been brought up before a grand jury having shot "fleeing" rustlers. Even unarmed ones. The issue, of course, is the urbanized juries who think crime is just the price you pay for living so close together. Still, as these stories are more publicized, I'd be interested in seeing whether the idea that the rest of the law abiding populace is armed has any effect on violent and non-violent crime since these acts are beginning to show that "crime" really "doesn't pay".
 
Actually, the Conventions and Civil law are closer in alignment than you might think. You technically aren't supposed to shoot fleeing troops if they've taken themselves from the fight, such as be throwing away their weapons, and helmets, etc, and just running away to run away. If they are maneuvering away under discipline and with arms, they obviously intend to continue the fight. You saw some of the tension over that played out in the discussion of the "Highway of Death" in Gulf War 1. No one really questioned taking out the tank transporters, etc, but there was angst over shooting "people fleeing in terror" leave aside that they would re-constitute three terrain features over...
 
I didn't fall into the Martin trap! It really boils down, I think, to an oddly exaggerated sense of "fair play" at work, in the eyes of many of us. As I read the Brit approach, I essentially must *always* surrender the initiative to the criminal, and can only act in response, never pre-emptively. The case of the wrestler is an example of cherry-picking. Okay, someone like him, or, myself for that matter, might well be able to overcome an unarmed (or even armed, depending on what they are armed with) intruder. My wife, by contrast? Nope. So, Brit attitude seems to be that okay, if you can take 'em without hurting them, okay... but if not, then your choice is to do whatever they want, and hope you get to a phone in time, and, what the hell, it's just your TV, that's what insurance is for. And it relies on a sense that burglars will also play by the "rules." And while many might, it strikes me as asking a lot from a group of people already displaying some judgement issues and anti-social behaviors. I would submit that's one reason that you are far more likely to suffer a home invasion burglary in Blighty than you are the US. Again, it appears that most of the restraints are being applied to the already law-abiding, and they're just supposed to accept the risks. I don't really understand why the criminal gets such a head-start.
 
ry - I think premeditation is a stretch since he didn't invite the low-lifes to his property. The statements he made to the 911 operator could have been adrenalin-induced (which, [I bet] if it goes to court, is what the jury will hear). Texas is not the only state that has expanded castle doctrine to include your property line. Included in this expansion is usually the idea that if the property owner feels threatened, he/she can use deadly force. Running away does not always allay that feeling, especially if the individual is running towards a vehicle... Matt - Thank-you for your explanation of British law, which I know is similar to Irish law and which, I believe, proves John's sweeping statement. You may not see it since you are on the inside looking out, but to those of us on the outside looking in, who don't want to trust the gov't to protect us (look how well they deliver the mail) and don't want to sit back and allow thugs to violate our space and steal out property (which BTW, represents a part of one’s life for those who work for a living). All that said, a person could make a point that the Brit gov't encourages young people to choose a career in crime by the way the laws are so tilted in the favor of the criminal (maybe that’s one way to get them off the dole…).
 
responding to several people I think it does come down to a matter of perception. Apparently, Americans don't even trust their government to run a post office. In the UK, we do. Royal Mail has a pretty good record; it makes a profit (and consequently pays bonuses to its employees). As for an "exaggerated sense of fair play"... perhaps I could turn this around. As far as I know, US law does not allow you to injure or kill someone that MIGHT pose a threat in the future. Therefore, the alleged criminal always has the initiative. Is this incorrect? UK law does allow you to injure (or even kill) attackers, but only if this is a reasonable use of force in response to the immediate threat. How is US law different? Also, if a criminal carries a weapon into the location where the crime is committed, then he/she faces a more serious charge - like "aggravated burglary" for instance - which can carry a life sentence Unlike Texas (apparently) We do not permit police to kill individuals merely because they are fleeing and a police officer has deemed that they might pose a threat to society in the future. Do police in Texas really have this power? Who gave it to them?
 
Matt - 1. I take it from the tone of your response that you totally agree with the way things are done in the UK, and that's fine since you're the one who lives there. I have been to the UK many times and enjoy the lively political debates I have had in the pubs, but I would never want to live under your rules, just as you seem to not care much for ours so we both live where we like the status quo. How about that? 2. Yes, police in all the states that I have ever lived in (KY, NM, TX, FL, GA, SC, CO) have that authority with the caveat that there is always an internal investigation after every police shooting. 3. I guess our problem on this side is (in the UK) you have to wait until after the event for a judge/jury to decide if the force was reasonable and, as you mentioned, you can never shoot somebody who accosts you on the street since you weren't supposed to have a gun in the first place. 4. BTW, adding extra time to a sentence has not been proven to deter a lot of criminals. The UK has the strictest gun laws in the western world and yet you are experiencing a climbing crime rate (according to The Sun, anyway [see, John, I actually look at more than page 3]). 5. Maybe if I had used your NHS instead of our post office as an example you might have seen things differently, unless, of course, you are going to tell me that all of the horror stories I've read in the British press concerning the NHS are fabrications. Anyway, my point still stands that most of us (in the US) don't trust the gov't to take care of us and don't want the gov't to take care of us, even if we did deem them capable. Besides, very few people want to pay the taxes it would take to put a cop on every street corner. 6. The answer as to how the law is different here ( and, as has been pointed out is not the same everywhere since the Blue states tend to be closer to your way of doing things) is a firearm in your home (and some states on your property) is always “reasonable force” if you have probably cause to believe the scum-bag is planning to harm you, a family member, or an innocent bystander. On the street, it depends on that particular state’s concealed carry laws what you can and can’t do. For instance, FL has a stand your ground law which means the citizen with a CCP does not have to try to retreat before using deadly force, whereas, in SC, you have that obligation to attempt to extricate yourself peacefully before using deadly force.
 
Matt - in most places, police can't shoot a fleeing felon per se. They can shoot a fleeing suspect they believe to be armed and posing a danger, or who is fleeing a violent crime - and a purse snatcher, while a violent criminal act, would not generally rise to the level of a supportable shooting, a serious mugging with related injuries, might well in some jurisdictions, depending on circumstances. We have a definitional issue between us, too, on the issue of "might" pose a threat. No, I can't shoot my neighbor simply because he's an unsavory type with bad friends and a record of ransacking homes in the neighborhood. But I can shoot him if he's breaking into my house, or I come upon him in my house without my permission, and this is especially true at night. Mind you, as I said earlier, because of my life experience and training, I'm not going to shoot first and ask questions later. But the law will support me if you are in my home with evil intent, and you don't get a pass if you say "Don't shoot! I mean you no harm, I'm just here to steal your stuff!" unless you follow that with a clear movement to depart. And not all jurisdictions have the same rules. In Texas, I can shoot you if you are messing around in an outbuilding or with my vehicle. In Kansas, I can't use deadly force to defend "unoccupied" property. For me, personally, I wouldn't anyway. As for who gave the Texas police authority to do what they do? The Texas legislature, acting in the name of the people of Texas, as adjusted by the Courts of the State and Federal systems. The real crux here is that my wife can shoot the burglar where he stands if he's entering the house. And she doesn't have to warn him, either. Because you aren't supposed to be breaking into my house. And it really doesn't create the level of carnage the image might conjure up. Most people are really pretty reluctant to shoot, much less get so personal as to use a baseball bat. In an admittedly anecdotal memory, most of the time it's happened around here that I remember (which is not a scientific sampling, to be sure) it most often occurs after a homeowner has been victimized multiple times. Just as most of our handgun violence that gets bandied about in the news is criminal-on-criminal violence, which just adding laws to doesn't really help (unless you are addressing the attractiveness of crime... drug war anyone?) Of course, innocents get caught in the crossfire. But that's really slipping off into a different subject.
 
Let's get to the basis of all this discussion. In England, the government gives you your rights, including the designation and right to self-defense. In the US, the right to self-defense is considered an inherent, natural right. From these two separate concepts, the laws governing "self-defense" are determined and codified. Thus, in the US, the natural right to self-defense (ie, the part of the declaration of Independence that says "life, liberty and pursuit of happiness" being "unalienable rights") trumps any equivocation or concept of "moral obligation" to anyone who is obviously acting immorally and who is or attempts to interfere with that unalienable right to life. In other words, once you have decided that my life is worthless (that encompasses actual life as well as physical injury or injury to my liberty or pursuit of happiness), you have instantly devalued your own to the same or less. The law of survival kicks in. And we are a nation who has a long tradition of surviving in hostile places have incorporated that into modern life where humans are still hostile and the terrain, whether mountains, plains or urban, doesn't negate that right or instinct to survival.
 
kat - Well said! I think that also goes along with the fact that our ancestors came here to get away from the way things are done in Europe.
 
Yes. Reasonable force. I simply don't see the violent use of force against me to be reasonable at all, so why should I extend reasonableness to my attacker? Moreover, apply this to a 6'2" 250lbs thug against a 5'1" 115lbs lady. Moreover, say the thug is unarmed and doesn't want to kill the lady, only beat and rape her. Therefore, she doesn't get to use deadly force (as such would be unreasonable), she must face her attacker hand to hand (or hand to purse). How is this reasonable? (A raped woman is an easy trade off for not having a dead thug, right?) At least in my state, we have the right to use deadly force to protect yourself and others from "threat of death or grave bodily injury" whether at home or on the street. And while I do not believe we are a "Castle Doctrine" state, breaking into a home is almost always seen as positive proof of said threat. As for Martin (I'm taking your description of the situation as accurate, I've heard the name, but not much else), some things, such as following a fleeing burglar outside to shoot is not-"righteous". However, some of the assertions of wrongdoing you include are emblematic of the issues Americans have with the British system. 1. Martin shot the first burglar (who was unarmed) inside his property. The burglar claims that there was no warning. Good Shoot. A person who has broken in to your home is not there for benevolent purposes. He is a threat whether armed or not (which is not always easy to ascertain in the moment: just because you can't see it doesn't mean it isn't there). There should be no need for a warning. In a potentially deadly situation, warnings give the attackers the advantage. Especially in a 2 on 1 scenario. 5. During the investigation, it became apparent that there was some sort of dispute between the burglars' family and Martin. They knew each other. Irrelevent. Being aquainted with the attacker does not make him less of a threat. 6. Martin had not been surprised. He'd expected the burglary attempt. In fact, he'd been awake and waiting for them. Irrelevent. Belief that an attack may be forthcoming does not make it less of a threat. In fact, preparing for the potentiality is only prudent. There would only be foul play in this if he baited them into trying to rob him and since you didn't assert that Martin set out a sign saying "Free silverware for the taking", I have to assume he didn't. 7. Martin did not have a licence for his pump action shotgun. Martin should not have to have a license for a shotgun. 8. The jury was instructed that they could have returned a Manslaughter verdict if they so chose. The jury voted 10-2 for Murder. However, on appeal, this Murder conviction was reduced to Manslaughter (because of Martin's mental health problems) This conviction should only have been for burglar #2, not Burglar #1 as that should have been ruled a righteous shooting. The fact that it wasn't is a travesty.
 
Kat, excellent. In my state, it is well known that deadly force is justified in home invasions. If you value my stereo more than your life, I'll oblige you in your assessment.
 
Yu...you enumerated my problems with the system well. Glad you did it and I didn't have to take the time, though I would add, the fact that someone came unarmed to a home invasion does not mean that they would remain "unarmed" (didn't have a gun?) or not cause harm using any weapon or tool he had brought or found. Burglars have turned into murderers and felony assaults using knives, crow bars and other blunt objects to injure or kill. Thus, again, entering someone's home without a "gun" or "knife" doesn't prove any intent not to harm or mean they pose no danger. That is a serious flaw in English law in my mind.
 
Well that told me. I was SURE that US law (like English Common Law) had both "reasonable" and "proportional" requirements for the use of force to be used in self-defence. Apparently not. But I can't let the "horrors of the NHS" canard stand. I can't know what you've read but it may well be propaganda. I have never had any reason to complain about the NHS. They are doing an excellent job job in keeping my parents alive; so the least I could do is defend their reputation. Because they are over 70, my parents get regular (every 3 months) invites to their GP for checkups and a wide battery of tests - all free. If they need drugs, he writes them a prescription and they take it to the pharmacist of their choice. The pharmacist then simply gives them the relevant medicine. There are No co-pays. No claim forms. No negotiations with insurance companies. NO trying to choose a Medicare assisted drug plan. Nothing. Nada. Zip. In the UK, your GP writes prescriptions, then the Pharmacist checks your age and whether you're claiming benefit. If you're unemployed, under 16 or over 60 he gives you the drugs and sends a bill to the NHS. I believe that this is somewhat simpler that the US systems - and quite possibly cheaper. These are the true "horrors" of state-run, socialized medicine in the UK. At the other end of the generational scale, the NHS did a very good job helping my daughter into the world. "Our" NHS midwife would make a home visit every week for the 2 months before birth (yes, I know... I like to say "our" but of course nervous, first-time fathers aren't very relevant at this stage... sue me). This was all routine - and free. Likewise, the NHS hospital we chose (we were offered a choice of 3)was excellent . Unfortunately there were 2 problems: mother's blood pressure was high and baby was small: 2.52kg - a number that will probably stay with me for life. So the hospital kept them both in for a few day's observation - in a private room. All free, of course. When everybody came home, I took a week's (paid) Paternity leave and the midwife introduced us to the NHS District Nurse. She made regular home visits for the next 2 months - to help new mother cope with the blood pressure problem and the baby. It was very much appreciated and all free. I know Americans prefer a different approach to providing healthcare (and especially drugs for seniors). But that may be because you don't know what 'socialized medicine' can actually do when it's run properly.
 
Matt, you and Alan of GenX@40 should get together to mutually cheer-lead for Canadian and British health care. I just know what the media provide. But I will make one observation. There is no such thing as free. Someone is paying. It may not be your parents, but someone is. *Nothing* comes from government (unless yours is doing some serious investing in ways most governments don't) for free. You obviously find the situation genial and it works for you, and you don't mind the bill. But not everyone agrees, and not always from purely selfish motives. And I've been the recipient of government-provided health care my entire life. One of the reasons I'm 70% disabled is... because I'm the recipient of government-provided health care. So I've got my reasons for feeling the way I do, too.
 
Matt W, I just want to make sure that you don't take away the wrong impression on the other side of the scale either. While US law does not require "reasonableness" or 'proportionality", that does not mean I can use deadly force for simply being slapped. That's not because it's disproportionate, (I can still body slam the SOB to the ground) it's because it doesn't rise to the level of 'threat of death or grave bodily injury'. But once it passes that threshold, all bets are off until the threat is over (whether that's by death or not). At least in my state. Others are different.