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My Code Pink Moment

-Denizen Kat

In regards to the Armorer's post from yesterday...

I had the distinct pleasure of meeting a code pink chic at my niece's school for family fun and nutrition Thursday night. I know she was Code Pink: Women for Peace because she had it printed on her butt and shirt.

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I am unaware of any rally here in town or other reason for it so I assume this lady thinks she had to inflict her ideology on the rest of the world among the little kinda garden kids and their parents.

I can tell you, with all honesty, it took a great deal of effort not to keep giving her an evil glare and a piece of my mind. In fact, I had my uncle's dog tags, along with a "support the troops" and POW/MIA pin in my purse from the last rally I was at. She was standing right next to me talking to the mother of my niece's friend who had set with us eating pizza (yeah, nutritious). I reached in the purse and grabbed the tags, ready to put them on as blatantly and in her face as possible.

I wouldn't start it, but I was ready for her to say something. Anything. I kept thinking about the $600k in food and supplies that they had sent into Fallujah that the terrorists had taken and distributed across their network, the boys that were killed there, the poor people of the city that were tortured and murdered who never saw a piece of that, who suffered because the animals who had them used them to keep fighting.

I thought about the Major who wrote in his blog about the people who streamed from the city and begged to be rescued from the evil there. The beheaded bodies of men, women and children that the Major talked about being dumped outside the city or in the rivers. The burned bodies, the torture chambers...It was flashing pretty quick and I had it lining up to speak "truth to idiocy".

I kept thinking about these people outside of Walter Reed with their freaking signs and our wounded that have to drive by them.

I wanted her to say something. I WANTED TO SAY SOMETHING!

Then my six year old niece asked me if we could go jump rope with her friend.

I took my hand out of my purse, zipped up the pocket, took her little hand, she took her friend's and they skipped down to the gym where all the other kids were playing.

Time and place for everything.

If only that lady understood the same.

I know what the people at the rally felt like. I can't say that I would have been any better at that rally.

I almost wasn't. Just seeing those words made me mad. I'm still mad and disgusted.

I want to see that lady outside of the school with her code pink on and explain a few things to her like how she was able to walk around in her skin tight black stretchy pants with Code Pink on the butt,, dyed hair all frizzed out talking about going to get coffee at the local shop with the other lady, send her little girl to school, drive a car and, most of all, wear Code Pink clothes and protest the government because the people she and Code Pink disrespects lays it on the line every day, protecting those rights, her life and those of her family.

Something the people that she supported would have gladly killed her for instead of said harsh words and walked away in contempt.

Somewhere in Iraq and Afghanistan, while she was eating pizza at her daughter's school, a school was burned down because some little girls went to school there. Somewhere in Iraq and Afghanistan, while she chatted about how good the teacher was, a teacher was murdered for the audacity of teaching something other than religious indoctrination according to crazy men.

Somewhere in Iraq and Afghanistan, while her daughter ran through the school from one activity to another, a little girl was murdered because she even dared to set foot in a school. Somewhere in Iraq and Afghanistan and places in between, while she walked around in her skin tight pants with Code Pink on the butt, a woman was murdered because her hair wasn't covered or her ankle was showing. Somewhere out there, while she made an appointment to meet another woman alone at a local coffee shop, a woman was killed because she had the audacity to leave her house without a male family member escorting her.

As we walked among the books that read titles like "World Book Encyclopedia", "Natural Science", "Curious George", glanced at the pamphlets about nutrition, healthy living and posters that talked about making the right CHOICES, a man was murdered in front of his family because he read a book that wasn't the Qu'ran and dared to dream of the day when he could make choices, too.

Somewhere out there, while I debated whether to confront her and she proudly showed her contempt in her dress, having supported the murderers of these people of which I speak, as we stood in the auditorium beside the American flag, a man or woman in desert camouflage with that same flag on their shoulder died trying to stop those same murderers and for her right to call those who defend her a murderer and immoral. They died keeping the murderers she supported from finding her and insuring that she and her family did not suffer the same fate.

If fate should ever provide me the opportunity to speak to this woman again, outside of a school auditorium full of kinda gardeners, I want to tell her that.

Two weeks from now, I will stand in front of a meeting full of people from around the city and talk about putting up posters and flyers for Soldiers' Angels in buildings all around the city letting people know how they can support our active duty soldiers and veterans. I know for a fact that she will walk into one of these buildings and she will see our posters and flyers.

It will be her turn to grit her teeth and bear it.

The thousands of people that will see it, the troops and veterans that will get support and the few minutes I had to stand in her presence saying nothing will be worth it.

[A little family "reasoned speech" moment in flash traffic]

[Not including the two hours I had to listen to my BDS youngest brother - not the military one - defend this lady, after I noted it at the house, by insisting she probably didn't know what it meant. And, insisting that local stores sold these clothes so anyone could have bought it. I won't say what stores he indicted with his defense, but I will check them out even if I think he's crazy. Report will follow. Worse, after I told him what it was about, he looked up their website and tried to defend the $600k "for war victims" though totally ignoring my "they sent it through Syria and known insurgent contacts" with a continued defense of naivety on their part (right). He never spoke one word about my "they protest outside of Walter Reed" point -he's not so crazy he thinks our military is full of murderers and he has helped me with some of my troop support events and website. But he does think we should let "those people" -Iraqis, Al Qaeda, etc - kill each other and spend the war money on "Americans".

I have tried to explain several times that, by spending it in Iraq, we are spending it on Americans - our safety and our future. That hasn't sunk in yet.

You see, I get to practice my "reasoned speech" at least once a week whether I like it or not. The discussion's can get lively though we have yet to draw knives or pistols. *wry grin* Yet, I will say that the "reasoned speech" sometimes does make it through and I hear it in the most surprising moments. There is hope. At least he thought Obama was crazy to want to sit and talk to people like Ahmedinejad and Fidel Castro "unconditionally", holding hands and singing Kumbaya. We do share a few common genes.]

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Bravo, Kat. Accosting her at that venue would have been inapt, if you couldn't keep your temper. And if she had started something, and you managed a reasoned response - you'd have scored points - not with the people who might have stood up to argue in her defense, who are mostly likely lost to us anyway - but with the watchers, which is who we are fighting for. Something that ?inTexas doesn't get. I have *access* in Congress now. So does Matt Burden. Greyhawk, while he may not have direct access, he's read. I have *access* to White House staff - not outside that offered to other journalists, let's not delude ourselves - but I have email addresses, and people who respond to emails, people whose names we see and hear in the day to day life of the Republic. I have access in the Pentagon, as does Matt, and, quite probably, Andi. And we wouldn't, if we behaved, on our blogs and in public as some think is appropriate. A great amount in growth in the traffic to the Castle is people who didn't like blogs because they were, well, as one guy said in email - "bad biker bars." I've had emails from people who don't agree with me, but they give me a respectful read and think about what I say (and hate me for the sneaky Whatziss') precisely because this place is well behaved, and treats contrarians with respect, if not yielding to contrarian arguments. *Those* are the people Move America Forward and Gathering of Eagles are fighting for - and in many cases, giving voice to. We just need to do something the other side often can't. Wear our adult pants. Just as screaming at your child having a temper tantrum isn't really a useful response, even if it's understandable, the same holds true for our response to the MoveOn people. You can have passion, and act passionately, without screaming in people's faces. When you reach that point, you may not have lost the argument, per se, because they're screaming back at you - but you aren't arguing any more. You're having a temper tantrum. Good on ya for being a grown-up. But don't be afraid to wear your Soldier's Angels stuff to things like that. It *is* exactly the point for us to be seen, if it may not always be appropriate to be heard. Why is that important? One of the reasons I started this blog was to put out there in front of the public that there are people with basements full of guns who aren't crazed fanatics waiting for the final race war/End Times/invasion from Cuba. But precisely because people with basements full of guns who behave themselves aren't newsworthy, people only hear about the ones that are newsworthy, and let's face it - being on the news in that context usually isn't good. My sister is not a fan of guns. And had no idea how extensive my collection was. And was supportive, in a non-reflective way, of arguments to limit the number and types of guns people could own. She made the point of telling me that my blog showed her that there could be perfectly valid reasons people might have a basement full of weapons. As have other people, some of whom were sent here by people who said - "Omigod! Go look at this nut to see why we've got to stop the madness!" and came away saying... "Hey, that guy is weird, tells bad jokes and takes bad pictures, but he's not a menace to society..." and rethought their position on the issue. So - yes, we need to put ourselves out there, to make our voices heard, and let people know they aren't alone. But doing it as a raving wingnut, which is hard to distinguish except by the slogan on the t-shirt from a raving moonbat, isn't the way to go about it.
 
Way to go Kat! There's a time and a place for everything; and you made the right choice...it will be interesting to see if Ms Code Pink even notices the "Soldiers Angels" posters or flyers. (I've noticed many of the folks who flock to organizations like Code Pink never look farther than their own biases, and would certainly not notice anything that "smacked" of supporting the troops since that might be supporting the Bush administration.) If she does notice them, it will be interesting to see whether Ms Code Pink displays the class you did and allows someone else their right to free speech. Somehow I doubt it. A poster or flyer is too easy to tear down, and too tempting for someone who doesn't really appreciate the sacrifices our wonderful young men & women serving in our armed forces suffer daily to protect that right. Again, "good on you, girl!"
 
Our posters will be in public buildings. I can't say anymore until the deal is done, but it will be in their faces and in such places that, to tear them down, would be a very huge risk based on the venue and folks there. Beyond that, I'll say nothing more than I am very excited about it and was shocked when approached to speak on it. I did not approach them; as John notes, though, sometimes it's about who you know, who they know and how they perceive you. Soldiers' Angels was totally sold on that basis. Thus, I remind myself daily of that old master card commercial: Crazies who give you headaches: $4.99 bottle of Ibuprofen Holes bitten in tongue and cramped fingers from with holding vile invective: another $4.99 bottle of ibuprofen and 1000 ice cubes Support for our troops and veterans: Priceless
 
HOOAH, KAT! I read this after I read John's rally response post above, and I'm happy to see that I'm not alone. I can't say that I'm looking for a fight, but I sure as hell won't back down from one if it's brought on.
 
Sigh. I'm just a wuss, I see. ;^ )
 
Being level-headed isn't being a wuss. It's being the voice of reason that us emotional types need to get our point across in a rational way. Just one more reason we luvs ya!
 
Kat, I'm just wondering if you'll be able to have an intelligent conversation with someone who proclaims her politics via her posterior...
 
I don't think it's possible to have an intelligent conversation with ANY of those Pinko Wacko's.
 
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Bravo, Kat. You have more self-control than I. I've never "lost it" with someone like that, but that's because I find I have to remove myself from the situation when approached because I'll either rip into someone or burst into tears of anger and frustration. I'll never forget the day that a sailor's wife told me that terrorists using children as decoys to get their IEDs close enough to kill soldiers (while saving themselves and letting the children die) was just more proof of how desperate they are--"Iraqis are so upset because we oppress them, that they are willing to sacrifice their children to be free." I was sure I had misunderstood, so I neutrally asked for clarification. She confirmed her idea that we were so cruel that the Iraqis were trying to shock us by sacrificing their children, and all I could do was squeak out, "Oh, I understand what you're trying to say, now." And then I left, feeling like I needed a shower and a blessing in order to rid me of something of incredible darkness.
 
See? Impulse control! Good on ya, FuzzyBee!
 
Yeah....I agree. Might not have much of a conversation with a person who puts their slogan on their butt.
 
The most frustrating aspect is that the CODE PINKERS and the rest of their ilk are beyond educating and convincing. Their minds are already made up, and they feel they are so much more intelligent and sensitive than we are, and they are so convinced of their own righteousness of purpose and are so motivated by emotion, that they can not be bothered with the facts, logic, or historical perspective. Others will thus claim that the 2 sides in this ideological conflict are basically the same, and will trot out the cliched tripe of moral relativism and cultural equivalence. But don't believe this inanity. It matters not how much one "feels" something is or should be true. We are right precisely because our opinions are based on objective facts, logic, reason, and historical perspective.
 
Gives a whole new meaning to "talking out of your a$$", eh? *snicker* I was at lunch recently with Keith's unit, when a man started talking trash to one of his Soldiers. He very calmly talked to the man, jaw clinched, and a "f u" smile on his face. When the man turned to me and asked something like "I bet SHE doesn't like seeing you all run off to war just because Bush ORDERED you to". I said, "Actually, I support both the President AND the war. Our Soldiers are accomplishing great things over there- you just never hear about it on the nightly news." He said something else, then shut up, realizing it wasn't going to get him the fist fight he was hoping for. Later, in the parking lot, Lane (the Soldier he was initially talking to) told me that the man accused him of being an armchair quarterback, eating in "fine" restaurants (we were at Ryan's for pete's sake), while REAL Soldiers are going to war. Lane's a combat vet, and told him so. It was an ugly conversation, and I was DAMN proud of the way Lane handled himself. On the inside, he was boiling, as was I... but on the outside, we were both handing him a smackdown in the most polite way possible.
 
Oustanding read, Kat. But let me snark that she has Code Pink right where it needs to be...under her tuckus. Shows the level of rectal-cranial inversion. I called my congressman's office here in Jawjuh yestiddy and asked his local Guy about Ahmadinejad's impending visit to Ground Zero. First he said that was 'Noo Yawk.' Then he said "But those people killed Americans." From what I understand, a few locals here are going up to New York to let Ahmadinejad know He Is Not Welcome.
 
From what I understand, a few locals here are going up to New York to let Ahmadinejad know He Is Not Welcome. They won't be feelin' like the Lone Ranger when they get there. There's a Jersey contingent ready to roll, too.
 
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