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Just to make it clear...

Because from the comments, it's clear some people aren't reading closely, because I don't think the post is that badly written...

I support the Gathering of Eagles, Protest Warrior, Move America Forward. I thought the Gathering of Eagles rally last week was a good, positive event. I thought the presence of the Eagles and Protest Warriors at the Archives and Navy Memorial respectively was good.

And I said exactly that. (click the link to read the post and see the pics from the events)

Richard said:


Maybe the screaming on our side, bad as it may have seemed to you, was nothing more than a primal release for having to grin and bear it for the last SIX YEARS.

Just sayin


I understand the frustration - but descending to their level, however satisfying at the moment, doesn't advance the agenda where we're trying to win hearts and minds... the people who *aren't* there, and who's only contact with be via the images and words of the media.

Then ?intexas dropped by.

So was the 27 city Pro Troop Rally caravan that Move America Forward put energy into, was that counterproductive also???? The purpose of the rally in Washington was also to show Support for the Troops, get petitions signed for Congress and to protect monuments and memorials along the anti-war parade route.

Geez, nothing like insulting the very people that are trying to show the Troops that we support them. If you think that is counterproductive then you are rude. Why bother putting any energy into Supporting the Troops when YOU think it's soo damn counterproductive? (sarcasm) Must be nice to be king.

It helps when arguing with me about what I've said to... read what I said.

?inTexas- From your comment, I can only assume you perhaps didn't read the post closely, nor the comments. Possibly I pissed you off too early in the piece.

Which, in a sense, proves my point.

Read it again, and you'll see I said the Eagles rally was GOOD.

I also said that from a healthy democracy perspective, the ANSWER rally was good, though it didn't do much for me personally.

I also said that positioning ourselves along the path of the march, being present - and even being vocal - was good.

Ergo, my opinion of the 27 city Pro Troop Rally caravan that Move America Forward put energy into, is - demonstrably inferable from the post... GOOD.

What is *not* good, was the behavior of the small number of people, ON BOTH SIDES that turned that segment of the march into a hate fest. It doesn't matter who started it - it simply wasn't useful, outside, as Richard noted, a personal satisfaction on the part of those who did the ranting, and quite possibly counter-productive in the audience you're trying to reach - the great middle of this country, who don't want to be associated with hate-filled spewers of bile. Make no mistake - that's what it looks like on TV, even though most of the people who gave in to the impulse were just angry.

I didn't say one word critical of Move America Forward, the Eagles, nor ProtestWarrior, and the whole concept behind them - which I fully and financially support.

But I'll criticize the behavior of the people who tossed the F-bombs - ON BOTH SIDES. But let's face it - the other side doesn't read me, nor are they going to be influenced by me. So I'll try to influence the people who do. And the silent ones, who simply observe and make decisions we don't see until election day.

And hey, I'm a not a King. If I were a King in this business, I'd have been on the Eagles podium, but I wasn't on the program, was I? I did'nt have a backstage pass. Almost no one recognized me, though there were a lot of readers there.

I'm a supporter of the mission, the troops, and the cause.

And if we can't look at ourselves critically, then we're not being honest with ourselves.

The battle isn't for the hearts and minds of Move America Forward, or MoveOn.org - it's for all those people watching on TV.

Sorry if I annoyed you, but I'm sticking to my guns.

As for Kat's post below - I'm going to give her props up here, not just in the oft-times-not-read comments.

Bravo, Kat. Accosting her at that venue would have been inapt, if you couldn't keep your temper.

And if she had started something, and you managed a reasoned response - you'd have scored points - not with the people who might have stood up to argue in her defense, who are mostly likely lost to us anyway - but with the watchers, which is who we are fighting for.

Something that ?inTexas doesn't get. I have *access* in Congress now. So does Matt Burden. Greyhawk, while he may not have direct access, he's read.

I have *access* to White House staff - not outside that offered to other journalists, let's not delude ourselves - but I have email addresses, and people who respond to emails, people whose names we see and hear in the day to day life of the Republic.

I have access in the Pentagon, as does Matt, and, quite probably, Andi.

And we wouldn't, if we behaved, on our blogs and in public as some think is appropriate. A great amount in growth in the traffic to the Castle is people who didn't like blogs because they were, well, as one guy said in email - "bad biker bars." I've had emails from people who don't agree with me, but they give me a respectful read and think about what I say (and hate me for the sneaky Whatziss') precisely because this place is well behaved, and treats contrarians with respect, if not yielding to contrarian arguments.

*Those* are the people Move America Forward and Gathering of Eagles are fighting for - and in many cases, giving voice to.

We just need to do something the other side often can't.

Wear our adult pants. Just as screaming at your child having a temper tantrum isn't really a useful response, even if it's understandable, the same holds true for our response to the MoveOn people.

You can have passion, and act passionately, without screaming in people's faces. When you reach that point, you may not have lost the argument, per se, because they're screaming back at you - but you aren't arguing any more. You're having a temper tantrum.

Good on ya for being a grown-up. But don't be afraid to wear your Soldier's Angels stuff to things like that. It *is* exactly the point for us to be seen, if it may not always be appropriate to be heard.

Why is that important? One of the reasons I started this blog was to put out there in front of the public that there are people with basements full of guns who aren't crazed fanatics waiting for the final race war/End Times/invasion from Cuba. But precisely because people with basements full of guns who behave themselves aren't newsworthy, people only hear about the ones that are newsworthy, and let's face it - being on the news in that context usually isn't good.

My sister is not a fan of guns. And had no idea how extensive my collection was. And was supportive, in a non-reflective way, of arguments to limit the number and types of guns people could own.

She made the point of telling me that my blog showed her that there could be perfectly valid reasons people might have a basement full of weapons.

As have other people, some of whom were sent here by people who said - "Omigod! Go look at this nut to see why we've got to stop the madness!" and came away saying... "Hey, that guy is weird, tells bad jokes and takes bad pictures, but he's not a menace to society..." and rethought their position on the issue.

So - yes, we need to put ourselves out there, to make our voices heard, and let people know they aren't alone.

But doing it as a raving wingnut, who is hard to distinguish except by the slogan on the t-shirt from a raving moonbat, isn't the way to go about it.

Again, Good On Ya.

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As one of the "silent" readers, let me echo John's post. There is a big difference between standing for principles and not being afraid to speak out (when it's appropriate to do so) with a well-reasoned position and throwing a temper tantrum on the street. Most of the time, reasonable folks will listen to a well-reasoned discussion, even if they will never agree with your position. But a profanity-filled screeching match only clogs your listener's ears and closes their mind. Credibility is a valuable commodity, and we shouldn't take the chance on losing it with asinine behavior.
 
No one's ever accused me of being silent on issues I feel strongly about. And I do drop naughty words my kids aren't allowed to even come close to saying. However, when confronted with asshat anti-war pinko nutjobs, I really don't know what I'd do. I'm a very emotional person, as anyone who knows me will tell you. I don't take kindly to spitting on Veterans, burning the flag, or calling our troops "baby killers". And I honestly don't know how I'd react, but I hope my actions- and words- would show that I did put on my "adult pants" that day. As Chuck Z once said, I can argue without cussing... but it's not near as much fun most days.
 
I started a comment on your original post but cancelled it out since I figured that "the rulez" being one of the huge attractions of the Castle (along with all the regulars, of course)it was self evident that an argument to rise above the lizard brain to present our cases (and refute the MoveOn/CodePink types) was going to be more productive. I'm not sure I see a trend of disagreement with your point, maybe more of a knee jerk response to an initial impression..
 
Pogue - you aren't reading my email... some people are abiding by The Rulez, and sending their annoyance via email! It's not that bad - and certainly nothing like what happened during the Schiavo melt-down we had here, but it's enough that it was clear to me people didn't understand what I was after, and took it as a general slam on the counter protesting, which of course isn't what it was. Just a voice saying that going low wasn't productive. I know it's hard - as people here have commented. But that's what distinguishes adults from children. Impulse control. At least it's *supposed* to.
 
John, the post was perfectly fine as written, and clearly delineated exactly what you (and I) found to be objectionable. i just finished reading it again, and still can't understand what people could be mis-interpreting.
 
John, I have to agree with you that our primary "audience", in both the real world and the blogosphere, are those who we never notice, because they don't raise their voice or leave a comment ... ... but they do notice us, and what we do ... ... and also what we leave unchallenged. When it comes to myself, here are words I try to live by:
Revenge is a dish best served cold ... with cold logic, cool and collected reasoning, and cold, hard fact.
Publicly illustrating WHY the stupid are stupid is highly satisfying, especially when it can be seasoned with a little wit ... and buffered with basic human respect. That being said, when an adversary shifts from reason to parrottage, my own safeties begin to come off a little ... and particularly in the blogosphere, it starts to become a personal mission to pluck the feathers from the parrot-in-question. I am also reluctant to stand in the way of those "hotter heads" who stood beside us Saturday, as in my eyes they have earned ... by their own sweat and willingness to go into harm's way on our behalf ... the right to confront those who are not only our common adversaries, but in past times their tormentors, as they see fit. Whether it is wise for them to do so as they see fit, can be legitimately questioned, as you have done. But we also need to keep in mind, that just as there is a place for both rifles and shotguns, there is a place for the Cooler and Hotter among us ... good cops and bad cops, if you will ... in assuring that our leaders act to secure Life and Liberty. FWIW, here's a broader take on conservative/pro-victory activism, that I wrote a while back. I think it still applies today.
 
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Richard - I didn't stand in anyone's way - and the only one I commented to was the person with the bullhorn. And I was prepared to stand in someone's way if they went after that child. But other than that, I let them rant, just as I let the moonbats rant. I particularly liked the guy who just wandered down the line, pointing at his head, saying "I have a brain, I have a brain" And then I wrote and re-wrote these posts.
 
My humble apologies!! I am very sensitive to the support of the Troops and those who put the time, energy and finances into the Troop"s support. I have a bad habit of speaking my mind and I clearly took your article the wrong way. Keep up the great work and you can still be "king" (in a good way).
 
Well, s'okay, gave me something to write about this morning, eh? No harm, no foul. Play ball!
 
Thank you for your excellent observations on the two groups facing off. More commentary like this might actually help reduce the invective which passes for commentary on "the other side" these days. It is great to see a sensible reminder of the responsibilities of "free speech", rather than the usual diarrheal projectile bloviation that is so common today. May the force continue to be with you and yours.
 
Must be nice to be king. This made me laugh all day! I love that people visit this place, see how you are armed to the teeth and then nip at your heels. Not too bright. I do not understand how this turned into a big controversy. The first post was very clear. I think sometimes, here, just like out there, some people are looking for a reason to beef. It was as though the first post was just skimmed until a phrase caught the attention of someone looking for a reason to vent. I couldn't agree more with the thoughts expressed in the original post. I too feel the best response to the Code Pink/Answer/Rev. Phelps sort is to turn your back. I believe the only reson to show in DC in any number is to make sure you have the memorials protected from potential harm by knuckleheads. I was sorry I couldn't be there myself. Carry on, your highness!
 
Maggie - just to make sure it's noted - ?inTexas came back and things are all cleared up on that note. But there are some emailers who I suspect didn't come back. In most cases, no loss.
 
I guess, John, you were on the opposite side of Pennsylvania avenue from me, judging by the angle of the picture and by the attitude you described. On my side, the only screaming (just so you can be heard over the drums beaten by the antis) was about 'losers' and 'traitors', no cursing... In fact, the only cursing and bird flipping I saw were from the antis...
 
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